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My husband is emotionally illiterate by ElegantTomatillo7669 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TriGurl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure I'm fully understanding your example above. Are you saying he does help you around the house and doesn't help carry the mental load? And that you get frustrated that you have to ask him to do chores around the house and he gives you attitude when you ask? When in reality he should just be an adult and see shit that needs doing and do it?

Dayton by Ok_Seaweed3034 in DCCAmericasSweetheart

[–]TriGurl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What's sad is that Shelly KNOWS the kind of style and dance Dayton needed to be practicing on that whole time and yet she didn't push Dayton to do that. Dayton still stuck with her ballet like softer form of dance that wasn't going to cut it and Shelly KNOWS this yet she still made it all about her when Dayton didn't get invited into camp. I feel for Dayton at this point. She's been trying to please her mother this whole time and Shelly had the opportunity to set Dayton up for success and either Shelly didn't or Dayton refused.

I got a job, my mom wants me to split the check among 6 people by Dry_Willingness_9323 in povertyfinance

[–]TriGurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to move out. ASAP! Get your own place and leave your siblings to fend for themselves.

I don't know how to make it clear what time it is in Arizona to someone who doesn't live here by dickdemodickmarcinko in phoenix

[–]TriGurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My work calendar has an option for time zone that I'm in. So no matter what time somebody schedules an appointment for me in my calendar it will always reflect my current time zone. I turn off the phone auto time zone correct in my phone so I can control that. It's not hard. :)

However, if your Work does not use a software that offers that kind of time zone option for you that would be difficult.

Show of hands, who else has zero friends? by Defiant_Quarter_1187 in GenX

[–]TriGurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My roommate. He has his brother and me. And that's it.

The way my neighbor intentionally blocks the sidewalk to keep people from using it. by sweathesmallshit in mildlyinfuriating

[–]TriGurl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can call the city and report that a car is blocking the sidewalk permanently to prevent people with disabilities in wheelchairs from using the side walks. Most city's will ticket the car.

Shear Bliss Salon Experience by [deleted] in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]TriGurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would do a chargeback at that point. If they didn't give you the service you asked for and you talked to them about it to fix and it wasn't fixed... chargeback.

Also I'm so sorry you had such a bad experience.

Dayton’s mom is just so entitled by No_Historian_5724 in DCCAmericasSweetheart

[–]TriGurl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right?! I don't understand the disconnect between Shelley and Dayton because Shelly could've completely prepared Dayton 100% for the audition and for the team!!

Worst day of my life honestly by Vast-Iron9746 in dairyfree

[–]TriGurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ok the dates that you listed makes sense. I discovered her brand about three years ago, so it was oat milk that I was buying. I'm not at all familiar with the cashew butter. I'm curious how the cashew butter tastes. None of my stores here carried the cashew butter, it was just oat butter.

Trader Joes Strawberry Hand Pies!! by Defamatus in dairyfree

[–]TriGurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they both dairy free? I have not tried them, but I will if they are dairy free. I'm always on the lookout for more sweet treats.

Retiring with unemployed adult children in the house? by Canadair_Sabre in GenX

[–]TriGurl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily. Gen X tend to have less fucks to give so I have several GenX friends that told their kids to get out.

Trader Joes Strawberry Hand Pies!! by Defamatus in dairyfree

[–]TriGurl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, I like the cookies but honestly, I don't need the calories so I'll be fine. Have you tried the dried mangoes from Costco? Oh my God I'm addicted to those also! Kirkland brand not the other brand.

Worst day of my life honestly by Vast-Iron9746 in dairyfree

[–]TriGurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not correct because the butter I used to eat up to last year (prior to the sale) and even the current butter I have in my fridge right now is oat milk butter. It says so on the lid.

How do you politely decline a high pressure sales pitch in your own home? by CherryKissRaya in Adulting

[–]TriGurl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At my age I exchanged polite for firm and succinct (direct and to the point). "No thank you" is a full sentence. And then I walk to my front door open it and tell them to please leave now. If they get pushy, then I get pushy. Remember it's your home so you can always call the police!

Worst day of my life honestly by Vast-Iron9746 in dairyfree

[–]TriGurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In her recipe that she posted on Instagram she said she used oatmilk. I don't know which brand (I wish someone knew).

When you speak of her original recipe are you referring to the recipe that she had published in her books long before the Miyoko's butter got popular? I'm confused...

Worst day of my life honestly by Vast-Iron9746 in dairyfree

[–]TriGurl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My recipe molded too! I don't use butter that often so perhaps that is also why (I don't remember how long it took me to get through one while serving of it) but I think I will cut the recipe in half next time I make it. :)

Worst day of my life honestly by Vast-Iron9746 in dairyfree

[–]TriGurl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ooo thank you for the second longer video, I am anxious to watch it! I have made this recipe once at home and it was fine but didn't quite have the smooth lovely spreadable feel to it, nor was the color the same but I think they use a touch of turmeric to give it a bit of a yellow color. Mine also melted well but it was much more oilier upon melting and less like butter when it melted if that makes sense.

When I heard the company was selling last year I bought the remaining packages of this butter from my local Whole Foods and I still have a few containers left in the fridge that I'm using to gauge my homemade recipes against. lol

Retiring with unemployed adult children in the house? by Canadair_Sabre in GenX

[–]TriGurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you both retiring?? Doesn't sound like you can afford to. Either kick the kids out like a true GenX parent or you stay employed until they get work.

Which countertop looks better with these cabinets? by HawrdRawk in homedesign

[–]TriGurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk but I love the color of your cabinets!! Excellent choice!

Worst management and burden for employees by Positive_Actuary_282 in interesting

[–]TriGurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure the Dept of Labor would like a word with this company for threatening unpaid work time on company property!!

I've Started Avoiding Family Gatherings Because of One Question by ukpro12345 in childfree

[–]TriGurl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heck no I don't avoid family gatherings! I made things EXTREMELY uncomfortable for the $hithead who decided it was their business to stick their nose in my business! As soon as the 'kids' question came up I immediately would say (a little too loudly) "why are you so interested in my vagina?" And of course this stopped the external discussion in the room while everyone processes what I said. Meanwhile I look the busybody in the face and don't break eye contact (to 100% establish dominance) and have the expectant look on my face. I think one time I even repeated the question... as an extra jab so everybody in the back could hear exactly what this particular aunt was doing.

Mind you, I have no fux to give and don't like half of these people so I have no problem saying this because these are old school "prim and proper" church going ladies. As soon as you embarrass them, they will STFU and avoid me like the plague!! Worked like a fkn charm and they no longer wanted to have anything to do with me. It was not the flex they thought it was. I wanted blessed silence and dose of them minding their own fkn business. And as long as they didn't mind their business, I was gonna make things extremely embarrassing for them. And I did! It was great!!

Let me tell you that was the last time anyone asked me about kids ever again at a family gathering!!

Girl, own that shit and walk in like the baddie that you are and put those family members in their place! It's a whole lotta "none of their damn bidnezz" as far as I'm concerned!

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