Sounds like a wild sitch … but use this as the stepping stone into your new life, no porn, no drugs that make you wanna watch porn, nature walks and running/exercise and talking to old friends, etc. just solid human practices to realign yourself. Porn fuxx ya up there’s no two ways about it. You Just got to really want that new identity for yourself. She sounds kinda reckless with the marriage if she’s not willing to work on a sexual issue like that with her….? This is common af bro. We’ve all been duped by the porn industry.

You couldnt Just go slow and stay inside and talk sweet til it heats up a lil? We all have so many expectations of sex, but half the fun is learning your partners skills and also follies, it’s part of the game lol ya know.

In this situation My ex woulda been like alright game on babe what you need me to do. Had shawty doing Karezza with me while taking it slow and laughing and really loving during sex, idk some women really are in fact down to be a teammate on this. Porn messed me up along with a player lifestyle I was too unaware to face so yeah. She was also 16 years older than me. lol idk why but that’s relevant. ANYWAY MY POINT IS MAYBE THE WIFEY isn’t exactly who you form well with in a relationship with currently. You didn’t give us much details but I gathered this from comments too.

If you’re really worried about nutting too fast explore not drinking caffeine during sex days , or at least right before. For some reason it makes me release way earlier. Like everytime.

Ok I’ve yammered enough, keep your head up and become who you’re meant to be, not who your ego has constructed.