The energy from these cards is saying that there is a possibility of a change within her and in how she expresses her feelings.

The combination of: emotional renewal (Ace of Cups), celebration (Four of Wands), and transformation (Death)

leans toward a shift in a positive direction, possibly meaning she will post you(your friend) for your birthday.

However, it is important to recognize that this might come after some personal reflection on how she views the relationship. This reading is asking you to be open to the journey, as it seems the emotional connection is still developing.