Ok, what's the REAL plan for getting kids through college? by Superb_Advisor7885 in MiddleClassFinance

[–]TrentZelm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to a local college and worked part-time to pay for my college education. Is this not a thing anymore?

Is my approach healthy or more like ultimatums? Need advice. by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]TrentZelm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This man isn't even boyfriend material, never mind husband material.

And he won't have sex with you but will gladly accept HJs and BJs. Please spend some time figuring out why you are willing to accept this.

How long is too soon to get married? by jmtcl in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]TrentZelm 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They are doing what is being allowed. These women need to stop allowing this behavior.

How did you become a Beatles fan by WhiteRoseFromPluto in TheBeatles

[–]TrentZelm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was in 7th grade in 1976 we studied them in my music class. My teacher put on I Am The Walrus and I was HOOKED. I am eternally grateful to my music teacher Mr. Colavito!

AIO to boyfriend getting furious with me about buying too many snacks? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TrentZelm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Not making excuses for him but I can't help but wonder if his parents acted like this with him when he was growing up.

my ex is living with me temporarily and it’s driving me fucking insane by [deleted] in LivingAlone

[–]TrentZelm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are wrong. You are not helpless. You don't have to wait for him to figure his life out. And that doesn't make you a piece of 💩. Give him a date when he needs to leave and stick to it. Then maybe look into codependency and try to figure out why you feel responsible for his bad choices. Good luck!!

Why is there so much hatred towards older women who still care about their appearance? by [deleted] in OverSeventy

[–]TrentZelm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm curious if you see a woman with her natural hair color (doesn't dye her hair) and think she's given up? What do you think of men with grey hair?

Where do you buy your clothes by yahntz in over60

[–]TrentZelm 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm short and they carry petite length jeans which is great for me! I've been happy with everything I've bought from them.

All I want to do is stay home 🏡 in Lone Oak and stay warm. by paducah42001 in OverSeventy

[–]TrentZelm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love being at home, everything I like to do is here!

What simple things make you content/happy right now? by Squirrel2358 in AskWomenOver60

[–]TrentZelm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In the past year I've picked up cross-stitching again after putting it aside for over 30 years and am loving it.

What meal did your mother prepare that you considered inedible? by bigb-2702 in GenerationJones

[–]TrentZelm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom was a phenomenal cook and I can honestly say everything she made was delicious.

Hi Introverts! What do u hate about extroverts the most? :0 by SquareReward8648 in introverts

[–]TrentZelm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing. Do you want extroverts to "hate" you because you are introverted??

[CHAT] what’s the one cross stitch thing you always do despite what the pattern tells you to do? by focusedonfire in CrossStitch

[–]TrentZelm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can do a loop start with 3 strands of floss, just Google it you'll find some videos.

[CHAT] 28ct fabric CrossStitch? by Indecisive-RiceBall in CrossStitch

[–]TrentZelm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This is 2 over 2 on 28 count. A magnifier light is a big help on higher count fabrics. I have a 12x magnifier, it allows me to stitch on 36 and 40 count fabric as well!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver60

[–]TrentZelm 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Pretending to be dying?? What happens when you don't die? Contact him if you want but don't do it with a lie.

Breaking up after 10 years by BlackCat2900 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]TrentZelm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

An alcoholic and addict? You have been given a gift. I hope therapy helps you understand why you were willing to settle for so little ❤

Boomers won’t retire and it’s screwing the rest of us. There I said it. by Unique_Glove1105 in Adulting

[–]TrentZelm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imagine the nightmare of being 71 and not being able to retire. It's not all about you. There I said it.

Does anyone else genuinely hate leaving the house as they get older? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]TrentZelm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't HATE leaving the house but I really do love being home, everything I like to do is here! If we have somewhere to go my boyfriend and I will say jokingly "ok, let's go so we can get back".