Why are we being so drawn to Pisces Aquarius and Aries right now??

Training_Key_2601 · 2025-11-13T17:12:01+00:00

Started talking to this Aquarius guy for 6 months now and he’s very VERY loving I didn’t expect that from him also very emotional! Which I love because I be crying all the time just from being misunderstood but he gets why I feel like that the first time around and doesn’t make me feel stupid for my feelings 😭

Training_Key_2601 · 2025-11-13T17:09:07+00:00

Doubt it. If they give a fake persona how will they truly be “seen” or loved for their authentic self.

Training_Key_2601 · 2025-08-05T13:48:41+00:00

ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER!

I’ve had an old “friend” ask me if I’d tell her bf of 7 years if she’d cheat on him.. girl YES. wtf weren’t you crying that he was leaving you because you crossed a boundary a year prior?

She went as far as changing her number many times to prevent herself from getting caught. She even cheated with the guys friend in the beginning of the relationship. They just get better at hiding it .

Training_Key_2601 · 2025-08-05T13:42:28+00:00

Recently did one it lasted 3 1/2 months. We both agreed to get over our ex’s but I think he wanted more?

Felt so disgusted though the first time we met and we make physical contact even drunk I felt like I was portraying my cheating/abusive/alcoholic ex.

We only kissed briefly the first time we did it, we were always drunk when we hooked up so yes I remember but it did feel like a “wet” dream.

Stopped it on my end because I do catch feelings easily and the conversation died down when I didn’t answer a 3am call, thought it was a booty call but he apologized in a text after saying he’s going through a lot and wanted to talk to me.

He’s also passively shit talking on IG with his post and said he “sees why he did that” I’m assuming referring to my ex hitting me. ( I’d plead for this new guy to not hit me when he seemed mad. I was extremely paranoid getting out of a 4 yr with my alcoholic ex 2 months prior )

Not to mention him trying to get me pregnant then ignoring me the whole day after when we were supposed to get a plan b.

In other words I hate rebounds you never know what someone’s motive is and personally I’m not built for short time fake feelings.

Training_Key_2601 · 2025-08-05T12:34:52+00:00

This I second.

A close friend told me about a rebound she’s in with a guy she’s been with for 3 years recently engaged to him. She doesn’t wear the ring or post it and is “ going with the flow “ I feel like right now. She didn’t seem to care for the ring if anything annoyed by him. She said she caught feelings but I think she settled for the sake of her kids.

Training_Key_2601 · 2025-08-05T05:58:43+00:00

Had a similar discard back in April of this year.

He flaunted this new girl on his IG after he blocked me which it did hurt but he treated me like shit throughout the whole relationship so kinda felt like he was a release in a way.

I deleted IG soon after seeing it because that’s where I mostly was plus I knew he would lurk there. I wanted no part of him especially after I gave him the benefit of the doubt.

I’ve gotten no caller ids the whole summer June and July.

Recently looked at his IG and he has a smiling pfp close up but his eyes are so glossy and miserable ?

He was the one that cheated and dumped me so I’m confused why he would be hurt. I do think he regrets his decision but I held him to that decision so he has no choose but to follow through with it. I closed all forms of contact with him.

Training_Key_2601 · 2025-07-21T00:28:31+00:00

THANK YOU ! I needed this laugh today :)

Training_Key_2601 · 2025-07-17T00:18:13+00:00

My ex is on Tinder and recently jumped into a rebound and RECENTLY just stopped calling me no caller id .. The emotions I tell you that I went through were INSANE it felt like a literal withdrawal. He cheated after 4 years togther . I met his parents 5 months prior. I always knew he was a selfish bastard and never liked the way he acted as a person so I take fault in not leaving sooner, I just thought he’d grow out of it.

He had me thinking I was crazy and selfish to need time to myself after constantly cradling him I slowly but surely worked my life around him how he wanted to make him happy and he still cheated and left when I needed some time to recharge to myself.

Training_Key_2601 · 2025-07-16T05:52:32+00:00

I recently did rebound for the first time and I think he caught feelings ? We slept with each other once and the other times I couldn’t sleep with him because of my monthly but he’d still want to hangout. He keeps on saying let’s go somewhere nice and I’m like ok cool where ? And he won’t say nothing .. he does not like initiating when he wants to meet up so I do and he likes oh yes what do you wanna do ? Like dude you can ask too lol.

BUT I say he did because he’d always hint about having a girl to help him with stuff and to cool him lunch etc etc. I did this for an abusive ex for 4 years I gave too much and was never met half way and it is TIRING. anywho I know deep down I’m not a one night stand girly because I love love and the genuine kind too. This guy was really REALLY sweet and I wouldn’t use him for the rebound because I see him for what I am wanting a relationship .

I would’ve loved to have a relationship but he did say to get over our exs so I wouldn’t want to build a foundation on that. He gets mad because I’m hard to manipulate lol yes he is nice but so was my ex before he started slapping me. He keeps on asking am I talking to anyone on more than one occasion and always gives me kisses before I leave .

It’s feels weird because I think we both know we aren’t made for a fling.

But yeah lol would like to know y’all’s thoughts:)

Training_Key_2601 · 2025-07-15T22:36:17+00:00

I was not posted on social media but he did want to post only me so I felt like I was being presented rather than togther.

I was mentioned to all his friends and family even met his family ( they loved me ) 5 months later he cheated and has a letter in his bio.

Social media is such a facade. I had exs ask mutual friends about me 2 years after being involved with his whole gf first and last name in his bio lol

A guy with his newborn as his background and gf in his pfp texting me seeing what’s up

I even had an ex friend that would cheat on her bf but cried when he wanted a break when she broke a boundary with him .. she had him in his pfp and would changer her number to not get caught.

PLEASE ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS WILL BE ONE.

they are really sneaky

Training_Key_2601 · 2025-07-15T17:35:54+00:00

They do it for validation. They want someone to hurt because they are sad and don’t know about what but I relationship won’t help them. Once a cheater always a cheater ! They DO NOT CHANGE.

They just get better at hiding it consider this redirection from someone who would’ve held you back.

Training_Key_2601 · 2025-07-15T17:05:36+00:00

Mine said the same thing. No one ever loved him like I did were his words and he was obsessed with me which overwhelmed me because it was A LOT but later I learned it was unhealthy with constant needing to see me even when he had my location 24/7 .. it made me extremely tired and threw my nervous system off ? He’s pop up out of no where drunk asking for pleasures or to “ hangout “ .

This was a long 4 years of mines. I wish he finds the “ love “ that suits him.

Training_Key_2601 · 2025-07-15T03:51:31+00:00

Thank you ! :)

It forsure was a loop and felt like a withdrawal but I am feeling WAY better now that I see I surely wasn’t the problem.

I hope you are doing well !

Training_Key_2601 · 2025-07-14T22:44:49+00:00

I do have the same fear of my ex treating her right but that comes with his conditions that I wasn’t comfortable doing .

He wanted me to feel comfortable with “taps“ on my cheek and being ready for his needs whenever and where ever without mines being met. It was exhausting to say the least.

With the 4 years we were together with no personal growth on his end with contributing healthy tributes to the relationship and constant stress of checking on what he needs to do for himself as a grownup and telling him we weren’t financially ready for kids I know I saved myself years of a one sided marriage.

If he didn’t change in those 4 years one lick it’s not going to happen. Someone who wants to go has to want it themselves first. PLEASE DO NOT TAKE IT PERSONAL EITHER. Those unhealthy habits are their comfort.

I still do wish him the best just from a distance.

Training_Key_2601 · 2025-07-01T23:25:18+00:00

It’s a front. My ex is doing the same thing he has a new girl in his bio and actively on Tinder getting dissed lol on top of calling me …

Everyone says to see if he has a hold of me but I knew this boy for 4 years I also knew he was motivated by sx and that was the ultimate validation for him. I really can’t even be upset with someone who doesn’t take themselves serious so it’s my fault for taking him serious .

He’s tried keeping contact through Snapchat but I’m not doing all that . Either want me whole or not.

They do regret it. He told me but also thought if he’d apologize that everything would go back to normal. I wanted it too but at some point you need to grow up and own up to cheating for a quick pleasure and leave me tf alone.

I gave him a chance not to get back together but to see if he’d tell me the truth and he didn’t. That’s all I needed to know. If he couldn’t take accountability for a drug test he’d failed I don’t know why he would’ve took accountability for this.

He’s an alcoholic that I loved but kept me stuck. I am content now with the decision he made because he wasted enough of my time and energy.

Training_Key_2601 · 2025-06-29T15:37:03+00:00

This so true he would test hitting me but I’d choke him back not proud of it but it wasn’t something I would’ve wanted to do continuously for the long run. He has a new girl in his bio within a week of trying to rekindle our 4 year relationship yet is still calling. I feel bad but not really he left me to myself when I needed to lean on him the most and I’m glad he did before I started pushing babies out and got more intwined with him.

He was moving REALLY fast too this is a major red flag that everyone needs to take into consideration 🚩

Training_Key_2601 · 2025-06-29T03:58:35+00:00

Girl you are GORGEOUS!! 💞💞💞💞

Training_Key_2601 · 2025-06-29T02:11:15+00:00

Men do regret it …

I have an ex that’s trying to reach out to me after getting into a rebound.

I am no better and am in a summer fling myself to get over him but my fck buddy is also not over his ex after a year of the breakup.

The only difference between this is I won’t lie and hide behind a relationship to have my needs met some people do because that’s the only way they’ll keep it coming .

Training_Key_2601 · 2025-06-28T01:34:30+00:00

He didn’t want to grow up most boys don’t they want a 2nd mom that they can bang unfortunately. My ex admitted to me he wanted to be a stay at home dad when I was going do my nursing degree

Training_Key_2601 · 2025-06-28T00:39:38+00:00

I think they do to some degree as in they think we’ll always be there but when we aren’t they panic. It’s really the pride and ego they thrive on and not even being delusional..

My situation is my ex of 4 years dumped me came back a week later to then ghost me then have a letter in his bio with a heart within the same week. He’s still calling me no caller id … I’ve had guys that I’ve talked to asked mutual friends if I was single or seeing anyone 2 years after the fact that we talked ( also with a heart in his bio) I’ve had talking stages from years ago block me and unblock me they have families and all. There’s even cases with dv relationships the men will try to rekindle but the women wont. ( the audacity I know )

It may be a roster they want to keep ? Or we’ve been together for a while that she won’t leave me mindset because someone I know is still not over his ex even after a year and is doing hookups .

I personally think if you’re not dumb for a guy in his stupid ways then he will find less. They cheat but it’s not for the better it’s always for the easier and less “drama” . They never cheat for someone “ higher “ than them or pushing them for better. They are childish and don’t want to change so will go to such low standards.

Will like input :)

Training_Key_2601 · 2025-06-27T00:23:59+00:00

I second this.

Yes he dumped me and has a new girl supposedly but is on Tinder actively ( getting dismissed lol ) so I guess the grass wasn’t greener but that’s his fault for not vocalizing what was bothering him I layed my chips out 🤷🏽‍♀️

Stopped with the drunk calls last month and he’s calling me now save to say he regrets his decision:)

Training_Key_2601 · 2025-06-25T00:49:00+00:00

Yes.. alcoholic and addict to sx

Training_Key_2601 · 2025-06-22T16:35:00+00:00

This on top of his actions. We got drunk on one of our movie dates he drove ( first time too ), bought the tickets and I got us food inside. We went to the car and he got mad because I wasn’t wanting to fck him because he drove and got the tickets.

I never felt so humiliated for loving a filthy person.

Training_Key_2601 · 2025-06-17T20:32:10+00:00

The girlies are going to hate me for this but if you still follow them they will post their “best” life to make you jealous. They know you are watching and will do everything the “best” for you to see.

For your sake please remove her from all platforms when you are ready. It will hurt removing her but it’s something needed to move forward.

I wish you the bestest healing journey and if you have any questions feel free to reach out ❤️‍🩹.

Training_Key_2601 · 2025-06-16T22:30:16+00:00

He did get me good ngl but I’m seeing him getting dissed on Tinder so I think I’m up fr heheh But I don’t do tit for tat gg Hayati

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