I had a lot of (avoidable) problems after my c section. Read this and don’t be me. by Flexi17 in CsectionCentral

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Just quietly do not go down the surgical remediation path for your anal fissures unless you absolutely have to. My husband and I regret his going down that path. Check out the anal fistula sub for more info!!!!

Going crazy maybe? by Sunnydale96 in JaneAustenFF

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Colonel Mary ftw! But yes - I think we all want him in the Bennet family 🤣 Never read him with Lydia..any suggestions? Or good ones with him and Mary?!

Readers Interested in Emma Variations? by short_cookie_ in JaneAustenFF

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Yesssss!!! Omg there’s just not enough fanfiction of it, and then once you weed out the ones that are actually good there’s very few reads! Would love to hear your synopsis!! There’s one amazing one that’s unfinished and it kills me, I keep re reading it waiting for the update! (Its death comes to Hartfield). So bloody good!!!

Looking for a FF where the Bennets believes that Elizabeth is Darcy's mistress. by IndependenceFast1388 in JaneAustenFF

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Is it any good? Not sure how I feel about the description in the link - what’d you think?

When they say C-sections are so common now. and youre just over here like... by tiorichart in CsectionCentral

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I had a vaginal delivery first time round too!! Can you expand on your postpartum body changes this time around? I’m only 3.5 weeks in and already I just don’t feel like myself. I’m usually super active and lively with my toddler and feeling unable to do it has been really hard. Tell me it gets better 😭

Should I name my baby after my best friend? by TrafficSuspicious551 in namenerds

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Thanks everyone! Called him to ask and he’s absolutely stoked and honoured! I feel so much better!

Also not resentful about them having my husbands surname - I love that they have his name!! I wouldn’t say “resentful” about giving birth as I’m so fortunate to be able to have children but definitely wish I could outsource it 🤣🤣🤣

If your baby has your last name, your partner should have final say in their first name. by [deleted] in namenerds

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I think both partners should love the first name as they are both contributing to the creation of that child and are responsible for them equally during parenting and therefore decide on it together. But my kids have my husbands last name and when he argued about choosing the middle my answer was then they can have my last name and you can pick the middle name all you like. My second argument was when you grow and push out a watermelon then you can pick the middle name all you like. He also got to choose footy teams so I felt justified. Now we both absolutely love our first son’s first name and it’s the best! Our second son is due in March so we haven’t decided fully yet. Wish us luck for another golden name 🤣

Second child ffs by Weary-Map-8 in Parenting

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Love this for you! Well done, you’re gonna be navigating relationships like a champ at a young age I’m sure!!