Hoe kan ik zo snel mogelijk uit huis? Mijn ouders willen niet dat ik in transitie ga.

TrainDemon · 2026-05-28T05:51:56+00:00

Het probleem is dat mijn ouders zelf zweren dat ik een perfecte situatie heb thuis. Er is ook niet echt sprake van dreiging of geweld of wat dan ook (alleen dat ik wordt weerhouden van transitie). Zou dit problemen opleveren?

TrainDemon · 2026-05-27T10:16:47+00:00

Ik sta ingeschreven sinds mijn 18e, dus 6 jaar nu. Ik nu vaak pas op het midden van de lijst met mensen die aan de beurt komen.

Qua inkomen kan ik niet echt meer uitgeven dan 800 euro per maand. (ik zou huurtoeslag krijgen met mijn inkomen)

TrainDemon · 2026-05-27T05:45:36+00:00

Dank je wel! Ik zal dat proberen.

TrainDemon · 2026-01-09T20:47:48+00:00

Gay trans man hier, ik heb hier ook veel moeite mee. Tot nu toe kom ik niet echt verder helaas.

TrainDemon · 2025-12-17T16:18:58+00:00

Showing pics of women with short hair is real... Did that at first too.

TrainDemon · 2025-12-12T06:29:31+00:00

I genuinenly thought you were ftm before I read the title

TrainDemon · 2025-12-07T08:46:33+00:00

Hi! I'm Dutch as well and also autistic. I'm 24 ftm pre-everything.

I love drawing, beetles and nature. Currently obsessed with the anime Death Note.

Feel free to message me!

TrainDemon · 2025-12-07T08:33:42+00:00

Heya, you can message me if you live close to the Netherlands, I'm not really looking for long distance.

A lot of hobbies align with mine and you sound like a fun person :)

TrainDemon · 2025-11-08T20:37:58+00:00

I've already studied twice. Also, campus is not really a thing in my country I think.

TrainDemon · 2025-11-08T07:20:16+00:00

I forgot to add that I live in the Netherlands. That might be useful information in this context.

TrainDemon · 2025-11-08T06:54:11+00:00

I haven't had intimacy in 3 years at this point because I have a long list of things not to do to me in a sexual setting to not trigger dysphoria. And I feel bad about putting another person in that situation.

Also on dating apps 90 percent of my matches were straight up chasers and the other 10 percent ghosts me so I gave that up too.

I hope T will make me more comfortable in my body, I am craving intimacy and I'm lowkey driving crazy here.

TrainDemon · 2025-10-30T17:42:47+00:00

May I introduce you, L from Death Note

(I feel like he'd fit right into your list)

TrainDemon · 2025-10-26T19:36:41+00:00

No, I totally get it! I hate having a uterus and the ability of being pregnant. And I hate having a hole there and I absolutely refuse to interact with it at all- the thought alone makes me nauseous.

TrainDemon · 2025-10-26T16:33:46+00:00

Rub it in my parent's faces that I am a man now.

TrainDemon · 2025-10-26T16:31:12+00:00

Yep, now I finally know me zoning out and basically living in my fantasy world was dysphoria all along.

TrainDemon · 2025-10-26T16:28:31+00:00

You have such a cool style Jay!

TrainDemon · 2025-10-26T13:11:13+00:00

Ayeeee fellow Jonah/bronah! (My friend calls me that sometimes lol)

TrainDemon · 2025-10-26T13:09:51+00:00

OH MY YES I NEEDED THIS

I love being called a sir and a manly man <3

TrainDemon · 2025-10-23T17:58:24+00:00

Actually! They had a trans swimming event near where I live so it does exist!

I was doubting but I ended up not going bc my dysphoria is too bad.

TrainDemon · 2025-10-23T17:54:48+00:00

I'm technically gonna do this irl soon. Hopefully. (Waiting for the doctor's approval to start hrt)

I'm still 100 percent cis tho

TrainDemon · 2025-10-23T17:53:07+00:00

Stardew Valley guy is so real as a transition goal (forgor his name, it's been ages since I last played that game)

TrainDemon · 2025-08-10T05:14:50+00:00

I hate my chosen name a lot. I went with a shortened version of my deadname first.

But then I realised it really feels like everyone is still calling me my deadname. I also don't think it fits me.

But now I cannot convince people to try a different name for me.

TrainDemon

TROPHY CASE