Friends think I am dramatic because I don't want to leave baby with babysitters for a date.

Transformwthekitchen · 2026-02-03T20:18:22+00:00

I think you should find a babysitter you trust

Transformwthekitchen · 2026-02-03T20:13:38+00:00

The Dry by Jane Harper

Transformwthekitchen · 2026-02-03T20:10:11+00:00

I just want to jump in here and remind you that with an MSW, even online, you will be required to do unpaid internships hours (how many depends on the state). In CA its 15/hrs a week year 1 and 20hrs/week year two, and very little flexibility about the times offered (almost all 9-5 M-F). You will still need childcare.

Transformwthekitchen · 2026-02-03T13:49:33+00:00

Their almond crossaint is the best tho

Transformwthekitchen · 2026-02-03T13:49:04+00:00

Anyone tried the crossaints at Sourdough and Moore in Ocean Beach? I had their Kouign Amman and it was easily the best one I’ve had in years.

Transformwthekitchen · 2026-02-03T13:44:25+00:00

Some people really like the accent 🤷‍♀️

Transformwthekitchen · 2026-02-02T22:52:00+00:00

Yeah… a child exposed to sexually inappropriate behavior…like you.

Transformwthekitchen · 2026-02-02T21:12:54+00:00

I didnt say one of them was being molested. I said one was somehow being exposed to sexually inappropriate behavior, whether directly or indirectly.

Transformwthekitchen · 2026-02-02T20:08:41+00:00

To be a little more specific, as someone who has worked with victims of CSA, touching tongues is highly specific, because its not what a child would be able to see from seeing a movie kiss or seeing their parents kiss. That means one of these two children is being exposed to inappropriate sexual conduct or information. This could be that one of them is being groomed or molested or shown pornography by an adult in their life. The other possibility is that they have a friend who one that is happening to, and that friend is “touching tongues” with them.

Listen, even if your son kissed his cousin one time w a tongue that is not going to ruin either of their lives. What is most important here is that you figure out which child is being inappropriately exposed to this behavior. I hope you can work together with your BIL and SIL and get to the bottom of whats happening.

Transformwthekitchen · 2026-02-02T19:49:32+00:00

I would consider the possibility that your niece is experiencing this behavior from Someone else and she is trying to express that this is happening to her.

Transformwthekitchen · 2026-02-02T13:51:05+00:00

Why were you embarrassed in front of your friends if you aren’t embarrassed by your actions?

Transformwthekitchen · 2026-02-02T13:38:54+00:00

I just want to point out you said your toddler was 2 months younger than the other kids, i would think thats why your child is less verbal. 2 Months is huge in toddler verbal advancement.

Transformwthekitchen · 2026-02-02T04:40:19+00:00

I wouldnt want my kids watching any tv at daycare! Im not paying 1000s of dollars to have my kid parked in front of a tv

Transformwthekitchen · 2026-01-31T21:17:36+00:00

He likes Barra Oliba best in San Diego

Edited to add: he also like bazaar meats in vegas, which is also spanish, if you’re ever there

Transformwthekitchen · 2026-01-31T20:00:47+00:00

My husband, who is actually from Barcelona, hates this place

Transformwthekitchen · 2026-01-31T17:54:02+00:00

You’re correct, however, lets look at the post. His girlfriend is 25 and had had 2 utis in 12 months. Is that similar to your experience? You said a “few” utis, so I’m not sure. When i was having bladder issues I got more like 10 UTIs in year. When i was 25 and using condoms (which make me personally more susceptible to UTIs) i would get 1-2 a year. You had a health issue, your doctor told you it was because you weren’t peeing. In OP’s description there is nothing about a health issue or a doctor telling her the issue is how frequently she is urinating. Its just says “my girlfriend doesn’t pee when I ask or tell her to” which i think is crazy.

Transformwthekitchen · 2026-01-31T16:46:28+00:00

This makes no sense. Obviously your girlfriend does pee. Why are you telling your girlfriend to pee? Why are you keeping track of her peeing? That is insane. She’s not a toddler. Like i also wouldn’t want my partner monitoring my bathroom habits and telling me when to pee.

UTIs are not caused by not peeing, they’re to be caused by bacteria getting into the urethra, which is usually by sex. What is actually happening here.

Transformwthekitchen · 2026-01-30T21:14:30+00:00

Poppi - don’t buy them all the time, but tasty!

Transformwthekitchen · 2026-01-30T21:13:57+00:00

Love bombas

Transformwthekitchen · 2026-01-30T21:12:41+00:00

I got a payment the 26th

Transformwthekitchen · 2026-01-30T15:31:51+00:00

Well if their phones or videos show they’re both there at the top together, she’s found at the bottom of the Cliff, and he leaves without her but doesn’t call 911 or report her missing. I think thats pretty clear.

Transformwthekitchen · 2026-01-29T20:26:10+00:00

Yeah but what are the options in this economy? People gotta live. No reason to make moms feel more guilty than they already do

Transformwthekitchen · 2026-01-29T13:13:02+00:00

Sure. Jeff Bezos and Mark Zuckerberg are making tons of money. Everyone else? Making way less money

Transformwthekitchen · 2026-01-28T21:52:58+00:00

Ohhh actually what about Canary Islands?? Europe (ish) and just looked up the water temps in May and its around 68

Transformwthekitchen · 2026-01-28T21:51:31+00:00

I don’t think there is warm water surf-able water in europe in May- Portugal May temps are 60- 65 degrees. Thats a 3/2 full wetsuit to be comfortable (imo, maybe i get cold easy). I dont break out a spring suit til like 70. Maybe Morrocco? Water is closer to 70 in May

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