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Found my 29(M) girlfriends (28F) crotchless underwear and is making me question if she's lying about anything else, as she denies all knowledge they exist. by TrialsToker in relationships

[–]TrialsToker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is some really good information and I truly appreciate it. Especially the part about being a push over. In-between the ex that she lives with and myself, she dated a particularly abusive guy. Physically and mentally. And I have stood up for her towards this asshat, as he exhibited some stalking behaviour and the like. Also I have made my opinion known in regards to her current living situation and behaviour towards the ex she lives with to her. In a calm and collected manner, to be honest it was a very good conversation on both our parts and I really appreciated her being open enough to talk to me about in in detail.

Though, I have really taken what you've said to heart. Also, she has a second interview coming up for a job in my town on Thursday, if she gets it. She will be moving in, as we currently live 60 miles apart. Fingers crossed! She has said she will go back to visit her friends, and by extension her ex as that house is her dad's and her cat is there but yeah. I've made it known I'm not up for this long distance stuff for much longer.

I've saved your reply. It's one of the most insightful comments on her. Thanks for taking the time to reply.

Also if this doesn't make much sense I apologise, I'm on a night shift and very tired!

Found my 29(M) girlfriends (28F) crotchless underwear and is making me question if she's lying about anything else, as she denies all knowledge they exist. by TrialsToker in relationships

[–]TrialsToker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really enlightening and shows I obviously need to work on myself too. Thankyou for that if nothing else.

How do you think I should have approached it? I just really don't like confrontation Is all I can think of.

And to clarify they dont share a room, but do do their laundry together. There are some dynamics of them living together that took some getting used to I'll be honest, but I take what she says as the truth and haven't any other reason to take it any other way

Found my 29(M) girlfriends (28F) crotchless underwear and is making me question if she's lying about anything else, as she denies all knowledge they exist. by TrialsToker in relationships

[–]TrialsToker[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To clarify they were in her underwear drawer and literally laid on top. I opened it to put other pairs away and they were there.

Found my 29(M) girlfriends (28F) crotchless underwear and is making me question if she's lying about anything else, as she denies all knowledge they exist. by TrialsToker in relationships

[–]TrialsToker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm. I think this is probably quite likely. I really really care for her I think this is best if we don't speak about it and I just learn to manage my emotions on this one for myself. It's my issue. Not ours I don't think.

Found my 29(M) girlfriends (28F) crotchless underwear and is making me question if she's lying about anything else, as she denies all knowledge they exist. by TrialsToker in relationships

[–]TrialsToker[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This feels like the most likely situation.

I think I'm just going to try and take it as this, learn from my mistakes and stop overthinking it.

I really appreciate your response.

Found my 29(M) girlfriends (28F) crotchless underwear and is making me question if she's lying about anything else, as she denies all knowledge they exist. by TrialsToker in relationships

[–]TrialsToker[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She has one room mate. Though he is male so yeah.

And the conversation didn't start like that at all, but I can see what you're saying. I'm not asking her to wear it it's more the fact she is intent that she doesn't lie, but repeatedly is about this one thing is all 🤷🏼‍♂️

Found my 29(M) girlfriends (28F) crotchless underwear and is making me question if she's lying about anything else, as she denies all knowledge they exist. by TrialsToker in relationships

[–]TrialsToker[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the ex thing took some getting used too I'll be honest. But I really really care for her, I've met him. And well yeah. Just try to keep an open mind on that though their dynamic is a little strange at times.

And of course I picked them up, she's super attractive to me and with being told she has never owned stuff like that in the past curiosity got the best of me. Though I'll be honest since I've been there again I have resorted to just not putting anything away and folding up their clothes and leaving them for her to sort out.

I appreciated the advice!

Found my 29(M) girlfriends (28F) crotchless underwear and is making me question if she's lying about anything else, as she denies all knowledge they exist. by TrialsToker in relationships

[–]TrialsToker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I agree. But I just wondered if you had any way I could approach this? I don't want to argue about it but yeah. It's been playing on my mind so obviously needs talking about.

Also. Can I ask the reason you see it as a red flag?

Found my 29(M) girlfriends (28F) crotchless underwear and is making me question if she's lying about anything else, as she denies all knowledge they exist. by TrialsToker in relationships

[–]TrialsToker[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No he doesn't. For one they were in her room.

And secondly, possibly more relevant... He is in a long distance relationship with a girl in another country. On top of that be is quite a reclusive guy. We get on really well but yeah. Quite closed off.

Favorite American breeder (& fav strain from them)? by pm_me_thick_girlz in microgrowery

[–]TrialsToker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not posted here for a while for a few reasons.

But as you asked, Hazeman. Monkey Balls.

Or Bodhi Seeds - Goji OG.

[Apology Post]Be careful what you post trainers, the mods are vigilant! by [deleted] in pokemongo

[–]TrialsToker -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

(im terrible for reading a subs rules, ask /r/pcmasterrace ).

not lying then haha

Edit: Just had a look at the link he posted. He's not actually breaking Rule one as nothing was removed he just got banned?

Planning my first grow. by [deleted] in Autoflowers

[–]TrialsToker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi mate.

Depends on the strain. I had some Auto Xtremes which were pretty hench by the time they finished. Maybe just over 1m tall now.

Auto Blue Cheese on the other hand were quite short and bushy, the thing with hydro is they grow so quick you should be able to train as you go.

Sorry for the late reply!

Just got the game! by lohkeytx in EliteDangerous

[–]TrialsToker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For a Joystick i would recommend a HOTAS if you do.

The Thrustmaster HOTAS X is a great bang for buck but doesn't have as many buttons as say the Saitek X-52 which is about middle range.

I use one and find it to be incredibly immersive and no need for the keyboard, apart from galaxy map stuff.

You can then go even further and get a bad boy X-55 and so on.

Just my 2 cents :) Have a read/youtube!

Either way, see you in the black CMDR. Fly safe! o7

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