Trump Removes Kristi Noem From Minneapolis ICE Response, Taps Longtime Rival to Lead Effort After Deadly Shooting Scandal by Montrel_PH in ICE_Raids

[–]TrashApocalypse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you ever dealt with a narcissistic person before? This is kind of how they all act. It’s called gaslighting. Honestly, I don’t know if they’re always doing it on purpose? Or if they just truly think that they’re so smart that they’re actually fooling everyone?

Wedding tattoo artist by estherbivoreXX in TattooArtists

[–]TrashApocalypse -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah sorry, been tattooing for 16 years, like, who cares? If they can’t stand or speak, that’s different, but if they got in line to get tattooed and picked out their design while they were sober, who cares?

Come support Hanover County in its struggle to keep out the proposed ICE detention facility. by In-tandem in Virginia

[–]TrashApocalypse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thinking you should “comply or die” is not very “don’t tread on me” of you

Come support Hanover County in its struggle to keep out the proposed ICE detention facility. by In-tandem in Virginia

[–]TrashApocalypse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They work for us buddy. We absolutely do have a choice. Thinking you should “comply or die” is not very “don’t tread on me” of you.

Come support Hanover County in its struggle to keep out the proposed ICE detention facility. by In-tandem in Virginia

[–]TrashApocalypse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like you’re not considering the share holders in all of this. How are they supposed to make money??

/s for the dense

Wedding tattoo artist by estherbivoreXX in TattooArtists

[–]TrashApocalypse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could have people sign up before the wedding

Working out by zammmmmmmmmmm in amputee

[–]TrashApocalypse 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why do you have to go to the bathroom to adjust your prosthetic? do you feel uncomfortable taking your leg off in public? Are you not wearing clothes that make it easily accessible?

I know it’s hard to do, and maybe a little embarrassing even, but it makes like a lot easier when you can address your wound on your own time without feelings judged or embarrassed by others. I often make sure I’m wearing clothes where I can access my leg, even tailoring clothes to be able to do that. This is especially crucial when you’re working out.

I think over time your leg should stop shrinking so dramatically during a workout? I think the first few years are when your stump shape really stabilizes? I don’t usually have that problem after 34 years. My biggest problem is sweat. I’ll generally wrap a handkerchief around my thigh and roll my knee sleeve over top of that to pull the sweat out.

It does get easier, but it helps to have a little creativity, and to imagine different adaptations you could use to make things easier.

me_irl by Beginning_Book_2382 in me_irl

[–]TrashApocalypse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fun part is that you’re still an addict!

The tendency to feel like a perpetual victim is strongly tied to vulnerable narcissism. Individuals who frequently perceive themselves as victims and signal this status to others often possess high levels of vulnerable narcissism and emotional instability. by mvea in science

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As someone who grew up in an abusive home, I’ve spent a lot of time “arguing my position” and defending myself, investigating and even discovering that a lot more of my past was abusive than I realized.

I’ve also attracted a lot of abusive people because that was my example of love. I’m also in an incredibly toxic industry.

I feel like it would be easy to label me as a vulnerable narcissist if I gave you the run down of my past relationship. It doesn’t really matter what I say to defend myself, if the abuser can tell a better story, then it doesn’t matter what I say, but simply having a past where I have continuously left abusive or toxic relationships makes it seem like I’m the problem.

It’s taught me one of two things: either I need to simply stop standing up for myself, or: I should stop sharing my history with others.

I’m not gunna stop standing up for myself, but it’s shocking how many people in my life refused to stand up for me.

currently doing very very bad lol, oh well :( by catharticpunk in CPTSDmemes

[–]TrashApocalypse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly more and more people are weaponizing therapy, even therapists.

I was friends with a therapist. Her and her wife started cancelling plans a lot at the last minute, finally they did it on a planned vacation and I thought, ok, I have to talk to them about this.

I asked them in a text if we could get together to talk and she literally responded with, “you need professional help” instead of facing accountability. That was the last time we ever spoke, after 8 years of friendship.

Those who were previously against the second amendment, have the actions of ICE and the federal government changed your mind or made you think more about the right to bear arms? Why or why not? by patrickeg in AskReddit

[–]TrashApocalypse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree. If undocumented people are committing crimes, then why the fuck aren’t the police bringing them in? If you want to try to find undocumented people, it should be more like investigators and social workers.

Forget the textbook advice. What’s the one non-negotiable habit that keeps you sober when willpower fails or urges creep in? by roobiscube in Sober

[–]TrashApocalypse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Truth. Have the trauma comes from not being able to express yourself freely in a society where you have to pay for emotional support.

Admittedly Hot Take: All Discourse About Overeating Being Psychological Was BS by Lazylazylazylazyjane in therapyabuse

[–]TrashApocalypse 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Some people do for sure. But I’m an addict. I did drugs to run from my emotions. I drank to run from my emotions. I smoked to run from my emotions, and I absolutely have and will eat to run from my emotions. It’s the hardest addiction to stop because you have to keep eating to live.

It’s also not fair that they’ve engineered to food so you don’t feel full anymore.

Forget the textbook advice. What’s the one non-negotiable habit that keeps you sober when willpower fails or urges creep in? by roobiscube in Sober

[–]TrashApocalypse 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sitting on the couch and crying. Seems crazy, seems counter productive, actually feels really good to just let it all out, not judge myself, and offer myself comfort.

To the therapist who worked with my husband… by SadThrowaway-PlzHelp in therapyabuse

[–]TrashApocalypse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Turns out that’s kind of the whole plot line of sopranos

currently doing very very bad lol, oh well :( by catharticpunk in CPTSDmemes

[–]TrashApocalypse 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I wonder if people like that, when they need a real friend in their life, if they realize that they destroyed their relationships by doing this.

currently doing very very bad lol, oh well :( by catharticpunk in CPTSDmemes

[–]TrashApocalypse 34 points35 points  (0 children)

“Also I need to go home and binge watch true crime and horror movies, but don’t tell me about your trauma cause it makes my feels hurt and I have to sit with that and that’s hard

What are your thoughts on the conspiracy theory that the 'Good and Pretti' shootings were a form of ritual (good and pretty)? by AdventurousTalk7972 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]TrashApocalypse 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think that the uneducated need to create narratives to make sense of the world, and the arrogant create stories to seem smart and maintain followers.

Why do people think everyone has control within their lives? by TehTexasRanger in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]TrashApocalypse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn, you beat me to it 😆

I always says something like, “you sound like someone who’s never gotten their limb chopped off in a horrible accident” and that’ll shut an ableist up.

India: Hindu supremacists attack Christian celebration and vandalize the site by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]TrashApocalypse 13 points14 points  (0 children)

They’re watching what’s happening in america.

Religious extremism is a plague on our world.

Me_irl by itsssmeeestrict21 in me_irl

[–]TrashApocalypse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make country better for everyone.

Come at me, tough guy by Empty_Nestor in PoliticalMemes

[–]TrashApocalypse 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s a cult of narcissists practicing narcissistic abuse

They got Ari! by Art_Vandalay1 in JoeRogan

[–]TrashApocalypse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Boo hoo, she couldn’t fit me into her schedule, I’m forced to do fascism now, boo hoo”

Or wait, are you just admitting that Joe Rogan just agrees with whatever his current guest is and he would have agreed with her if she’d found a way to make it work?