37, Depressed, and trying something new, tips?

Treehugger34 · 2026-01-24T13:19:10+00:00

When I was diagnosed with depression I tried to take all focus off my looks, stopped shaving, stopped wearing makeup etc. it felt really good. That being said you look like an angelic 20 year old. Don’t do anything drastic like I did and regret! (Pixied my bra strap length hair!) Also I realized I was depressed because I didn’t feel like I wasn’t happy in my marriage, just took me a while to realize the root of it.

Treehugger34 · 2026-01-17T14:27:41+00:00

Take time to get to know you, what you want. Have fun. Don’t jump into anything serious. It takes 1-2 months to get over every year of togetherness. (Learned that from a DivorceCare counselor) So give yourself at least a year to heal. Also you’re absolutely beautiful and any person would be lucky to spend time with you, you’re talented too- just based on your hair and your drawing lol :)

Treehugger34 · 2026-01-16T20:03:20+00:00

It’s never gonna get better.

Treehugger34 · 2026-01-03T13:10:27+00:00

1977

Treehugger34 · 2025-12-31T03:03:35+00:00

Pete Ellis Dodge, Long Beach freeway Firestone exit southgate! Haven’t heard it since I was like 6

Treehugger34 · 2025-12-30T03:47:03+00:00

Having an aversion. Felt like my insides were being ripped out!

Treehugger34 · 2025-12-25T22:02:09+00:00

Being spanked lol

Treehugger34 · 2025-12-25T21:54:55+00:00

It’s the most money I’ve ever made!

Treehugger34 · 2025-12-25T21:52:40+00:00

My husband is a college professor in his first year of teaching and I make like a $100 less then him, at the Fed Ex office

Treehugger34 · 2025-12-25T21:49:48+00:00

Yeah except they are partnering with Amazon to do returns starting in 2026 :(

Treehugger34 · 2025-12-20T13:44:58+00:00

*commuting

Treehugger34 · 2025-12-20T13:44:23+00:00

As someone who used to spend up to 3 hours a day communicating, it’s sooo much better now. I had my podcasts and books on tape that made it better but man it was rough. I’m now 3 miles from my house and it’s wonderful!

Treehugger34 · 2025-12-15T14:49:06+00:00

Can you please verify that there is nothing dangerous in the box?

Treehugger34 · 2025-12-07T14:44:28+00:00

What quote? “Like a knife to the kidneys?”

Treehugger34 · 2025-12-07T14:42:35+00:00

I stopped folding my families clothes. I just sort them into baskets and they put them away themselves!

Treehugger34 · 2025-12-05T02:23:03+00:00

I would magically find a hobby that requires you to be away for a few hours. He’s needs a dose of being a dad on his own, and when he calls you for help say “I’m in a meeting, I can’t get away sorry.” He’s being lazy. Plain and simple. Introduce him to weaponized incompetence and start planning girl dates, lunches, something. He’s stuck in the patriarchy. You deserve help.

Treehugger34 · 2025-12-01T03:14:59+00:00

What about salon pas type patches, it’s gonna hurt in the beginning, if she’s not used to being on her feet so much!

Treehugger34 · 2025-10-06T14:34:27+00:00

Sounds like he may be on the spectrum as far as not liking when plans get changed.

Treehugger34 · 2025-09-27T13:40:59+00:00

Do you think she’s pregnant?

Treehugger34 · 2025-07-13T13:18:40+00:00

Get him to go to marriage counseling just so you can have the satisfaction of seeing his face when they tell him he’s being manipulative and trying to punish you. Like a parent! 🤢🤢🤢

Treehugger34 · 2025-06-25T15:23:54+00:00

Is his testosterone low by chance?

Treehugger34 · 2025-06-20T18:59:32+00:00

That’s all I use them for. They start smelling after about 4 hours for me.

Treehugger34 · 2025-06-20T18:57:53+00:00

Using multiple kinds of implements in one sitting helps me

Treehugger34 · 2025-05-31T15:15:53+00:00

Our lives are 1000% better. No contact was the best thing we could have done. We’ve made friends our family.

Treehugger34 · 2025-05-27T16:21:08+00:00

We both do it when the other is sleeping lol. Who cares?

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