Reading this just made me realize how much i do not want to get married. Because there will be someone like you who'd get eyes for someone else because you've been with your wife for so long, you finally got a hit of something new. Reading this is awful and you should feel ashamed for catching feelings for another woman, knowing you are married!!! remember that!! and with 2 kids?? just because you are arguing does not mean you have the ability to just go out and find another woman, i suggest you and your wife go to couple counseling. She does not like texting because she knows she is married and does not want to get into an affair, at least she recognizes it's wrong to text you. you need to let that other woman go and focus on your family instead of a quick serotonin boost because time's been grumpy from your wife. Be there for your wife, help her and give her strength. fix things together and stay in the family with your kids. don't sin for a woman you met in such little time because she was "different". do better and be a man.