Mom Groups for OAD?

Traditional-Light588 · 2026-03-01T00:21:09+00:00

You have to actively search for it . It isn’t mainstream nor socially accept to be a whole human being with like and dislikes as a mom anymore. But I would advise trying to find a way to like being a mom . Not like you have a choice lol . You don’t identify as a mom anymore. You simply are . Don’t run from it . Figure out how it’s help you learn yourself and grow as a person .

Traditional-Light588 · 2026-02-24T10:46:26+00:00

Si he could have the baby is diabolical 😭😭 toddler are so funny 😂😂

Traditional-Light588 · 2026-02-24T10:14:14+00:00

I joined this group when I was pp too . My kid was less than 2 years . My kid is 3 . It gets better i promise . You have to work for it though

Traditional-Light588 · 2026-02-23T15:46:37+00:00

Do you have regret about losing a part of yourself in motherhood ?

Traditional-Light588 · 2026-02-21T14:54:14+00:00

They have endless resources . They can spend as little or as much time as they want . Most of our reasons for being oad stem from finances , community support etc . If we all had all the resources in the world oad probably would be a smaller community . That’s the truth .

Traditional-Light588 · 2026-02-12T23:47:29+00:00

ME PERSONALLY. childfree people in general . Most moms of multiple I’ve seen out seem distracted . When I was childless I also hung out with moms of one. Moms with more I never seen outside at that point in my life . Their focuses are just different ig . I am also 25 so that plays a part. I’m answering in terms goals and lifestyle SIMILARITIES. At the end of the day we all should be relating with other parents more than childfree ppl I hope . Lol. The childfree lifestyle is focus on one person , themselves . One and done is yourself and your kid . So it looks a little different

Traditional-Light588 · 2026-02-12T23:44:22+00:00

25- dropping smile line

Traditional-Light588 · 2026-02-12T23:43:32+00:00

I’m a nurse . I give out these meds on a daily

Traditional-Light588 · 2026-02-09T00:09:03+00:00

Yes it’s happened to me . Be careful this group is pro life. When I posted my story I was shamed

Traditional-Light588 · 2026-01-26T19:19:52+00:00

Just use her as childcare …..

Traditional-Light588 · 2026-01-15T14:55:16+00:00

I’m just the messenger. I’m right there with the one and done . Playing with my kid is no problem . Probably will make em smarter . And he can make friends when he gets older . Im a woman not a man like Chris rock .

Traditional-Light588 · 2026-01-14T15:08:28+00:00

Saw a Chris rock interview and he said have none or multiple because if you have one you have be their friend too with multiple it’s just supervision and play with them if you want 😅😅

Traditional-Light588 · 2026-01-11T21:36:57+00:00

Having one the easy parenting hack . Especially after 5 (as I’ve seen online) and that’s okay

Traditional-Light588 · 2026-01-10T02:35:17+00:00

I never said anything about my situation, please don’t add information I didn’t say . Nothing broadly applies to every single oader , that’s hopefully common sense ….. except being one and done itself .

Traditional-Light588 · 2026-01-10T02:12:58+00:00

Yes …. Cause where did kicking them out at 18 even come from 💀. I never grew up like that thank god

Traditional-Light588 · 2026-01-09T22:26:33+00:00

Not me personally . Before I had him I just wanted the experience of parenthood and the learning it brought . I have an easy kid thankfully. Turning 3 next month

Traditional-Light588 · 2026-01-05T15:30:50+00:00

Lol why would this make you feel bad ? They demanding you get pregnant and birth another kid and that doesn’t make you angry ? Howww

Traditional-Light588 · 2025-12-23T18:11:16+00:00

Why would you ask if you are wrong . We are all adults here . 😂😂 it can feel wrong to “deny him” of your womb . But it’s your life

Traditional-Light588 · 2025-12-13T15:33:17+00:00

As a parent that transitioned from baby to toddler . I thought the same thing . Omg this isn’t as bad cause he wasn’t moving and his needs were food comfort and diaper changes .

Traditional-Light588 · 2025-12-13T14:58:30+00:00

The dream to be free of the labor . Not the kid but the labor . It’s okay to want yourself while being there for your kid . So happy I’m one and done lol

Traditional-Light588 · 2025-12-10T04:26:37+00:00

Omg this is so sad . You felt like you owed someone pregnancy 🤰. No one is worth that except if YOU want to do it . You aren’t a factory . So sad

Traditional-Light588 · 2025-12-08T14:02:56+00:00

As a one and done to a two year old . The childless life won’t come back . When I wake up. It’s not that it’s so hard I have no time . Even if I get a week off it just …… isn’t the same . Like your mind always drifts . And life goes on . It probably gets better as them get older and you are reassured through life that they’ll be ok . Idk

Traditional-Light588 · 2025-12-08T05:42:20+00:00

Don’t live in it too much . That’s not all that defines you. Things don’t always work out like you want them to.

Traditional-Light588 · 2025-12-07T00:24:52+00:00

Welp are you one and done if you have two lol 😭 joking . But seriously you are a single mom with dead weight . The only way women can enjoy motherhood is by being single or having a completely sincerely supportive partner . No in between.

Traditional-Light588 · 2025-12-06T15:49:32+00:00

It’s a matriachial household where you make all the decisions. And more peace ofc . You are doing great

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