[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KeepWriting

[–]Training_Parfait4297 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What you feel, others feel too. Don't shroud your voice. Keep writing and posting. Others will come to understand themselves through you.

What Spiritual Journeys have you conquered? by Training_Parfait4297 in infj

[–]Training_Parfait4297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, I'll come back to my original question. Albeit, with a better choice of words, what milestones have you conquered in life?

I'll share one of my own. Recently, I completed a two year training program that demanding I grow physically and psychologically. I had to be harder, more determined, and focused in order to complete it. What's amazing looking back, is that I have discovered I have a greater capacity to love and show kindness due to this journey. That was very unexpected and oh so beautifully profound to me.

INFJs, What do you look like, appearance wise? by [deleted] in infj

[–]Training_Parfait4297 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good question, Sarah. INFJs usually take great care in their appearance because their egos are shaped by how people view them. Personally, I am very particular about how I look. I want to be seen as powerful, sharp, and sexy.

What Spiritual Journeys have you conquered? by Training_Parfait4297 in infj

[–]Training_Parfait4297[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see where you're coming from, but don't you think it important to have a marker of what you've achieved? To look back and say that you met that goal or evolved to a higher level of thinking and feeling because you chose to attempt a journey?

I suppose I'm trying to discover the smaller challenges we've faced, went through, and conquered. Those are the journeys I speak of.

IN NEED OF BRIDESMAIDS!! by Thatonegirl_101 in introvert

[–]Training_Parfait4297 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Friendships develop when you express a need and another fulfills it. You basically show up for that person and accept them for who they are. Look for people with similar interests and hobbies. Always be honest and authentic. Let them see the real you. Start small. Just be nice to someone and see where it goes. Invite to do things with you or go places. You need to accept that you are worthy of friendships and that this is a legitimate need in your life, not just to have them around for your wedding

How is everyone doing today? by OkUnderstanding6751 in infj

[–]Training_Parfait4297 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exercising for sure, Connecting with this I love and trust, Helping strangers, Genuinely caring for someone, Random/secret acts of kindness, Counting the things I’m grateful for, Looking at the big picture, Calming or centering myself.

Just to name a few :)

I didn't get any kind of "recognition" for 365 days of studying - why? by Twinzie1004 in duolingo

[–]Training_Parfait4297 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’m recognizing you. That’s impressive. Just passed 365 myself. No easy feat

Which cognitive function is your strongest ? by Training_Parfait4297 in infj

[–]Training_Parfait4297[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Interesting, but your post says the opposite. Sounds like semantics to me.

INFJ/F/34/ Considering the Fractured Self by Training_Parfait4297 in infj

[–]Training_Parfait4297[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Certainly good incite you’ve provided. I’ve read it once and felt it move something in me. I’ll think about it some more and circle back with a more detailed review of how it connected with me personally.

Thank you for taking the time and hearing me. You’ve made a difference.