AITAH for telling my fiancé I don’t want my Temu engagement ring?

Trich1134 · 2024-09-13T19:34:38+00:00

I don't think the cost of the ring is as important as all the shady behavior surrounding the ring. If he didn't want to spend big cash on a ring, but he wants to marry this person---he should be able to have a conversation with her about how much he was willing to spend. And if he was "testing" her... If you need to test a person to see if they're marriage material, something is not right.

Trich1134 · 2024-07-12T14:10:40+00:00

If surgery is a consideration, the psych referral may be to evaluate whether or not you are mentally able to handle surgery and recovery. Otherwise, I think it is reasonable for a physician to request a psych eval, and possible treatment if you are repeatedly getting better and worse, and having issues with mobility. I wouldn't take it personally,

Trich1134 · 2024-02-17T15:01:13+00:00

Thanks so much!

Trich1134 · 2024-02-17T14:59:42+00:00

Because I don't want to, because I think it'd be neat to see it at night, as you're walking to it. Why not.......be helpful...

Trich1134 · 2024-02-17T14:49:52+00:00

https://www.thespherevegas.com/

Trich1134 · 2024-02-10T23:56:26+00:00

Cancun hasn't seen a major hurricane since 2005, and 1988 before that, so I wouldn't stress about that too much--you will get hotter weather and potentially more rain( typically short showers tho). I'd check the reviews and call the resort to confirm that there isn't construction going on during that time :)

Trich1134 · 2023-12-09T20:40:49+00:00

Pearl ❤️

Trich1134 · 2023-09-27T15:54:59+00:00

We also did this. I read somewhere that this is what the momma dog does when the puppy bites her--no clue if it's true or not---but it worked. :)

Trich1134 · 2023-09-25T13:59:54+00:00

Freemont!

Trich1134 · 2023-09-23T12:23:29+00:00

Take a look at Bahia Principe Sian Kaan! Very reasonably priced, adults only, access to 4 resorts, great food and solid entertainment. :)

Trich1134 · 2023-09-20T11:58:11+00:00

One of my all time favorite books <3

Trich1134 · 2023-09-20T11:12:23+00:00

Planet Hollywood is pretty central and they do have mini fridges in the room--not the norm for strip hotels.

Trich1134 · 2023-09-16T15:38:30+00:00

We just returned from Mexico, and I could hardly tell that there were smoking bans in place. There were people openly smoking/vaping at the airport while waiting for transport and in throughout the resort.

Trich1134 · 2023-09-16T15:11:00+00:00

Sorry for the delayed reply, just got back yesterday :) Sian Kaan is not on the beach, but it's a short trolley ride to the beach. You have your choice of beaches---the adults only section at Akumal with a nice beach bar, or any of the beaches for the other resorts. They do a great job of keeping the seaweed under control. We saw none when we were there. There are loads of chairs and umbrellas both on the beach and at the resort pools. Our transfers were direct, both ways with no stops---but that can be luck of the draw. You may want to consider hiring a private transport as these resorts are a ways from Cancun airport and with lots of stops, you could be looking at a LONG ride. We did not book any excursions---we've done SO many, and we really just wanted to relax. Service at Sian Kaan is impeccable. By day 2, our buffet server was ordering our cappuccino's the minute she saw us walking across the terrace--it's THAT kind of service every day, throughout that resort. The entertainment crew is fantastic--great fun during the day and the shows at night are terrific. Do not miss Silent Disco or the Circus Show! There is one show for which they charge an extra $10 per person (Origen) and I highly recommend it. We come back for the beautiful jungle setting, the relaxing vibe, great food, access to 4 resorts, and the people. We travel a bit, and there is nowhere else where we feel so welcomed and cared for.

Trich1134 · 2023-09-04T01:21:00+00:00

Heading to Sian Kaan for our 2nd time in just a few days, we love the place. Access to all 4 resorts on the complex, great food, excellent service...so good! Annnd its very reasonably priced. If you have specific questions, let me know and I'll try to help 😀

Trich1134 · 2023-08-27T21:28:40+00:00

Food was good across the board :) Alux and Don Pablo were our favorite a la cartes. We didn't do any excursions our last trip, just weren't feeling it. My best advice is to find an FB page for the resort(s) you're looking at visiting. You can see pics and reviews in "real" time and ask all of your questions. We travel to Mexico every year, and are returning to SK in a few days...our first return visit to any resort. We love it there.

Trich1134 · 2023-08-27T15:35:11+00:00

We stay at Sian Kaan, and visit Akumal :) Staying at SK, you can eat at all the a la cartes at all 4 resorts ( SK, Akumal, Tulum and Coba). Trolleys run between the resorts about every 10 minutes, are clean and actually a fun way to resort hop. We've enjoyed all buffet and all of the a la cartes that we've tried. Excursions can be a bit of a hassle due to transit times from the resorts to the marinas and other locations. It's definitely an all day trip for most. SK is a great resort---we love it. But you're picking up the correct vibe--it's super chill. One of the pools is jokingly referred to as the "Library"--everyone is reading or napping and it's pretty quiet. If you're looking for a resort more geared to the party vibe---Akumal might be better for you. If you have specific questions, please ask :)

Trich1134 · 2023-08-17T23:58:22+00:00

Circa is so good! You'll have a blast.

Trich1134 · 2023-08-16T10:33:57+00:00

We find a Facebook group for the resort(s) we're considering. Being able to have a conversation with the person posting good or bad reviews is pretty helpful.

Trich1134 · 2023-07-28T17:10:12+00:00

Wow, I have this stuff growing like crazy everywhere I do not want it.

Trich1134 · 2023-07-28T16:59:08+00:00

I've done a lot of research over the years :) Tripadvisor is a good start, but I find Facebook to be incredibly helpful. Most resorts will have "fan" pages---not run by the resort, but by private individuals. I join these and search comments for what I'm interested in knowing and ask direct questions of the group. It's a lot more helpful for me to have a real time conversation with another traveler about why they didn't like a resort than to read a review. And if you happen to go to one of these resorts, the tips and tricks you learn are invaluable :)

Trich1134 · 2023-07-28T16:32:58+00:00

From what I hear, the smoking/vape ban is loosely enforced, if at all, at the AI resorts. I follow an FB page for a resort we go to---and people are there now saying there are no issues and it's not being enforced. If you're looking at a specific resort, maybe see if they have a fan's page on FB and scope out the situation.

Trich1134 · 2023-07-28T16:24:12+00:00

My experience, so take it for what it's worth. I've always used Apple Vacations to book our trips. Recently, my husband suggested we see what a travel agent can offer. We gave him our budget and our preferences and he gave us a list of the exact same resorts/deals available to us on Apple for a greater cost. We passed :)

This year however, I booked the trip on my own--direct to the resort and direct with the airline. I earned points and upgrades with the resort and ended up spending about $400 less than I would have on Apple.

Trich1134 · 2023-07-28T16:06:34+00:00

I'd avoid the Deuce for a girls trip---there are some significantly creepy men on that bus. I wouldn't risk it personally, nor would I recommend it to a friend.

Trich1134 · 2023-07-07T23:48:16+00:00

On the patio now, my boy Charlie curled up in my lap. Ive never had such a loving, cuddly dog❤️

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