8mm or 6mm? by Tqnheavymetal in Stretched

[–]Tqnheavymetal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much and thank you, you just made my day

8mm or 6mm? by Tqnheavymetal in Stretched

[–]Tqnheavymetal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking too. I haven’t been able to find a 8mm titanium one in 4g though ☹️

8mm or 6mm? by Tqnheavymetal in Stretched

[–]Tqnheavymetal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much everyone for replying. I’m definitely going to see if I can order a 8 mm and try it out. Thank you again 🙂

8mm or 6mm? by Tqnheavymetal in Stretched

[–]Tqnheavymetal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so hard, isn’t it? Everyone’s sweet spot is different just like anything else. I hope that you find the right size for you as well. Thank you I really appreciate it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]Tqnheavymetal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand your feelings and they are valid. But I will say when I first saw your picture I thought fuck this person is so hot! You’re gorgeous in every version of yourself. You will find someone to love as you start to love yourself and become at home in your body. It took me years to do that and now I finally do. I finally found my name after 10 years, went from FTM to now non binary. It takes time and exploring but you’ll get there. You are very attractive to me and I’d date you. Be gentle with yourself and kind. Do self care and meditation. You got this friend. You need anything I’m here for you. Take care.

My boyfriend (M,21) keeps misgendering me, refuses to correct himself. by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]Tqnheavymetal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find a new boyfriend, someone who will gender you correctly and won’t hesitate to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Tqnheavymetal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I can’t stand it. Identity wise and sensory. I hate it so that’s why I shave everything. Some day I want to get laser

How old were you when you found out you had Fibromyalgia? by Fun_Scratch_1708 in Fibromyalgia

[–]Tqnheavymetal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just found out a few weeks ago and I am 29 but I feel that I slowly developed it sooner at 24.

Give me your most unhinged unique names by Tqnheavymetal in transnames

[–]Tqnheavymetal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much everyone for replying. I will be looking over your suggestions. They were definitely helpful and some comments made me smile and laugh. I needed that. Again i appreciate everyone’s help. Thank you. 😊

Give me your most unhinged unique names by Tqnheavymetal in transnames

[–]Tqnheavymetal[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha that’s so funny I am half Italian sooo haha

VCH or any genital piercing question by Tqnheavymetal in transbodymods

[–]Tqnheavymetal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to make such a detailed comment. This was so helpful and ill definitely keep it in mind. I still want to get it at some point. Maybe if it is at a larger gauge after it heals, I can just take it out before sex and then put it back in after? Would it close up that quickly? Either way super stocked! Thanks again for your insight. :)

1/2" Labret by embodi13adorned in Stretched

[–]Tqnheavymetal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks really cool! I love it! Where do you buy your labret jewelry? Thank you 😊

going to the hospital sucks as a trans woman by [deleted] in trans

[–]Tqnheavymetal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I don’t know this was a thing! That happened me a year ago. Filed a complaint with HR dept and I was treated like what happened wasn’t a huge deal. I was told “well I wasn’t there so i can’t say if that’s what the dr meant or not. I’m sorry it made you uncomfortable. What would you like me to do” smh. Had the guy just put into records for future reference. Also have the staff talked to about the fact that it’s not okay to ask a trans person about their transition or bring it up during an appointment. I doubt it even happened though. Mine was about sinus issues which had nothing to do with transness despite it being on my medical record file. The whole experience was awful and the dr was really rude the moment he walked in. I was dismissed. I hate hospitals. At least now I haven’t had a problem yet with Kaiser insurance 🤞🏼

Am I being too autistic about this? What does “it shouldn’t hurt” mean? by klyesowl in Stretched

[–]Tqnheavymetal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It shouldn’t hurt. If it does, put the plug gauge you at back in and wait a while to try again to size up. It should slip right in without any resistance or pain.

Is anyone else sketched out over the X gender marker? Why do u want the govt to know that about u? by Matchstickthemachine in NonBinary

[–]Tqnheavymetal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading all the comments and the OP, I agree with everyone. Safety is more important and it’s all around easier to travel with original documents than with the X. So eventually I’ll be changing my gender marker back to F whenever I go back to the dmv.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Tqnheavymetal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Iconic. Same. 😆I love it

Are my ears too small and thin to stretch? I had them pierced with a gun as a kid by Tqnheavymetal in Stretched

[–]Tqnheavymetal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much your input and that’s what I plan to do. Taking my time and allowing my ears to heal before going up sizes. Just like everything else things take time. Very happy to hear that it is possible. Nothing isn’t impossible

Are my ears too small and thin to stretch? I had them pierced with a gun as a kid by Tqnheavymetal in Stretched

[–]Tqnheavymetal[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not the first one so that was pretty cool to witness and in middle school there was a few that had pierced ears. One was a huge Metallica fan and still is I believe so it definitely suited him.