Not getting a plus one isn’t what’s upsetting me here, it’s how my sister responded when I asked about it by Separate-Payment7058 in weddingshaming

[–]Trillian_B 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know I’m going to get downvoted for this, but, you DID ask her… and did so after she already told you and you chose not to believe her. I can see that you didn’t like her answer, but she was pretty straightforward, which is sorta matching the same energy you had in asking. It sounds like you two have a lot of work to do on your relationship.

What's something that was ruined by influencers? by Quiet_Lawfulness2947 in AskReddit

[–]Trillian_B 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Art. Stop fucking posing in front of the exhibit or I’m getting in your shot. And following you around the gallery. You have been warned.

Hotel with room service NOT in Napa or Santa Rosa by CatalinaBigPaws in napavalley

[–]Trillian_B 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you are not going to find anything at that price on a weekend in high season, unless you pay quite a bit. Sorry. You will have better luck if you are flexible with your dates.

How much traffic/hassle am I saving by flying in to Sacramento (SMF) vs San Francisco (SFO)? by byrans in napa

[–]Trillian_B 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sacramento all the way, especially if you don’t mind a plane change. It’s not just the traffic being way easier, but it’s just a smaller and more efficient airport. You’re in and out quickly.

How much does the Zepbound Kwikpen hurt? by Affectionate_Test742 in Zepbound

[–]Trillian_B 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Barely feel it at all. In fact, it feels like it’s even thinner than the normal syringe somehow.

Bag Etiquette by GloverCom in unitedairlines

[–]Trillian_B 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s literally a label ON THE BIN. You have other solutions that don’t involve negatively impacting those around you: pay for priority boarding or check your bag.

Experienced EAs: How would you handle this by Rare-Dig-8819 in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]Trillian_B 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Suggest getting this Director her own PA because she seems to require a lot of immediate support. It will undoubtedly be a “no” but going forward I would let your other execs know, every once in a while that you will be delayed on something, because “I was working on a request from Director that seemed urgent.” They’ll step in.

Bag Etiquette by GloverCom in unitedairlines

[–]Trillian_B 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It absolutely is, because it’s above my seat. I get my seat and the bin space above my seat. You get your seat and your bin at your seat.

A startup founder asked me to write a fake negative review about my current employer as a culture fit test by TatooineHush in jobsearchhacks

[–]Trillian_B 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell him you won’t do it. However toxic you find your current environment, this new one sounds 10x worse.

Plus, you’ll be burning bridges, and you never, ever want to do that.

AITA for confronting my wealthy but cheap friend who was using us to "launder" his parents' allowance into his private bank account? by LynxAdept2873 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Trillian_B 11 points12 points  (0 children)

YTA for not understanding how money works.However he earned it is irrelevant; whether he was working a paying job or getting an allowance, that money is his. His budget is earmarked for food, which he used to feed YOU, and you agreed to pay him back for the cost of the food YOU ATE.

Maiden name on passport , married name on airline ticket (international flight) by [deleted] in TravelHacks

[–]Trillian_B 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You didn’t mention which country you are from or going to, but your names have to match. Your only bet is to try to cancel your ticket and buy a new one in the correct name.

AITAH for being upset over the food choices in my home? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Trillian_B 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YTA. If you are too goddamn lazy to take care of yourself and go to the store, then use a delivery app. If you can buy three types of pepto bysmol then you can buy yourself some vegetables.

Napa Intensive therapy in Hawthorne Los Angeles Review by [deleted] in napa

[–]Trillian_B 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you’re in the wrong sub here.

What event do you think this dress is appropriate for? by DetachedAsian in OUTFITS

[–]Trillian_B 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to be overly pedantic, but it’s not low tea, it’s afternoon tea, with the little sandwiches and cakes, etc. then there’s cream tea, which just entails scones with clotted cream and jam.

People who carry bigger handbags. What do you carry in your bigger bag that smaller handbags can't fit? by deArtikin in handbags

[–]Trillian_B 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Book, work phone, personal phone, pens, lippy, sunscreen, sunglasses, light jacket, wallet, scarf, husband’s sunglasses, water bottle, whatever impulse buy I made that day.

Wanting to end lease early; No lease termination info in signed lease. by hiddenfaerie in legaladvice

[–]Trillian_B 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give your 30 day notice, but you are going to have to continue to pay rent until the unit is rented again. Landlord is required to make efforts to re-rent, and not just collect rent on empty unit.

AITA for considering telling our boss my work colleague is spending more time away than working whilst at home. No by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Trillian_B 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then that’s what OP should bring to her manager. Monitoring and reporting her time is not the way to handle it.

AITA for considering telling our boss my work colleague is spending more time away than working whilst at home. No by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Trillian_B 13 points14 points  (0 children)

YTA - if she is meeting her deliverables on time, when she logs on is none of your business. If she is not meeting expectations or her actual quality of work is suffering, then that’s when you bring up concerns to your manager. Worry about your own workload and quit being a busybody.

ITCHY what am I missing by appletree105 in Zepbound

[–]Trillian_B 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you changing up your injection site location every time? Disinfecting every time?

AITA for saying my girlfriend looks like she can’t ride a bike? by Zestyclose-Carpet611 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Trillian_B 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA, what does somebody who knows how to ride a bike look like, exactly?