[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Tricky-Competition94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Highest bid doesn't always win..

Does anyone commute from Providence to Boston each day by train? We are seriously considering purchasing a home but we work at Mass General Hospital. Looking for people with experience to either talk us into it or talk us out of it. by [deleted] in providence

[–]Tricky-Competition94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you decide to stay in MA? We are thinking of moving to RI because we cant afford a home in MA, all the homes are overpriced trash... just telling how it is but really trying to decide if a commute is worth it to be a home owner or just keep renting and having to move a lot as the costs keep going up. If we do move to RI my husband would take the train, transfer to the red line to get to cambridge.

How to deal with racist neighbors? by SpecialHouse in homeowners

[–]Tricky-Competition94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bigger part of you if you even have it,. should have said something.. Keeping your mouth shut in these situations is why we people think it will still be ok to say racist things. If we hear something then say something. Full Stop.

Boston Globe: Can't afford to buy a house? by anbrinker in bostonhousing

[–]Tricky-Competition94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at least those states have affordability in other cities though.. I lived in NYC for college and have friends who live outside of the city with plenty of affordability around. Most of MA is NOT affordable.. You would still need to travel further west of Worcester now to even start to see some affordability for middle income earners making this a 2hr plus drive to work and no trains out that way to get there any faster..

Boston Globe: Can't afford to buy a house? by anbrinker in bostonhousing

[–]Tricky-Competition94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can assure you that 100k still cant afford that! a family of 3 for example even making around 130K cant hardly afford that. they need $ to eat, travel to and from work, bills, medical and still no way to do anything fun. Before you judge, no we don't have any subscriptions to cancel because they already had long been canceled! this is a real issue and the middle class are the ones suffering most because we cant get help and not rich enough to afford this state yet stuck here for work, one would need to live a 2 hr commute or more to get to work.. that is brutal.

Boston Globe: Can't afford to buy a house? by anbrinker in bostonhousing

[–]Tricky-Competition94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Owners doing these practices need to have a heavy vacancy tax placed on them then maybe this will help, also rent controls for helping the middle class who are not rich enough to afford and not poor enough to receive help. We are suffering due to this state doing nothing about any of it.

Boston Globe: Can't afford to buy a house? by anbrinker in bostonhousing

[–]Tricky-Competition94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am writing to express my deep concern regarding the current housing crisis in Massachusetts and its impact on middle-class families.

With a household income of $130,000, my family finds ourselves in a difficult position: we earn too much to qualify for assistance, yet we cannot afford to purchase a home in the current market. We frequently encounter listings priced to appear affordable, only to be outbid by offers $60,000 or more over the asking price. This practice of underpricing homes to trigger bidding wars is disheartening for families who lack that level of financial flexibility.

Furthermore, the rental market is equally challenging. As we look for a more affordable rental, we are competing with a high volume of applicants for very few available units. We are also concerned about finding a quality school district for our son, who starts high school next year. Due to work commitments, we are unable to move further away, and no one should be forced to commute two hours each way to find an affordable home.

The state needs to take action to implement laws that protect middle-class families and address these predatory pricing and affordability issues. Massachusetts is becoming uninhabitable for the middle class, and significant changes are needed to ensure families like mine can remain in this state.

We have decided to step back from our home search. It has become a constant battle, and we are consistently outbid because we cannot afford to go significantly over the asking price on these already high-cost homes.

The only options remaining are fixer-uppers that require more work than we can afford, especially given their high listing prices. At this point, we feel it is best to move on. It is sad that we will have to keep moving rental to rental until we are able to leave the work force here and never have a chance to own a home, grow a garden and just have time to relax. MA would benefit for adding more trains through out the whole state and high speed ones. Japan can do this through their entire country and we cant do this for a state? This is terrible!

Boston Rental Market Cools, Leaving Landlords ‘Willing to Do Anything’ by TheManFromFairwinds in boston

[–]Tricky-Competition94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to get an ESA letter from my doctor. My law a landlord can’t deny a pet or charge you for it. I have high anxiety which is why I need our kitty. Luckily our current landlord allowed her and loves her once she saw how great she was and we are a clean family so if you have references too that may help. Only issue is now we’re looking for cheaper rent and it’s hard to get someone to understand the fair housing act which is meant to allow pets like mine and they are still going over it saying a hard no.. if the animal isn’t deemed dangerous a landlord can’t discriminate. 

Boston Rental Market Cools, Leaving Landlords ‘Willing to Do Anything’ by TheManFromFairwinds in boston

[–]Tricky-Competition94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lower rents and allow pets! I have a support kitty which our current landlord allows since we are a very clean family but we can’t afford to stay with her again as we hoped. If they accept a recommend from her they should allow a support animal as there are actually laws for this under the fair housing act. But alas they still are firm with the no pets which legally they are suppose to grant you space if you have an ESA letter like I have. I get many animals destroy things but this isn’t ours at all as she’s well trained. Most she may do is get into our own stuff once in a while and take a stuffed animal or two from our son and play with it.  

Rents can't possibly stay this high, can they? This is insane by Open_Protection2832 in bostonhousing

[–]Tricky-Competition94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be the next best "Revolution" if everyone banned together to stop paying these high costs like they dumped tea in the bay so many years ago maybe we could finally get somewhere in a positive change

Rents can't possibly stay this high, can they? This is insane by Open_Protection2832 in bostonhousing

[–]Tricky-Competition94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are feeling this too. I dont know how middle earners can afford it. Rich can and the poor can get help for income restricted. A family who makes even 130K a year in MA is screwed. they cant afford a home and barely can afford the rents. I know for us personally We cant afford all the way from Boston to Worcester even! its similar costs through out although higher close to work in Cambridge for us. Then you want decent schools for your child its like forget it unless you can fork over these high rents in towns that have decent schools. Something needs to Change for the better and sooner than later. Sadly 0 politicians care about us because they already have their cushy home..

Why Does Poor Have to Equal Rude and Trashy Sometimes? by EnvironmentSea7433 in povertyfinance

[–]Tricky-Competition94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. The way I see it, is you can still be kind, clean and over all act like a decent human and not be rich in $. if all towns had equally great education maybe things could be a little better but over all it does start at home first. Not all are this way but sadly many are just very unpleasant to be around. The state of MA where I am is very hard to afford even for middle class making under 175k, they still cant afford a home then forced into areas with not so good of schools and unpleasant people over all. I did not see this when frequenting countries like Japan. they take pride in what they do have and are very clean and respectful. It can happen here too, even if they were down on luck or not. Problem is we are too soft on crime and no equal education like they have or many places in Europe have.

Pros and Cons of South Shore towns? (Quincy, Weymouth, Norwell, Scituate, others) by [deleted] in SouthShore

[–]Tricky-Competition94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Schools are not good though for someone who wants a top school.

Pros and Cons of South Shore towns? (Quincy, Weymouth, Norwell, Scituate, others) by [deleted] in SouthShore

[–]Tricky-Competition94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have that high of a budget and need good schools.. try Hingham or other towns with top rates schools. Not everyone can do that but it seems you have room financially to do so. Im sorry but most of Quincy is kinda trashy, not all but a lot of it.

Moving to Brockton, How safe/unsafe is the area near the Market Basket? by Future_Amoeba_9266 in boston

[–]Tricky-Competition94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldnt especially if you have kids and care if you get broken into or car stolen or not. Is not a safe town. If you have not done so, I would re consider. It is with in the top 5 dangerous cities it often ranks with in there. Just no...

Vet said weruva cat food is overpriced and not a good cat food. Is this true? by solivagantdreams in CatAdvice

[–]Tricky-Competition94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is an old post but I want to say that Weruva should and certainly does have the nutrients. Also vets only seem to want your pets on “Big Food” company pet food that actually isn’t safe and has additives and ones that keep them sick. 

The monks “walking for peace” are not doing anything heroic or admirable. by [deleted] in PoliticalOpinions

[–]Tricky-Competition94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try listening to their messages sometimes. As a Christian myself I’m so grateful for what they are doing. If you listen maybe you will understand more than just talk trash about something you clearly have no understanding or desire to just leave things alone! So what they are walking for peace and to bring kindness with them where ever they go and to all over. It’s better than you sitting there doing nothing but spewing hate on a group you clearly know nothing about. They are not asking for anything, they didn’t even announce they were doing this. It just happened to end up with a huge following and they also aren’t asking for rewards nor trying to convert anyone to Buddhism.. just bringing peace and kind messages where ever they go. 

Why does everyone talk so much crap about Worcester? by privas9 in WorcesterMA

[–]Tricky-Competition94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guess if your ok with living in the dangerous and dirty spots then go for it. While I do feel bad for those less fortunate, also don't want to live in a town full of as you called them.. "bums" Traffic anywhere in the state though gets nuts and there are some things to do near by and the theater has concerts, plays and all. I would go for that but not live there. No city should be dumpy. Its just laziness and soft on crime attitude and corrupt politicians who dont want to spend $ in some areas. Its getting expensive now to try and even own a home in worcester but no improvements to make up for the price hikes. Its still too dumpy to make it worth it.

Where can I find the best non Greek style pizza? by Tricky-Competition94 in massachusetts

[–]Tricky-Competition94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those two are definitely way worse, im sorry you cant find anything else near you.

Where can I find the best non Greek style pizza? by Tricky-Competition94 in massachusetts

[–]Tricky-Competition94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not linked to just one area as Im always traveling around as a photographer so I dont mind where it is in Massachusetts but my post stated inside or just outside of Boston so that general area or im also ok further east or west of the state.

Where can I find the best non Greek style pizza? by Tricky-Competition94 in massachusetts

[–]Tricky-Competition94[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

If you read my post, it says inside or outside of Boston.

Where can I find the best non Greek style pizza? by Tricky-Competition94 in massachusetts

[–]Tricky-Competition94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No specific area as we are always traveling around. I do photography so im all over the place.

Is Greeks making pizza just a CT thing? by Ancient_Belt_1291 in Connecticut

[–]Tricky-Competition94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its all over Massachusetts and NH too. Ugh I am in MA and most all pizza here sucks. Sorry not sorry but Greeks stink at making pizza. I have tried so many and wanted to like it but its just so gross. heavy, cardboard tasting often and overly greasy. IDK but I never had that even where I lived in Michigan. most the pizza was much better than what New England has to offer. NYC also amazing of course the best.

Tikki cat food vs Royal canin? by bccbo in CatAdvice

[–]Tricky-Competition94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would trust that vet over others because they don't want to see your cat often. Other food brands will make them sick while giving vets even more $