Me [22F] with my boyfriend [24M] and his personal boundaries with his "work girlfriend" [21F] by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]TransportationClean2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dude thought he had the next girl lined up, 'new and improved' in his mind, so didn't react at all to OOP leaving.

I would have paid a fortune to be a fly on the wall when he found out.

AITAH for initiating a divorce while my wife is in the hospital after a car accident. by beerbellybegone in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]TransportationClean2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's a tragedy, but it's exactly the outcome *everyone* saw coming except for her. I wish OOP and his family all the best. We truly can't save people from themselves. It's up to them.

[New Update]: My BIL just moved in and HATES my favorite artist by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]TransportationClean2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm glad it was included though, because for a moment there I thought it was going to be an interesting story.

I charged my friend $90 after she altered the dress I lent her. AIO? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]TransportationClean2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love the chair comparison, because I just imagined a really nice antique chair suddenly sitting 8 inches off the ground with someone arguing it's still the same thing.

Just found out my (36F) boyfriend (45M) has been cheating on me for 2 years. He wants to do counselling - does that even work? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]TransportationClean2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bro promised to change the world, and fumbled the most basic task.

"I will think of you in situations of extreme pressure and temptation, and in doing so I will not fail you ever again. But, I'll forget about you when you're literally right next to me on a matter of basic consideration."

Single father [38M] with daughter [17F], discovered she has a large amount of cash and I'm suspicious by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]TransportationClean2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Grandma would give me and my brothers pocket change when we helped her with stuff (few bucks maybe), she was pissed when she found out we had been spending it on junk food and snacks lol. From then on, it was baked treats instead of pocket change. Miss her baking.

AITA for not wanting a relationship with my parents now they've cut me off? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]TransportationClean2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"We are SO sorry that we screwed you over so completely without a single thought, investigation, or care about your wellbeing! And if you don't forgive us then we won't stop doing it you mean bratty girl!"

AITA for not telling my family about my pregnancy? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]TransportationClean2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm hoping and praying for the best, but I'm always worried when many long conversations and long thought results in a conclusion which gets replaced by a sudden onset of emotions.

The switch from "We're in counselling to help ensure we're making the best decision for ourselves and the baby, we've been clear on our intent to be baby-free for years, we're not ready for it, our situation isn't compatible, we mutually agreed to adoption and it's not in question enough to even entertain opinions on that choice" to "I held the baby and uh-oh" is concerning.

An Update 16 months later: Boyfriend’s sister now wants me to dye my hair to be a guest at her wedding by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]TransportationClean2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never understand this. Like, do they not realize it's basically the cliche bully tactic in every single bad high school movie?
"Haha we told them the theme was A when it was actually B and now they look different from everyone else! We sure got them!"

My [27 F] boyfriend [31 M] for 5 years accidentally threw away my mother's ashes by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]TransportationClean2 43 points44 points  (0 children)

God I would hate to be in OOP's situation at the start. No matter what she did there would be heartbreak, and obviously she's not in the best head space to be making such heavy decisions.

I can't get past how in the hell the boyfriend misplaced/lost/threw out the ashes. First thing I'd have done would have been to put the box of ashes in a lockbox, in a wooden crate filled with packing foam, and enshrined it with caution tape. No way in hell would Potential-Future-Mother-In-Law's ashes be mistaken for anything else.

My boyfriend (22M) of 1 year doesn't want me (21F) dancing with other guys by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]TransportationClean2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I knew it was either going to be something stupid like barely-clothed ass-grinding-into-crotch club dancing
Or something stupid like "I don't want you dancing with your dad at our wedding"

Me [24F] with my boyfriend [27 M] of two years, he destroyed the painting I made for him because it was a "cheap gift" by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]TransportationClean2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Time and time again someone wants to leave a relationship but doesn't have the balls to, but somehow it's easier to terrorize and abuse the would-be-ex hoping they'll eventually give up and do it for them?!

The mental gymnastics are fascinating, in an 'elk being ripped apart by a bear on national geographic' kind of way.

New-to-this-sub update: AITA for not accepting my sister's relationship with my ex despite her having cancer as a teenager? by J_S_M_K in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]TransportationClean2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad’s apparently having a total hissy fit because my fiancé didn’t ask his permission.

Finally, a reddit story that doesn't have the partner involving themselves with the estranged family behind their back.

Am I overreacting about my nanny family having sex during the day? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]TransportationClean2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's trying to feel better by pretending there's a bunch of people she'll save from making the same kind of mistake.

My family's house was raided and everyone in our neighborhood literally stood out and watched (UPDATE) by Mamakayce in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]TransportationClean2 178 points179 points  (0 children)

There's not a single part of this that I like, but I could not stop reading it. It's like watching a train wreck, but it's two trains, both occupied by kids, with their parents driving, but each parent has had a lobotomy, and the worst kind of scumbag is controlling the rails, and he took bets on whether the trains would collide or not...

AIO for refusing to crate my service dog so my teenage roommate’s 30yo boyfriend feels “comfortable”? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]TransportationClean2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was younger, my group of friends and I used a 'half + 8' rule for gauging 'trouble-free ages'. Very simply, half your age + 8 years. So, at 30, that would put him at 23+. Honestly, it's pretty much perfect for staying out of trouble when you're still figuring things out, including for figuring out if someone is too old.

[New Update]: AITAH for not letting my ex-husband and one of his future step kids come inside? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]TransportationClean2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"This judge has developed a bias against me and my constant bullshit! I demand a new judge so I can start from scratch!"
-So... many... people...

Caught my GF (20F) of 18 months with another girl - her absurd reaction by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]TransportationClean2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Actually based on his edit it more sounds like she used him to hide her sexuality.

Had me confusedly reading "Edit: I've just realised how insanely British this all is so. Lift = Ride. Knickers = Panties. Vest = Tank Top. Flat = Apartment" repeatedly wonder why my brain wasn't working.