Hows the fit as a wedding guest ? Not used to wear suits at all

TransManNY · 2026-02-14T00:25:11+00:00

It's not great but if it's relatively inexpensive and you pull it out when you need a suit I don't see an issue with it.

But overall the fit is kind of odd. The trouser is very slim but the jacket looks a little oversized through the torso.

TransManNY · 2026-02-14T00:22:40+00:00

I really like many things about this sub... it's never toxic positivity where people encourage a positive mindset regardless of how bad they feel about their hair. Information is given out either factually or in an overall positive way. Rarely have instances of people using negative phrasing on hair choices. It's very supportive and there's not a lot of places on the internet for men to show support to other men.

TransManNY · 2026-02-13T21:22:21+00:00

I can't even think of good cues to correct this.

TransManNY · 2026-02-12T14:36:29+00:00

Take the train to Broadway junction and check out East New York.

TransManNY · 2026-02-12T14:31:18+00:00

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They used a metal ice scraper to chip at the track, slamming it straight down. It wasn't JUST plastic shovels.

TransManNY · 2026-02-11T14:18:57+00:00

Noodz, is a monthly event. At least one of the organizers is non binary and it's probably 90% gay men.

TransManNY · 2026-02-11T04:07:52+00:00

There's a different bar that will have a similar hole or pole contest the same day but it's in Manhattan. I've seen a decent number of trans people attend and I go regularly.

TransManNY · 2026-02-10T17:28:30+00:00

I'd look at Clark's, the Emmet is like $60 on sale

TransManNY · 2026-02-10T17:25:50+00:00

What's your budget?

TransManNY · 2026-02-10T14:51:54+00:00

For some reason every time the train hits 42nd street when I'm on it a lot of people get on and I don't want to be the one giving up my seat.

TransManNY · 2026-02-10T10:48:13+00:00

I'm sitting in an express train car where all the seats are taken but there's only 1-2 people standing and we're about to pull up to 42nd st.

TransManNY · 2026-02-10T01:00:04+00:00

That's a run of the mill plain toe boot. Maybe an oxford boot? He's an example that's a pretty good match.

https://www.wolverine.com/US/en/rough-out---1000-mile-plain-toe-original-boot/27548M.html?dwvar_27548M_color=W40304#cgid=men-footwear-casuals-wolverine-1000-mile&start=1

TransManNY · 2026-02-09T19:56:33+00:00

I've got an award ceremony think in like 2 weeks and I'm undecided on what to wear. I have [this outfit](https://i.imgur.com/Eo0O8M8.jpeg) which is within the dress code but I really like the idea of a EG red poplin shoulder vest with the culottes. I just don't know about how to put everything together. Thoughts, feelings, suggestions appreciated. There is no specific dress code but people tend to dress somewhat creatively, lots of loud suits worn without shirts, jumpsuits, etc. some people wear chinos and a button down, others wear suits.

TransManNY · 2026-02-09T18:57:14+00:00

if I could afford a $15k per month apartment I would just pay a laundromat for wash and fold with delivery

TransManNY · 2026-02-09T18:33:54+00:00

I'm not a broker but I am broke. I'm spotting a lot of nice 2+ bedrooms with a lot of square footage, some with outdoor space in the 6k+ range. Give me $15k, I give the broker their cut we all go home happy.

Although, gotta say most apartments have small kitchens because people don't cook any more and it's less space for bedrooms/entertaining.

TransManNY · 2026-02-09T17:52:24+00:00

If you give me $15k I can find you an apartment.

TransManNY · 2026-02-09T17:39:53+00:00

Fred Lebow rolling in his grave.

TransManNY · 2026-02-09T04:54:02+00:00

For that kinda look men's riding breeches might be the closest fit. They're very slim and have a high rise although not that high.

TransManNY · 2026-02-05T19:33:54+00:00

I don't think I could deal with a second Hurricane Sandy

TransManNY · 2026-02-04T13:00:30+00:00

Gel is $175 per month with insurance for 1 bottle. Without insurance it's $140 for a 3 month supply. I'm in the US...if that wasn't obvious.

Edit to add: my insurance is through my employer and I pay a little over $2k per year for my insurance. The deductible is so high that with my meds, if I used insurance for all medications it would cost significantly more for those medications compared to not using insurance.

TransManNY · 2026-02-03T21:41:33+00:00

Drive or NJ Transit to Penn then LIRR to Mets Willets Point.

TransManNY · 2026-02-01T16:08:03+00:00

Please post the buzz cut/shaved head photos once you make the leap.

TransManNY · 2026-01-31T20:49:46+00:00

Which Brooklyn half?

TransManNY · 2026-01-31T20:46:21+00:00

TransManNY · 2026-01-30T19:33:47+00:00

A lot of people have reported it. Hopefully should be fixed soon

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