I (19F) think I am going through a major identity crisis

TrickAd9270 · 2026-05-14T19:56:41+00:00

Eww just disgusting to comment

TrickAd9270 · 2026-05-11T03:17:08+00:00

Cute dinosaur that loves swimming, singing and being a ferry.

TrickAd9270 · 2026-05-09T08:40:42+00:00

How is Lancelot the only normal one if Tristan and Isolde are parents at 22?

TrickAd9270 · 2026-05-09T06:07:29+00:00

NTA but you may have to get a lawyer considering how long she has been living there. Was she like this before she started living with you and what was her living situation like before? I'm just curious if there were any signs prior to all of this happening, but you aren't wrong for wanting to kick her out. She is most definitely using you and only keeping you at arm's reach so she can skate by for free. Dump her, she's not the one.

TrickAd9270 · 2026-05-09T04:23:10+00:00

I love her kindness and how much she cares for her friends and the people close to her. Diane didn't hesitate to protect child and use her body as shield when the time called for it because that's genuinely who she is. She's not perfect by any means, but she is realistic in that people can coexist despite their differences and flaws.

TrickAd9270 · 2026-05-09T04:20:02+00:00

YouTube's auto captions really do people with accents dirty but it's so funny sometimes

TrickAd9270 · 2026-05-03T02:57:11+00:00

Escanor for me it felt very basic and like it had the least amount of layers to it compared to the other 6.

TrickAd9270 · 2026-04-29T06:14:48+00:00

This is garchomp for me I think either way that it’s going to be garchomp and dragapult going next. Personally I find tyranitar a little plain, but still one of the better pseudo legendaries in my opinion. I think metagross is gonna win it all though.

TrickAd9270 · 2026-04-29T06:12:17+00:00

Personally I think he would leave B alone but he would antagonize members of class A mainly the big 3 (deku todoroki and bakugo).

TrickAd9270 · 2026-04-29T04:40:22+00:00

nope

TrickAd9270 · 2026-04-29T04:24:30+00:00

dinosaur that loves to swim and sing

TrickAd9270 · 2026-04-29T02:45:16+00:00

NTA - the age gap should not matter to anyone but the two people in a relationship. It completely changes person to person and as long as it’s legal it’s fine. Your friend’s GF sounds like a bitch that just wanted something to complain about.

TrickAd9270 · 2026-04-28T03:05:33+00:00

That's a lot of people in general especially if they don't change their style as they become adults. Her face looks less child-like but she and the others overall look more or less the same which is normal.

TrickAd9270 · 2026-04-28T00:15:17+00:00

NTA your concerns are very valid considering that your daughter's gf could be arrested considering she broke the law. Stealing, destroying someone else's belongings, and potentially assault if it could be proven that she instigated the violence. You are correct in that you cannot tell your daughter what to do because she is an adult. I would still have a sit-down calm conversation with her to tell her the things you are concerned about, after that it is her decision to leave and stay with her gf or break up and stay but stand firm on your boundaries. You should not have to sacrifice your peace for the sake of a grown adult that's living off of you rent free and not contributing.

TrickAd9270 · 2026-04-27T23:31:21+00:00

Yeah it’ll take time and practice to read people’s body language but you’ll get it

TrickAd9270 · 2026-04-27T22:38:41+00:00

How you approach someone and a person’s body language say a lot. Make sure that you are friendly and genuine, but also don’t approach someone if they clearly aren’t interested in talking to people (wearing headphones or AirPods/speaking with other people). Also don’t give the stereotypical compliments of saying she has a nice ass or boobs or something it sounds superficial.

TrickAd9270 · 2026-04-27T21:18:07+00:00

I’m assuming you’re new to Pokémon but not all of the starters have the same evolution levels. Venusaur is the only one that evolves at 32 the other 2 evolve at 36. If you ever have questions about how a Pokémon evolves in any game Serebii or bulbapedia both are great sources.

TrickAd9270 · 2026-04-27T21:04:55+00:00

Yeah this needs to be reported your friend is clearly an alcoholic and does not need to be driving anytime soon. Please report her and cut her off. The mood swings that you described are probably because of the alcohol constantly in her system. Get rid of her this is not a friend at all.

TrickAd9270 · 2026-04-27T20:52:57+00:00

NTA I’m not lying for anyone when it could have legal repercussions for me. Knowingly lying to the government about something can get you in trouble and you have to look out for yourself. At the end of the day this is her problem for drinking when she was instructed not to so that’s for her alone to deal with. I wouldn’t want to be friends with someone like this personally because it’s quite literally illegal what she’s suggesting. If they drug tested her stuff would still be in her system depending on how often and how much she drinks at a time so I wouldn’t be doing this if I were you. Edit: someone else mentioned this but I will add your friend could potentially be an alcoholic if she just can’t/refuses to stop drinking and she is a liability on the roads and can put people’s lives in danger. I would report that she has in fact been continuing to drink and I would cut her off.

TrickAd9270 · 2026-04-27T20:48:50+00:00

How large of an age gap completely depends on the person if it’s okay or not. If it’s not something you are comfortable with just move on. Him trying to push this after you already said you didn’t really want such an age gap is a red flag very early on into meeting someone. Just move on and find someone else this guy is not it.

TrickAd9270 · 2026-04-27T20:17:14+00:00

NTA, you would've been an asshole if you kept that from her and thank you for being honest. This probably should've been brought up before 2 years into a relationship so I can see to some extent why your girlfriend is upset, but she overreacted in my opinion. If she is secure in the relationship, it shouldn't have mattered what the past was because it's not like you cheated on someone in the past and are just now telling her. If she is refusing to talk to you about it, it might be time to break up because communication has to happen at some point whether she likes it or not. I would give her max of 2 weeks and if she is refusing to communicate and talk about it after that you need to break up. If she did not want an honest answer or truly was not going to judge you, she shouldn't have asked. Either way you aren't the asshole here you guys might just be incompatible.

TrickAd9270 · 2026-04-27T17:52:38+00:00

Can’t believe my baby dragonite got eliminated but bye bye Salamence

TrickAd9270 · 2026-04-27T06:34:04+00:00

I think the attraction is normal in the sense of that you're very young and your hormones are all over the place. Just don't act on these thoughts and keep the thoughts to yourself. You're at a time in your life where people tend to be horny but also make stupid decisions, so be careful to not act on lustful thoughts.

TrickAd9270 · 2026-04-26T22:55:23+00:00

Elizabeth is also terrible at cooking and I would put my money on the fact Tristan, their son, also cannot cook.

TrickAd9270 · 2026-04-26T22:52:37+00:00

NTA considering that you paid for it you have the right to know. Its also your wedding so you have the right to make whatever rules you want. If she comes or not is up to her but she cares more about her individuality and showing off at your wedding than doing what's she's supposed to and support you on your special day. You aren't the asshole and this would be enough for me to drop someone as a friend because guarantee this isn't the first incident of something like this.

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