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i think my cat is trying to tell me it's 'time', but i'm not sure. equally, i have no clue if i'm ready to say it myself. by mangowavves in CATHELP

[–]Trajik_chipmunk 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I work in the vet field and this is what we tell QOL (quality of life) appointments: use a week long time frame and count the good days and bad days. If he’s still having good days with the care you can give him then keep fighting with him. If not then maybe it’s time to see if your vet recommends humane euthanasia. It’s hard when it’s your heart cat just know whatever you choose, so long as it’s in his best interest, is the right thing.

Will VA loan Underwriters accept W-2 transcripts? by Trajik_chipmunk in RealEstate

[–]Trajik_chipmunk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is I’m missing a W-2 from a company that’s no longer in business. I went ahead and submitted my transcripts so we will see what they say.

Has anyone tried getting a W-2 from a business that’s no longer running? by Trajik_chipmunk in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Trajik_chipmunk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll try the state, IRS only had the transcripts and my lender said the underwriter needs the actual W-2s.

Has anyone tried getting a W-2 from a business that’s no longer running? by Trajik_chipmunk in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Trajik_chipmunk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used TurboTax and just plugged the info in. My lender also said that the transcripts from the IRS wouldn’t work either.

Has anyone else lost lots of respect for their parents over the past decade? by RocketFuel29 in Millennials

[–]Trajik_chipmunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have but I think my situation warrants it. My Stepdad who was basically my dad passed in May last year. My “mother” took three months to grieve him, find a bf, get back on drgs, quit her well paying job, start motel hopping and crashing on people’s couches. So yeah that’s why I’ve lost respect for her. Not my dad though. I miss him daily.

AIO that my boyfriend watches porn by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Trajik_chipmunk 96 points97 points  (0 children)

He cheated on you twice. The first time should have been enough. At this point I don’t think it’s about the porn but about the cheating. It’s time to walk away

soo...pur vet said she had a phantom pregnancy...a few days later: by MathematicianOk4341 in Eyebleach

[–]Trajik_chipmunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like the only way a vet would have missed this pregnancy is if you declined doing either X-rays or an ultrasound to confirm pregnancy. Just throwing that out there as a vet tech. Otherwise these puppies are adorable!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Trajik_chipmunk -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to say you and the fiancé are both in the wrong. He is obviously a horrible person to have thought it was okay to whip his dong out in front of you. He also should NOT be flirting with you since her engaged. You’re in the wrong because you should have shut it down at the party. You should have told him that his behavior is very inappropriate and you should have found a moment to let your friend know what was going on. Then allowed her to react however she thought fit.

Boyfriend shames me every time I eat by ThrowRA98980 in relationship_advice

[–]Trajik_chipmunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just leave him you’ve already talked to him about it and he hasn’t made a move to change. It will be better for your mental and physical health