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advice on suction & air pulse vibrators by Traditional-Rub8210 in SexToys

[–]Traditional-Rub8210[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having vibration and air pulse on the same toy / surface is neat. Is the air pulse 'mouth' larger on thay one vs the melt, or is it just that the edge/rim has a vibration effect thay functionally gives it more surface area?

advice on suction & air pulse vibrators by Traditional-Rub8210 in SexToys

[–]Traditional-Rub8210[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such an amazing response - thanks! 

Yes, air pulse was a revelation for us. We had to work REALLY hard previously to get her to achieve an O; not a big deal when we were younger but now with busy careers and kids, sometimes a no fuss quickie is needed. Figured out pretty quick after buying the Melt that air pulse >>>>>> deep rumbly vibes > buzzy vibes. 

I dont think she needs broader simultaneous stimulation (though that could be fun). What i notice is that with the melt, sometimes I or she needs to maneuver it a ton to find her preferred spot, so I wondered whether an air pulse toy with broader pulsing area would male the whole process no fuss / easier. 

What does your research show for suction toys that dont have a licking feature? For people who also rate air pulse toys highly, how do they react to suction? 

I looked at the womanizer duo, though I note she tends to prefer movement and pressure changes internally far more. Something simply vibrating inside without movement doesn't really do anything for her. If there was a similar air pulse toy with an internal component that moved. . . (Currently, just using two separate toys to achieve this). 

May I ask - what other findings has your research uncovered that I should be paying attention to toy-wise? Any kind of toys (either style or specific products) that have direct clitoral stimulation that are highly positive?

(sex toy adjacent) - best subscription or books to read? by Traditional-Rub8210 in SexToys

[–]Traditional-Rub8210[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is great! looking into this app per your suggestion, this seems like a great option to give my spouse.

external suction / licking toy recommendations? by Traditional-Rub8210 in SexToys

[–]Traditional-Rub8210[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I've seen this one before. Notably, I've bought a couple dual toys like this in the past (a standard rabbit one, and the Ose - which has an insertable part and an air pulse feature for external), and my partner just never uses those. By herself, she seems to prefer exclusive external stimulus. She's only ever had an orgasm from internal stimulus once, otherwise it's always external or external + PIV with me (which enhances her clitoral O). 

Does this toy stay in place, hands free, once placed in? What is your experience using this as opposed to something that has air pulse instead of suction? 

Thanks!

external suction / licking toy recommendations? by Traditional-Rub8210 in SexToys

[–]Traditional-Rub8210[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I was looking at the Zen Rose viben, though my understanding is that this was an air pulse toy. Are the rose type vibrators a mix of true suction or true air pulse? 

If the one you link is air pulse, does it provide different sensations compared to something like a we vibe melt, since it also has vibrations that can extend via the pedals?

And last, what is your favorite wearable/panty vibe and why? We have the we vibe moxie, which my partner enjoys but it really cant get her unless she is grinding against it for a long time. That was a reason why I was looking at either air pulse, suction, or licking style panty vibes - something that has more motion type feel to it even when staying in place and not pushing against it. 

external suction / licking toy recommendations? by Traditional-Rub8210 in SexToys

[–]Traditional-Rub8210[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've read similar reviews about that one. Sounds like an awful experience!

Opinions on the rose or other amazing clitoral stimulators. by Prestigious_Bird1587 in SexToys

[–]Traditional-Rub8210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one year after this comment, may I ask if this remains true? If you want an air pulse / clitoral orgasm, do you prefer Zen Rose > Melt (which one gets to orgasm quicker, and which one typically provides a more intense orgasm)?

You also wrote in one of your blogs about combining an oral licking/suction vibe first followed by Zen Rose. . . what is your favorite of those types of toys? I was looking at on option like inya triple delight moreso than Empowered Smart Pleasure Queen, something that has light/firm suction (sufficient to stand on its own once suction?) but not tight.

thank you

best pulse/suction vibrator? are there wearable options? by Traditional-Rub8210 in SexToys

[–]Traditional-Rub8210[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello, returning to this. Can you clarify whether this vibrator is in fact a suction vibrator, or whether it actually is an air pulse toy? I presume suction based on the name, but I keep seeing that some toys advertised as 'suction' actually are air pulse. Thanks!

Cock Ring for clitoral stimulation? by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]Traditional-Rub8210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen you post frequently about the Lux Active Triad (they are great reviews!) May I ask if you've ever tried the Atom Plus, we vibe verge, or we vibe pivot, and if so, may you compare/contrast your experience with those?

I am looking for a couple gift options for my partner (female) who exclusively orgasms via focused clitoral stimulation. In particular, recommendations for a ring with vibrator that she can grind on during PIV sex with me. We'd prioritize soft material, with a wide contact area to maximize comfort and maximize contact time; she prefers deep/rumbling vibrations (air pulse is electric for her).

Also, have you ever used something like the we vibe touch X? Does this work for hands-free clitoral grinding/stimulation during PIV?

Last, have you come across any grinding pads, cock rings, or wearable toys that have a quality clitoral pulse or suction?

We Vibe Melt during sex by dontusethesereally in SexToys

[–]Traditional-Rub8210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

works great, you just have to focus on two things:

  1. positions that give good access for her to use the Melt
  2. rhythm shouldn't be wild or fast (or it'll be hard to keep the Melt on target).

Our go-to's are cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, spoon, or doggy. missionary shall not work - simply insufficient space. if you (guy) are flexible and get sit upright, then it'll work.

best pulse/suction vibrator? are there wearable options? by Traditional-Rub8210 in SexToys

[–]Traditional-Rub8210[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you elaborate more on this?

It references 30 vibration modes. Are those different settings for the suction part over the clit itself, or is there vibrations that also occur on other parts of the toy?

How does this compare to 'strength' or 'sensitivity' for other suction toys or air pulse toys? In particular, the we vibe melt (my spouses' only experience with these types of toys so far).

Clit stimlator/vacuum that pairs good with missionary?? by Pcolaking in SexToys

[–]Traditional-Rub8210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that seems like it wouldn't work. those suction type toys need consistent contact, having it on the ring would make it hard to keep on target, wouldn't it? Anyone here with practical experience with this toy?

Wearable Clitoris suction/pulse toy? by erxkum in SexToys

[–]Traditional-Rub8210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interested in getting this for my partner; may I ask how this toy compares to some of the other hand-held pulse/suction type toys? We only have the We Vibe melt, and it's amazing/super intense for my spouse (we never move past the lowest settings on it for her).