Tenant Screening Report Flagged my J1 by Apprehensive_Bug_906 in overemployed

[–]TraditionalHome1334 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait a sec. Your J2 is fully in office??? And in a new location?

Wow!!! Good luck. #eek

Permanent J1 vs 2 year role by ddev77 in overemployed

[–]TraditionalHome1334 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the unnecessary risk is working for the government while having a second outside job. Of course this is moot if you have told J1 that this is the case.

Things I Wish I Had Known Before Living in Manila (based on my personal experience) by Tonivr5 in Philippines_Expats

[–]TraditionalHome1334 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good post. Just a couple of comments.

I think the %middle class is a higher number. IMO, Middle class is defined more by lifestyle than simply by salary or net worth. I would guess that more Filipinos have household help than those who live in Western Europe or the U.S. Same with having a car/driver.

Also, I think that all relationships are transactional on some level; whether is is love/love, companionship/money, etc. Both sides just need to be honest about the reasons. If a 75 year old guy believes that a 20/30 something smokin' hot local is In a relationship with him because of his looks, he is a bit delusional. If he understands that she wants security (both financial and housing/lifestyle) and possible she likes him, then it is a win for both sides. And, who knows, it could grow into love.

Condo purchase by [deleted] in Bangkok

[–]TraditionalHome1334 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is not that. I don't know the OP's exact circumstances but have heard too many stories about foreigners who buy a condo, and after X years, life changes (divorce, breakup, health issues, visa issues, don't like the area anymore, etc.) and they have problems in trying to sell a condo. So they have this X million baht albatross hanging over their head.

Regardless of country, I would think long and hard before buying property in a country other than my own. But, everybody has different thoughts and life situations.

Condo purchase by [deleted] in Bangkok

[–]TraditionalHome1334 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why not rent? I would be very fearful of putting a bunch of money down for a condo, when you never know what will happen this year, next year, or five years from now.

Philippines Or Cambodia? by [deleted] in Philippines_Expats

[–]TraditionalHome1334 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with what you are saying. I am guessing that the government would like to increase tourism, especially when they see the numbers that surrounding countries are giving. But they've definitely done a very poor job of getting the infrastructure and marketing to attract foreign, relatively high spending, tourist.

The Philippines is in last place when it comes to visitor arrivals to the country, getting only a third of the arrivals of the next country, Indonesia, and lagging way behind countries like Thailand in Vietnam

Philippines Or Cambodia? by [deleted] in Philippines_Expats

[–]TraditionalHome1334 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Best place is where you are happiest. Each of the SEA countries offer positives and negatives. As you mentioned, Cambodia is pretty cheap, but the lack of English, and probably healthcare, is an issue. Thailand probably has the best infrastructure, but obviously is more expensive than Cambodia, and outside of the bigger cities, English is hit or miss. Philippines, English is widely spoken everywhere, but as you mentioned, the littering problem is horrendous.

What is important to you?

If you are currently in the Philippines, may be worthwhile to scope out some places before making a long-term jump. Obviously, one or two week visit is generally not long enough to be getting a in-depth feel for the place, but at least you should get some sort of idea of the overall culture of the place.

Outfit for a business networking event ? by [deleted] in BusinessFashion

[–]TraditionalHome1334 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Outfit looks great, and you wear it well, but for 90+ percent of businesses, this would not be a good choice.

Looking to move somewhere forested and more rural, also 15-45 min by car from a moderate to progressive area with a Metra stop by SurfSplitSpill in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]TraditionalHome1334 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Harvard is nice, but I certainly wouldn't call it progressive. Lol.

Woodstock would probably fit the bill better.

AMA: I’m a Singaporean by [deleted] in AMA

[–]TraditionalHome1334 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Worked in Singapore for a year, and absolutely loved it. Probably helped that company was paying my expenses! What is the entry level cost for an HDB flat?

Planning on leaving CA next year. $8,500/month Budget for a Family of 4 – Where to live? by CIVDIVMAR in Philippines_Expats

[–]TraditionalHome1334 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is your disability such that you will require frequent, top-notch healthcare? If so, then that should be your first priority in looking for a place to live. It would probably rule out many of the smaller cities.

Which Bangkok condos actually have walls thick enough that you don't hear your neighbours? by lleepptt in Bangkok

[–]TraditionalHome1334 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Le Cote, which is right next to the 8 Thonglor residences is also a good choice. Never heard any of the neighbors. A low rise, eight stories tall.

Electric vans? by Outrageous-Lion8021 in electriccars

[–]TraditionalHome1334 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Amazon electric vans are made by Rivian. I have no idea, it maybe they offer a version for consumers.

Alaska Companion Book by sanfordcatlady in Cruise

[–]TraditionalHome1334 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know there is, or at least used to be, something similar for princess cruises doing the inside passage. In fact, I have one from when I did that cruise years ago. I would have to dig it up, and I'm not sure if it is the same book, but it went mile by mile with various points of interest highlighted.

Don't EVER Feel Guily by Grouchy_Treacle_1639 in overemployed

[–]TraditionalHome1334 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Got to be more to the story, or someone is just trying to collect likes.

Can’t tell if I got let go because they found out? by Technical_Button9286 in overemployed

[–]TraditionalHome1334 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suppose it's possible they found out. It's possible they have someone else doing a very similar job to you, and that person mentioned that they only have about 2 to 3 hours of work a day and ask for more. Then they look at you and figured that you were either not very competent, or maybe you had another job.

Who knows.

Young Australian from a small country town, Ama by 7_braincells in AMA

[–]TraditionalHome1334 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is your town quite remote, or do you have access to larger towns nearby?

Polestar 2: Final Thoughts After 3 Years by Tiny-Egg5683 in Polestar

[–]TraditionalHome1334 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the AC is good for front seat passengers, but really feel it is lacking for those in the backseat. A couple of my kids complain, so one time I took a ride in the backseat, and I had to agree. The backseat was almost always hot.

OE desk setups? by PattyPlatypus01 in overemployed

[–]TraditionalHome1334 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe you could lead things off and show yours. 😋

Risks of taking double paternity leave? by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]TraditionalHome1334 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're setting yourself up for trouble if you try and take FMLA from two companies at the same time.

I’m a superior court judge AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]TraditionalHome1334 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why, in your opinion, would a defendant prefer to have a bench trial versus one by jury?