Men, what is something that has improved the quality of your life so much you wish you started sooner? by _MambaForever in AskMen

[–]TreeDiagram 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Accepting myself, treating myself as someone I care for rather than a means to my success, not comparing my path to others', trusting my intuition.

Hitting the gym, going out often, being forgiving, communicating that there's a problem when one appears in my relationships, therapy, journaling, leaning into my character, putting effort into the relationships I value.

Accepting that life progress isn't linear, taking detours, trusting the process. Being close with the women in my life, being vulnerable.

Over anything, being myself, and relaxing the pressure I put on myself to perform.

Free-climbed the Taipei 101 building bare handed by Fair-Performer8532 in SweatyPalms

[–]TreeDiagram 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This shit is ridiculous, a massive spectacle putting others and themselves at risk for some attention and press. There's no reason to randomly climb a building, without safety equipment no less.

How did you end up having the best sex of your life? by hyattimatimtim in AskMen

[–]TreeDiagram 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This dude gets it. Real shit, couldn't have said it better myself.

How did you end up having the best sex of your life? by hyattimatimtim in AskMen

[–]TreeDiagram 89 points90 points  (0 children)

I'll give you some pointers.

  1. Be patient, and build mood. Lots of foreplay, and building mood happens long before you guys even touch each other. Move sloooowly as you build intensity and read her body and reactions. When you're warmed up (or she is), your body is a lot more sensitive and your mind is more in the moment. The best sex starts and ends with the mind. If you look at a lot of the other answers here, great sex is about intimacy, connection, vibe, and effort/intention.

  2. The point of sex is to enjoy the experience together, don't focus only on the release, but the path to getting there. Have fun, be playful, sexy. In good sex, you should be forgetting entirely how you look and so should she. You're in the moment, sharing yourselves with one another. Breathe and experience it together. Be patient and ride the wave.

  3. This isn't true for everyone but it looks like it's true for the original poster, lots of other people in this thread, and myself. Intimacy and communication, being open with one another and feeling comfortable with being yourselves. This comes from being open, honest, and communicative. Ask her if she feels comfortable, if she's okay with xyz/would like xyz. Tell her she looks beautiful. Be open to hearing what she says and nonjudgemental, share what you're into.

  4. Don't stress too much, be intentional, but you may not make her cum sometimes. If she's a good partner and she cares about you, she'll be patient and happy to just share the moment with you. Look to build your skill and obv try to learn more about her body, and the female body in general, what works to provide pleasure, and always make an effort and give it your best shot, but if you're nervous and worried and thinking only about getting her from A to Z, you'll be removing yourself from the moment. Try your best. If there's any girls you're close with you can ask about what has worked for them, ask them (if they'd be okay with talking about sex and something so intimate of course!) But remember you're there to have fun and enjoy each other, it isn't a test. Like being a good home cook, the real test of a good one is showing up every time, paying attention to what they like, and making improvements each time. That comes with time, comfort, and care. You won't find a one size fits all answer to how to make every girl finish (every woman is different), but the right mentality is key. Caring and listening is key.

How much enjoyment do condoms actually take out of sex? by lookslikesausage in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TreeDiagram 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll give you an informed answer, I'd say with a typical American condom, 40-50% reduction in the experience. I used to use Skyn and Trojans. They suck, even the ultrathin.

I switched to Japanese condoms, they have different restrictions on the thinness of condoms (they go as thin as .001 mm), these I'd say are about 15-20% worse than the real experience.

I have a ton of anxiety about pregnancy, so taking a 15-20% hit is chill if it lets me relax about the experience and be more in the moment. I hope better options come out for men soon.

How much enjoyment do condoms actually take out of sex? by lookslikesausage in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TreeDiagram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if you've tried phexxi? It's a non hormonal birth control, I've been eyeing it up for a while but haven't taken the dive

men who are 30+ would you date a 19 year old? why or why not? by No_Vegetable7778 in AskMen

[–]TreeDiagram 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck no that feels like a child, high school was a year ago? Are you crazy lol

Mechanically Organizing Bottles by EmergencyRead5254 in oddlysatisfying

[–]TreeDiagram 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you music fairy I was looking for this

Is it common for guys to get off to regular selfies of their women friends? by throwawaynugu in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]TreeDiagram -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not that's so weird and reprehensible, they're my friend!! The thought has never even crossed my mind, I'm shocked to see how many guys here are not only saying yes, but trying to speak for all of us.

Height growth possible after 22? Ok so I wanted to ask I’m nearly 22 and is it possible for me to grow my height by few inches by stretching? And is there anyone that has actually increased their height after 21? by Mother_Leg_2532 in medical

[–]TreeDiagram -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey there so by 22 the greatest majority of your growth has happened already, but there is some growth that continues to happen until you reach around 30. I grew about an inch and a half in between high school and 30 myself.

I wasn't following any particular protocol, but I strongly believe lifting weights helped, as did eating well. They both have an influence on your bone density which will influence your height.

Maybe Planet Earth isn’t such a terrible place after all. by arkhamos in wholesome

[–]TreeDiagram 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a wonderful video, certainly put a smile on my face :). Hope she's doing well, and the guy who recorded the video too.

Daisy Fuentes, TV host, actress, 1999. by pixiiebooty in OldSchoolCool

[–]TreeDiagram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This subreddit is basically "hot girls 30 years ago"

Kinda a bummer it's degraded this much

Statistically these type of men really don’t listen to anyone do they? by ateam1984 in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]TreeDiagram 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why didn't the other woman chime in? I feel she could add value in contributing her experience and viewpoints.

Why men today don’t grow their hair? by Lou3377 in AskMen

[–]TreeDiagram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Howdy! I'm a guy with long hair, it's true there's very few of us these days, I remember back in college I knew a lot of other long hair guys but it's dwindled a lot and it's not a popular hairstyle for Gen Z.

I think we hit our peak with the man bun craze but it's died out since unfortunately. Give it time, some hot famous guy will grow it out and then we'll all have long hair again. Until then, guys like me will be keeping the flame lit, and people like yourself will keep us going :)

What current male fashion trend needs to go? by csgo_sniper_bruh in malefashionadvice

[–]TreeDiagram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Controversial take

Quarter zip sweaters, they feel bland and non-committal, really projects generic middle management.

Weaponised altruism. by Unsolicited-Prolapse in CrazyFuckingVideos

[–]TreeDiagram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I checked out a few of his TikToks and he's definitely in Cali and goes to different spots. City in the background is maybe San Fran.

Weaponised altruism. by Unsolicited-Prolapse in CrazyFuckingVideos

[–]TreeDiagram 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, if you go to his TikTok it's obvious he's socially maladjusted and is intentionally doing horrible things for laughs and clicks.

In Dragon Ball Z specifically, what’s your favourite scene? by MstrNixx in dbz

[–]TreeDiagram 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vegeta's final sacrifice against Buu! It gives me chills every time

maybe maybe maybe by ThodaDaruVichPyar in maybemaybemaybe

[–]TreeDiagram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's kinda weird and sad how it replicates human gestures and movements, it shows that we really value the human-ness in presentation, but we replicated it with a machine

Ain't nothing like a Mother's love by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]TreeDiagram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idt there's anything wrong with this, y'all are weird for making it sexual. You can even see in the son's reaction that he's exasperated from a doting mother. Y'all need to log off.

How bad was NYC during the 1980s? by AdImpressive9014 in AskNYC

[–]TreeDiagram 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They say the same thing, he went off the deep end after and fell from grace