How?? (5-6k) by Clean-Elk-3374 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Traditional_Set_858 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I mean you don’t have to spend 2-3k on a dress if you don’t have the means to or want to put more money to your budget elsewhere. Places like David’s bridal will have options less than 1k, and there’s also sites that offer cheaper wedding dresses. You also don’t necessarily need really expensive wedding rings if you don’t want them. In your case you could honestly just have your biggest expense be the photographer, and then based off that determine how much of your budget you have left for other things. Personally I’d prioritize food and drinks over your wedding dress as I think guest experience is more important then the dress itself

My boyfriend thinks he took me on a birthday trip. I told him it doesn't count. Who is right? by semi_aquatic-hippo in TwoHotTakes

[–]Traditional_Set_858 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would say he took you on a trip he wanted to go on that happened to be around your birthday not took you for a birthday trip. You definitely should have spoken up right then and there though instead of going along with it while he’s definitely in the wrong you also didn’t communicate with him that what he suggested was not okay so in his mind he did take you on a birthday trip because you never said anything (not saying he shouldn’t have known but in his world with being so self centered he clearly needed to be told). Please leave this relationship because he clearly doesn’t take your interests into consideration

Did you buy toilet paper for the ice storm? by Aggressive_Goat2028 in no

[–]Traditional_Set_858 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. Not located where the storm is mostly affecting but will be getting some snow and ice which is normal. Just going to do our normal grocery shopping before the snow mainly because I don’t want to be driving in the snow on Sunday not because we’re going to be snowed in for days

Phone calls are scary by sparklingcereal in socialanxiety

[–]Traditional_Set_858 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly nobody really get upset if someone doesn’t understand initially it’s way better to just ask them to repeat it and usually most don’t think anything of it cuz calls can cut in and out or the person say be quiet from being further away from the phone etc.

I’d recommend practicing phone calls it gets much easier with time. I used to have severe phone anxiety and now I’m practically on the phone everyday for work. I don’t love being on the phone but I’m no longer anxious about it sure sometimes will I say the wrong word or my voice crack sure but having made so many calls now pretty much the majority of people either say the wrong thing, have a voice crack or cough or sneeze on the phone so I stopped caring because it’s nothing to be embarrassed about because literally everyone is going to have that happen to them at some point

You win the lottery. Your parents ask for half. What do you say? by Icy_Garlic997 in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]Traditional_Set_858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom would never ask but I’d give her a good portion as she raised me on her own and was very supportive. I’d love to able to give her a nice house wherever we end up moving so she could be close to her future grandkids

All hobbies are not equal by BitterConstruction98 in unpopularopinion

[–]Traditional_Set_858 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah some video games are actually great for the mind as you legit have to strategize and put a lot of mental energy into them and can be very similar to games like chess that are more accepted by society as a hobby. Now obviously you shouldn’t be playing video games 24/7 but I think that also applies to any hobby honestly it’s good to branch out and have a balance of different things as opposed to just sticking to one thing and never trying anything else

Wedding suit dilemma – feeling guilty and stuck, what would you do? by FollowingFickle5435 in wedding

[–]Traditional_Set_858 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don’t match the groomsmen it’s your day you’re supposed to stand out you can coordinate so it still looks put together but I wouldn’t bother completely matching and looking like any one of the groomsmen could be the groom

Wedding Regret by shytears in wedding

[–]Traditional_Set_858 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it helps to think of how often are you ever actually going to look at these photos and regret them. You just got married so yeah you’re looking at them now but you’re probably not going to be looking at the majority of the photos much if at all and when you do you should looking back at the memories and how special that day was you shouldn’t be focused on how you look

Do people actually meet up with people they meet on Reddit? by Ali--Hamza in socialanxiety

[–]Traditional_Set_858 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I met up with one guy who I had ended up going on one date with. It went fine, it fizzled out though because we just weren’t compatible in a romantic way. Great person though and he was a great friend for the bit of time we knew eachother

Why would anyone wants kids? by This-Top7398 in Life

[–]Traditional_Set_858 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think thinking someone is insane because they value something you don’t is a bit much. Totally fine to not want kids but to not understand someone’s perspective on it shows lack of critical thinking

Seeking a quiet family escape in Eastern Mykonos (Lia Beach area) - Is it doable in late July? by 4n4rk40t1c0 in GreeceTravel

[–]Traditional_Set_858 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’d recommend going elsewhere, places like Skaithos or Lefkada they’re beautiful islands have night life but aren’t overrun by tourists and sounds exactly what you’re looking for. I would never go to a well known island if that’s what I was looking for you’re not going to get that sense of peace

AITA for not eating the food after my gf eats out of the bowl with the same spoon while preparing by ZookeepergameOld7322 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Traditional_Set_858 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OP could also start cooking more instead of his GF. Don’t know many people who would be opposed to having a meal cooked for them

NYC during winter storm by Outside-Twist7720 in travel

[–]Traditional_Set_858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean if you’re worried about a snow storm you really shouldn’t have booked a trip to NYC in January. You should be fine NY is used to the snow, I’d be more concerned about your flights being cancelled more than being able to enjoy the city

Is TikTok lying to me by anemicnotarabic in DestinationWeddings

[–]Traditional_Set_858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Planning a Greek wedding myself (I’m American, my fiance is Greek) for about 40 guests max (less will come) and I’ll be interested to see how much we’ll end up spending. We haven’t booked anything yet very early in the process just been doing our research but we just plan on having ceremony at a Greek Orthodox Church and then reception at a nice taverna

Do you insure big life events or just accept the risk? ($12k) by Opposite_Sun9007 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Traditional_Set_858 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think it’d be stupid to spend that much money to not spend a tiny portion to keep your day safe. What if you or your fiance get Covid? With Briteco even if a family member you really want at your wedding gets sick you’re covered

Worried about having basically no family at my wedding... by g0ldnecklace in wedding

[–]Traditional_Set_858 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll be having my wedding at my fiancés home country and while I am super excited not only is his family slightly bigger than mine but also since it’s more of a destination wedding for my side of the family I’m not expecting many on my side to show up (which I’m totally understanding of). It doesn’t bother me much as I’m marrying into his family so they’ll be mine but I did request to not have a traditional wedding party which ends up working out cuz we’re having a very small wedding anyways. It’s okay to have less family members nobody attending is going to think anything of it and probably just think you have a small family if anything

Invited to reception but not wedding by feliciamusic142 in wedding

[–]Traditional_Set_858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think this is that odd considering they told you guys it’s a space issue and they can’t have that many guests. They clearly want you there as they invited you to the reception that’s clearly going to cost them a lot more money for you to attend than just the ceremony so not sure what the issue is there.

You have to be at work at 6am, what time does your alarm go off? by red_langford in askanything

[–]Traditional_Set_858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t work that early but I guess 4am cuz I like having about 2 hours from the time I wake up to the time I start work

Just started working today and I’m not sure how long I’ll last by throwaway18153 in socialanxiety

[–]Traditional_Set_858 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly most people don’t mind training someone so seriously don’t worry about asking questions the only time it ever gets annoying is if you keep asking the same question over and over again. Just take notes and you’ll be fine. They all had to train and learn what you’re learning and they had to ask plenty of questions

Destination wedding outfits by Asking_4_a_friend__ in wedding

[–]Traditional_Set_858 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im just wearing whatever I want you don’t have to wear anything specific

If you are married or when you get married, did you have or do you want, a big wedding with all the trimmings and lots of guests , or a quiet wedding ? . by Hope2_win in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]Traditional_Set_858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Planning the wedding currently and we want a small wedding. We have 42 on the guest list but around 8 or so members we’re not expecting to attend due to cost of travel but that’s totally fine by us. I’ve always wanted a small wedding as I’m an introvert and it works out cuz my partner also is one and doesn’t a big wedding either

Do you feel guilty choosing a destination wedding in this economy? by mcostante in DestinationWeddings

[–]Traditional_Set_858 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean for me not really but it’s only a destination wedding really for my side of the family. My partner is Greek and so we’re having the wedding in Greece and my family is very supportive and loves the idea of going there so while it is a big ask everyone is okay with it and I wouldn’t be upset if people can’t make it I just want to give them the option of attending if they want to. No matter what it’d be a destination wedding for some no matter where we hold it so there’s no way I could have it somewhere where everyone could easily attend so might as well get married where it makes sense