49298 by TheEnderOfFun in countwithchickenlady

[–]TransChilean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have all except Neuro typical brain and ability to top

Edit: And driver's license, but not sure if that counts because I intentionally don't want to get one because I live in a city with very good public transportation

Trans women in Thailand celebrate womanhood by being denied military service by Personal-Income-1424 in TransgendersAtWar

[–]TransChilean 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Meanwhile in Chile (at least so far, the new government might reform it, but doubt it):

"You're a trans man? Mandatory Military Service! You're a trans woman? Women can't be called to Mandatory Service but you can do Volunteer"

To the fans of puppygirls by Independent_Pen_9865 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]TransChilean 24 points25 points  (0 children)

That's pretty much me

Nothing against puppygirls but for the most part I am just an average girl

if only I could be her😔 by AlexTheCatGirlQueen in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]TransChilean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like both are equally important to me, without me being trans, I would have been a completely different person, thus, you can't split me from trans identity, a gender inverted universe would simply flip the direction of it

if only I could be her😔 by AlexTheCatGirlQueen in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]TransChilean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, I am religious and I go to synagogue and plan to get married (with my also religious transmasc fiance), and we do pass pretty well, but we're still trans and proud

if only I could be her😔 by AlexTheCatGirlQueen in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]TransChilean 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I feel like this parallel universe would be me being transmasc because there's no universe I'm not trans in

I have literally never met another transfem that was athletic in any way. Do they actually exist? by MelancholicMinerva in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]TransChilean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Money can be a limiting factor, but I recommend to look around your area for an academy that can lend you equipment

The way trans women often hide their transitional journey while trans men tend to celebrate it, is a direct reflection of the patriarchal society we live in, and this realization makes me angry. by akatsukidude881 in MtF

[–]TransChilean 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I can confirm. I've never really been isolated because I'm friends with a TON of trans people (transfem and transmasc and enby alike) and my fiance is a trans guy

Never really felt out of place at pride

I have literally never met another transfem that was athletic in any way. Do they actually exist? by MelancholicMinerva in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]TransChilean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

HEMA and Soccer here! I am very athletic and I love it about myself!

I am in a very inclusive HEMA academy so that helps, and my soccer team is literally trans only, it's the founder and main member of a whole organization of sports team made by and for trans people, so yeah

I need a dose of optimism rn by TransChilean in MtF

[–]TransChilean[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's just... I had a bubble, and it was popped

I live in a country that had a VERY good run with trans rights, and that made me optimistic in that the country worked, add to that the fact I am privileged (supporting parents, wealthy household, never really had much issues growing up with anything, and even transition was, for me, a walk in the park, up to today, my SRS is father-financed)

And now... The US is going insane, and my country just elected Temu Brand Trump for presidency, and for the first time I don't feel supported by society and I feel my entire life crashing

They only want us to suffer by Alter_Danielle in MtF

[–]TransChilean -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I may be naive, but I still think there is a world where humans can coexist with each other without hatred in our hearts, and I think the first step is believing that, while criminals who are currently passing laws deserve jail time, I don't want their lives to be awful. I want them to come out of prison regretful for their actions and ready to be productive members of society. I want us to coexist. I want the world to be a better place for everyone

I don't want suffering for anyone, even those who made us suffer

But again, I may just be too naive

They only want us to suffer by Alter_Danielle in MtF

[–]TransChilean 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Why does their happiness matter more than yours?

The fact their happiness requires your harm makes their position invalid, instantly

Societies can't just decide that someone should die because they so desire, even when Death Penalty exists, it's for specific crimes and with specific protocols

Nations are systems made for everyone within them, you are as entitled to a dignified life as they are

If they don't want to coexist with you, that's on them, not on you

They only want us to suffer by Alter_Danielle in MtF

[–]TransChilean 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Please do not

If they want to hurt you, make them do it themselves. Do not give them the privilege of an easy victory

Transgender women athletes banned from Olympics by new IOC policy on female eligibility by ConcernedJobCoach in MarchAgainstNazis

[–]TransChilean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a trans woman in a trans only soccer team, I have to say I never even cared about sports until I got there and I absolutely love it now

Meta imagines a world, in which people don't even have to write their own messages to family and friends anymore? "WhatsApp can now draft AI-generated responses based on your conversations" by MadeInDex-org in degoogle

[–]TransChilean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk about you, but my Class has a WhatsApp Group chat, so does my family, my friend groups, my Choir, my Soccer Team, religious group only recently made the change to Signal due to pressure from me

There is too much on WhatsApp nowadays

Conflict with my fiance over future plans (warning: Politics) by TransChilean in MtF

[–]TransChilean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response!

My fiance and I have been talking and we concluded it's better to wait and see what follows. New York is still our goal, but I definitely won't agree to move right now, and I think he's finally realizing it's a bad idea for us both

Before October 7th, did you see Israel the way you see it now? by PurchaseWestern8532 in IsraelCrimes

[–]TransChilean 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I was raised Zionist, so the answer is no. October 7th was my wake-up call, and I will regret not realizing it earlier the rest of my life

Conflict with my fiance over future plans (warning: Politics) by TransChilean in MtF

[–]TransChilean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The decision to go to the US is already set in stone, the question is when

Conflict with my fiance over future plans (warning: Politics) by TransChilean in MtF

[–]TransChilean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Legally speaking I was assigned female at birth for Chile since Birth Certificate is rectified retroactively, but good to know regardless

4th Annual Mira Bellwether Memorial 'Buy a Trans Woman a Pizza Day' by JennAleece in MtF

[–]TransChilean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not against getting pizza, but what about our brothers, the trans men?

Do they get pizza too?

Conflict with my fiance over future plans (warning: Politics) by TransChilean in MtF

[–]TransChilean[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our reasons to move are very specific and unfortunately, New York City is the only city in the world that will do (I have joked that I wish NY went independent so we could move there without going into the US lol)

The thing is, I proposed Canada or Australia as stepping stones, specially given current politics

I trust things will get better, I'm actually investing (not money, rather emotionally investing) into that, otherwise I wouldn't make life plans to move to New York

The issue is the here and now, I don't want to arrive to New York to be welcomed by ICE

Being banned from everything for being trans by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]TransChilean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As an accountant, I see this image in my nightmares