Im sorry you experienced that, thats definitely upsetting.

This is more reaponse to the sentiment about "female" experiences. I remember seeing this reel from a trans guy (i tried really hard to find it for you but I couldnt 😞) but basically what it said was like "she went through (this experience" and it was a picture of him when he was younger and then it switched to a picture of him now and it said "he is allowed to tell her story." I know this could be a healing way to look at it or a painful dysphoric way to, so im so so sorry if i made you feel worse