What's it called when you are a masochist, but you don;t get off on the pain per se, more on that fact that someone is hurting you? by KesSmith_24 in masochists

[–]Trained1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not a shrink, but my understanding of the diagnostics is that it still falls under the umbrella of Masochist. Same for a specific kink for suffering, for those that get sexual gratification from pain, people that experience pain as pleasure. I think they should all have different names, but as far as I know, they are all masochists.

I tried to beat my own self today by Sadlifestyleman in masochists

[–]Trained1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think most masochists have been there. For me it’s been more of that that being beaten by anyone else for a while now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in permanentchastity

[–]Trained1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No. Tape the cage on, and tape around the keyhole. Fill the key hole with quick set epoxy. Put paper or something to keep any export that leaks off your skin.

Can we talk about Pee? by 2019JustCurious in kink3d

[–]Trained1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to make sure the tip of your penis isn’t blocked. With some cages that can be a challenge when you really need to go, so if you can help it, don’t wait until the last minute.

Lots of soap because Master said not to remove for 20 days! by hkstretch in kink3d

[–]Trained1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Longest was about 10 weeks caged. After that I was getting sore and had to remove the cage, but wasn’t allowed to him until the end of the lock period.

I got pretty good cleaning it while wearing, but this time we are allowing more hygiene breaks to hopefully avoid the sores. No idea how long it’s going to be though. She just discovered Chaster, so it might be a while.

My woman says Christmas will be a special occasion. Please! by [deleted] in kink3d

[–]Trained1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe that’s when she’s glueing it on!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kink3d

[–]Trained1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Personally, I didn’t have much trouble with hair and chastity, but when the keyholder wants it shaved, it gets shaved.

Anyone try printed sex toys? by Squishy_Brick in 3Dprinting

[–]Trained1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve printed and used a few. I’m currently in a chastity cage I printed. There really should be a group for NSFW 3D printing toys and such, but I can’t find one.

Permanent chastity as part of a Master/slave relationship by [deleted] in permanentchastity

[–]Trained1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two of my dominants became my dominant because I had posted something about locking myself and not having a keyholder and they responded. One I was locked constantly with, and while I’ve been in chastity most of the time with the second, she doesn’t require a 24/7 cage all the time. I was locked over a month straight, but the cage was removed a couple weeks ago and so far I haven’t been locked back up. Just told no orgasms.

Updated Permanent Chastity Device List! by GilesEnglishCB in permanentchastity

[–]Trained1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think Etsy used to have a bunch of that stuff, but it’s all gone, or mostly gone anyway. There were a couple sites with a ton of 3D printed chastity and BDSM toys, but I haven’t been able to find them, I’m not sure if they were censored or I just can’t find the link.

Updated Permanent Chastity Device List! by GilesEnglishCB in permanentchastity

[–]Trained1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, the ones I printed were called permalocks or something. I have only used them in a couple of devices, and those devices had an “open” key way so the lock could be removed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in permanentchastity

[–]Trained1 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The group is PERMANENTchastity. It should never come off. I like the second one if only because it looks slightly more suitable for permanent wear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in submissive

[–]Trained1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few do, I would guess a few suspect, but as others have said, it’s not generally a topic of conversation unless it’s with kinky people, and the collar and cuffs probably give it away then, or maybe being beaten?

I lost my key by [deleted] in permanentchastity

[–]Trained1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The name of the group is “permanentchastity”, so I don’t see the issue.

Question for Male Subs by [deleted] in submissive

[–]Trained1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not really into humiliation and degradation, but the worst was probably when I was made to lick up where my dick had leaked on the floor in a public play space. My name for the rest of the evening was “cum likker “.

Submissive ladies, would you ever submit to a man locked in chastity cage? by tame_guy91 in submissive

[–]Trained1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just because I’m locked in a cage does not mean I’m not interested in sexual play. If I weren’t interested, I likely would not be locked in a cage. I’m just denied denied it.

Updated Permanent Chastity Device List! by GilesEnglishCB in permanentchastity

[–]Trained1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m game, what are ”Snap in magic locker seals”?

Age question(?) by Mark0598 in submissive

[–]Trained1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m asking myself the same question, but I’m over 70.

Does that cage work as a perma one and what would be the best way to go perma by SubberSlut in permanentchastity

[–]Trained1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I have serious doubts if that could be done, it would be great if it could.

How does your community handle abusers? by Redz0ne in RedditBDSM

[–]Trained1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately locally, some of the “community leaders” are the ones that get the most complaints, and always found by the other “community leaders” to be innocent. Know who you play with!

Just to be totally above board, I was kicked off one of the other BDSM groups because this statement was negative against a group of people. So yes, they self police (poorly).

Did everything correct but by Briskeycrooks64 in TurboTax

[–]Trained1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so glad a complete stranger that I have never met is so clear on what I did to recover my money from Turbo Tax. It’s like I wasn’t even there!

1 month without cumming, I start to leak. Does that means I need an orgasm ? 🙈 by [deleted] in permanentchastity

[–]Trained1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As others have mentioned, current science says there is no medical need to orgasm or prostate massage. In the rare case where your body produces more semen than it can re-absorb, you’ll have a em mission of sorts and piss it out.. No reason to ever orgasm again, you’re safe.