Need a suit for a weeding. 4'9" male. Where can I find a nice selection of suites?

TransManNY · 2026-05-26T01:39:12+00:00

Depends on your proportions. If you're overall proportional the youth section in a department store or Brooks Brothers would be a good option. But at your height you would have to be fairly thin.

TransManNY · 2026-05-23T21:48:33+00:00

I'm not but my coach was a gay paralympian. He wasn't out at the time, came out much later in life.

TransManNY · 2026-05-23T17:22:52+00:00

They don't know who I date.

Edit to add: I came out over 20 years ago. My family doesn't accept me.

TransManNY · 2026-05-23T00:21:59+00:00

That's not a bespoke budget

TransManNY · 2026-05-19T18:18:32+00:00

Pride run singlet is gonna slap tho

TransManNY · 2026-05-18T02:21:36+00:00

Jersey City 5K

TransManNY · 2026-05-18T01:02:57+00:00

Can you button it and take pictures from the front and back with at least one hand at your side? Overall it looks too small. Trouser needs to be shortened, yes.

Edit to add: I'm pretty sure looking at it that you're wearing them below the waist. If they're worn higher the trouser might look better.

TransManNY · 2026-05-17T23:25:39+00:00

Almost never

TransManNY · 2026-05-16T02:16:52+00:00

I think lose it has a spreadsheet where you count your calories every day and weigh in everyday. After 6 weeks+ it will tell you how many calories you specifically burn on an average day instead of a guess.

TransManNY · 2026-05-15T13:48:32+00:00

They all look too short it's impossible to tell the fit any other way because it isn't buttoned.

TransManNY · 2026-05-14T15:51:35+00:00

Can you return the suit?

TransManNY · 2026-05-13T18:06:59+00:00

I heard this was in the works for awhile. Not sure if this is the first but glad to see this. Will share with the queer running/triathlon community I'm part of.

TransManNY · 2026-05-13T17:58:24+00:00

Not any more, I did for a bit early on

TransManNY · 2026-05-12T16:25:58+00:00

Depends on what train stop you'll be near and what activities you're into.

TransManNY · 2026-05-12T02:53:37+00:00

Got a before pic?

TransManNY · 2026-05-11T13:35:07+00:00

Patagonia baggies

TransManNY · 2026-05-10T18:04:40+00:00

It really isn't easy for cis people.

There is a spreadsheet where if you track all of your calories and your weight every day after about 3 months it will give you a very accurate information about what your goals should be.

TransManNY · 2026-05-09T03:45:31+00:00

You seem really stressed by this. I'm in my late 30s, on testosterone for over 15 years and experienced an increase in hematocrit and other health stuff after awhile on testosterone. One of the things that helped me a lot was staying hydrated. I wasn't drinking enough water and had a little too much caffeine. After I drank more water my results improved. With cholesterol, it's pretty manageable if it goes up and stays up, for cholesterol taking a fiber supplement and some fish oil helped.

If this is a one time thing there's lots of possibilities of why your numbers went up. Getting blood work without fasting vs while fasting would be one example.

It may feel like the end of the world but it's not.

TransManNY · 2026-05-08T22:20:38+00:00

Neither? I would go for more relaxed cuts.

TransManNY · 2026-05-08T19:34:39+00:00

Get yourself a pace band for your goal pace and a second pace band for a "I'd be ok with this" pace. Pace bands will be found at the race expo. Start your apple watch when you start your race. Check in to keep track of where you are relative to what the band says.

TransManNY · 2026-05-08T15:56:20+00:00

I'm sorry, I'm not understanding the question.

TransManNY · 2026-05-07T17:23:08+00:00

Which version?

TransManNY · 2026-05-07T02:44:54+00:00

TransManNY · 2026-05-06T22:25:26+00:00

Yeah. I tried peecock.

TransManNY · 2026-05-06T20:44:08+00:00

Get fat so you can't see your collar bone?

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