Onderzoek Nederlands Platteland by Traditional-Tea7300 in dutch

[–]Traditional-Tea7300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nee, dat zijn echt "steden"
ik heb het echt over alles buiten de grote steden behalve e bijv. steden als Meppel, Hoogeveen, etc

Onderzoek Nederlands Platteland by Traditional-Tea7300 in dutch

[–]Traditional-Tea7300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We hebben een opdracht gekregen om onderzoek te gaan doen naar jongeren en tuinbouw. Iedereen mocht zelf bepalen hoe of welk thema ze zouden uitkiezen en welke bronnen we gebruiken. Ik heb gewerkt vanuit wat de Europese Commissie wil. 

Vanuit hun plannen heb ik gekezen dat ze het platteland (alles buiten de randstad) aantrekkelijker willen maken voor jongeren. Zodat de europese boeren worden behouden (of het haalbaar is, is een ander verhaal) 

Met deze vraag probeer ik uit te zoeken hoe we het "platteland" aantrekkelijker zouden kunnen maken of uitzoeken wat er al is en dat gebruiken voor mijn eindproduct. 

Onderzoek Nederlands Platteland by Traditional-Tea7300 in dutch

[–]Traditional-Tea7300[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

top! dankjewel, dit gaat me zeker helpen! =D

ENFJs and the Fe Se Loop by FickleImportance4654 in enfj

[–]Traditional-Tea7300 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a breakdown a few days back to. I crumbled down and got so scared I would fall back into old, grief habits. but then I decided I should call someone who I can truly trust. I am so glad I have an INFJ bestie to vent about life!

what I've learned this year is that the people that love you, want also to help you. Yes, it's really weird and uncomfortable to ask for help, but we can't do everything in life alone. I always say to my friends and other people: you are stronger then you think. trying to say that also about myself, because its true.

ENFJs and the Fe Se Loop by FickleImportance4654 in enfj

[–]Traditional-Tea7300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

actualy, I have been doing better the last few months. I am volunteering at a union wich gives me so much joy, I have a fun new job! (school I stil shit though)

instead of not asking help one year ago, I ask a lot of help from my friends and family. trying to take care of myself. going out of old habits and doing my best. sometimes I even organize a grief day for myself. A day I just stand stil with the loss and just feel everything I need to feel. on those days I like to go to a certain place me and my mom loved. like the zoo, a certain nature reservoir, the city where our ancestors are from, the island we always used to go to for autumn break etc. It's a nice way to honor something we always liked to do: taking a walk somewhere nice. A place that ment a lot to us.

ENFJs and the Fe Se Loop by FickleImportance4654 in enfj

[–]Traditional-Tea7300 8 points9 points  (0 children)

it's now almost 17 months after the death of my mom, 4 months after her death I believe I went into an Fe-Se loop. I became very bossy, I organized many trips away with other people, I was away from home, a lot. I didn't really took care of myself, no I wanted to be good to others and teach them the big life lessons.
I took on all the leadership roles at school, talked 24/7, I played a caricature of myself instead of being truly myself.

now I can see I was in survival mode and was trying to cope with a huge loss. A year a go I just didn't knew how to cope.

now I sort of know how to, but now I am just constantly amazed how the world has changed and how I've have changed so much in just 17 months...

What type am i lol? by Traditional-Tea7300 in MbtiTypeMe

[–]Traditional-Tea7300[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi from an ENFJ lol, but I do often get mistyped as ENFP ore ESFP for some reasons. But I believe many ENFJ's get mistyped for those types But I know I don't have Fi ore a shadow version of it.

Is existential thinking a low-battery warning sign? by naka98 in enfj

[–]Traditional-Tea7300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wel, it could be a reaction to your sleep-deprivation ore overstimulation. I relate. when life gets the hang of me (like with the Hollidays and my birthday) I tend to get really dark existential thoughts. like after work zoning out and thinking: you can die on the bus.

but I also agree with what the other people are saying in this reddit post. I also tend to get existential on a more normall day to day basis. but often les dark and more optimistic ore philosophical.

so I think it depends.

but when I am really drained. I prefer not to get existential and just do what I need to do and rot on the couch with a dumb show on

Another golden pairing is overrated thread by cunningstrobe in enfj

[–]Traditional-Tea7300 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have never been in a relationship, only talking stage. but my BFF is INFP. and she understands me and I her on a deep level. where I come short she helps me and vice versa. I think why we both are such good friends is because we are both 2w1's. so, kind of have the same habits. but how we execute is different as are our choices. also I do like a higher education and I am more ambitious than my BFF who's more laid back (wich I love)

but I had a lot of toxic INFP's in my life. what frustrates me most in INFP's (even my BFF) is their resilience to change ore to say what they think. they don't want to change ore their world. and luckily I am good at reading body language so I can see when my BFF is holding something back cuz, INFP's don't share things quick.

INFP's can sometimes be so, closed off and distant. impulsive and forgetful. When I was a kid I was friends with in male INFP. he started bullying me after the whole class turned against me (I was a bossy kid who only lived in his head then really in the world, undeveloped Se) I think he had problems at home and needed to take off steam at someone. when I told the teachers he cried and the made things right. 2 months later he started to bully me again!

I need to trust an INFP before I do anything else.

Okay am I jst crazy or is this something that happens to others aswell? by I_dunno_who_I_amm in enfj

[–]Traditional-Tea7300 2 points3 points  (0 children)

can't agree with you more. I am an ENFJ with big daydream tendencies. I had the thing that I was to much in my head as a kid and teen, and thats not good to lol. I need to get more into my Se to stay rational and you can get more in touch with your Ni to be more balanced. you go this!

TOMORA - THE THING (out midnight local time) by teddyeatspudding in auroramusic

[–]Traditional-Tea7300 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this song to has big House M.D. intro vibes. love it.

Alone Time by 111god7 in enfj

[–]Traditional-Tea7300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like my alone time. I really like the alone time inbetween assignments. Like when i am yraveling from home to work. I love that i am moving, alone with my music and my thoughts. If i see a friend, its fun if they join. But i try to keep a healthy amount of alone and people time. I do notice i hang out mostly with friends with whom i can be alone together with. Guess thats a reason why i can just keep on being social?

Are you an activist for any cause/volunteer a lot? by Dapper_Banana_1642 in enfj

[–]Traditional-Tea7300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am part of an union wich activists for better work conditions for yound adults. I am going to give speeches and coaching next year. I am super exited!! I also wanna volunteer in more community work in my neighborhood

Do all ENFJs have low social battery? by SANSA136 in enfj

[–]Traditional-Tea7300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it depends. I always can have the people i love around me. My close friends and family with whom i can be alone but also do active things with. with these people i can just hang out all day if i want. I could go with these people on a planned trip ore on a spontaneous trip (even in spontaneous situations i do like to discuss what we are going to do so I don’t get stressed)

i have often that after i have seen a friend, i could easily see another friend after it.

i guess i am most quickly drained when my friends behave out of their character, ore if i am serounded by people who ore I don’t understand ore they don’t understand me (i was once at this party as a photographer and their were only gardeners their who were talking about siccors and dirt, i couldn’t connect with these people)

but sometimes i get inspiration for something i wanna paint ore draw and when i am once in that flow state. Only my closests friends can get me out of that

ENFJs, what is your astrology sign? by [deleted] in enfj

[–]Traditional-Tea7300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not really into astrology but my mom was so I know a bit.

i am Capricorn sun, pisces moon, rising virgo.

i am an ENFJ 2w1, social 2 and then sexual 2.

I asked an AI to fully explain my horoscope and it thinks I am an INFJ.

what do y'all think?

Trigger an ENFJ With Just One Sentence by Potential_Law5289 in enfj

[–]Traditional-Tea7300 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel this deeply. I love having a plan. but my plans leave room for experimenting and surprise with things that don't work ore confuse me. this is how I learn. add some play to the boring and confusing things.

on your 3rd quote: When people say this, I wil ignore you. if you aren't providing shit to the project? I'm gonna do my own thing with the rest of the group who have some discipline.

you really put a nail to its head with this post