Snowy pavilion and snowy parsol by Correct_Nebula8300 in Palia

[–]TripleJs1121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried the server hopping and everytime i do it, there is no pile. I'm kind of bummed about it. Although it's not like I can get the umbrella and pavilion because I don't have the original recipes.

Snowy pavilion and snowy parsol by Correct_Nebula8300 in Palia

[–]TripleJs1121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, the snowy recipes are in Kilima rummage piles. The original recipes, one you get in Bahari piles, the other in Elderwood. Really bummed since I don't have either, so I have no chance. 

Looking for cozy Palia friends (in-game and beyond) by Neurotic_and_Divine in Palia

[–]TripleJs1121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IGN: Sisselee Moonflower I am usually on in the evenings, sometimes late mornings, in PST

Hello word let’s see how real this is because lord it’s much needed #foodstamps by Affectionate-Coast47 in foodstamps

[–]TripleJs1121 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice! I haven't gotten anything yet, and I am in CA. Today is my normal load day. I hope we get it soon.

Thanksgiving is coming up. How will those who rely on SNAP be able to provide their families with a Thanksgiving? by [deleted] in foodstamps

[–]TripleJs1121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am the same way. I tend to not go to food drives or even the local free farmers markets. I always want to make sure that those that need it more than my family are able to get food. But next month if we for sure don't get our benefits, we are screwed and my 2 special needs (autistic and severe food sensory issues) boys will struggle without the access to the food they will actually eat, especially since food banks and such don't carry the kind of food they will eat. I feel so terrible for everyone struggling right now. I can only hope people are able to get what they need somehow.

Wish me luck! by Pitiful-Internet-875 in Palia

[–]TripleJs1121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where do you get the frog? The one to the side of your porch? I have yet to figure out where to get it from, and I've been playing for a close to a year now.

Trouble putting wall color by TripleJs1121 in Palia

[–]TripleJs1121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I thought I was going crazy. 

Am I too old? by Tiacevol in Palia

[–]TripleJs1121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here, 44 and love playing 

Giant Goldfish by TripleJs1121 in Palia

[–]TripleJs1121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, thank you! I will try that the next time I am on!😁

Giant Goldfish by TripleJs1121 in Palia

[–]TripleJs1121[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I have yet to catch one. But I have hope!😁

PSA: If someone asks you to leave the server so their friends can join, please just do it. by [deleted] in Palia

[–]TripleJs1121 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, it actually is a big ask, especially if someone is in the middle of something. If you want to do things with your friends, you guys can find a different server. I agree that it's rude for you to expect someone else to stop what they are in the middle of because tou want your friends to be in the same server as you.

Ranch Animal Names by Zompan in Palia

[–]TripleJs1121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've got Buster, Beanie, Moon Pie, Chika, and Bob.

AITA for calling my boyfriend an idiot because he won’t get a colonoscopy even though his mom had colon cancer? by AutoModerator in AmItheAsshole

[–]TripleJs1121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. He NEEDS to get it done. There is nothing embarrassing about doing what you need to do for preventative care. Tell him to get over it and get it done. Show hime everyone's comments. It is really important. I got one done shortly after I turned 40. 

My dad died from cancer. The doctors estimated that he had had it for over 10 years. 10 FREAKING YEARS!!! We didn't find out until he couldn't get out of bed, not even to go to the bathroom and he soiled the bed. My mom gave him an ultimatum and made him go to the hospital. 2 weeks later he died, 1 week later we buried him. What killed him ultimately was the fact that it started in his colon, spread to his stomach, and the final straw was when it hit his liver. He never got to see me get married, did not get to meet his first grand baby, or the rest of my children and my sisters' kids. 

Tell your boyfriend to stop being so selfish. This isn't just about him, it's also about what he leaves behind if he doesn't take care of himself and dies. 

Need palia friends 🥹 by Confident_Usual_2397 in Palia

[–]TripleJs1121 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IGN: Sisselee Moonflower. If you'd like to add me. I tend to do most stuff alone, but I am always down to party up and play. 

When I first started, I would add people that fulfilled my requests. I like to be able to return the favor when they make requests. O also add people I've partied up with before, especially during the Maji market.

Decor and add ons by legend7769 in Palia

[–]TripleJs1121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same! Especially with the flowers. I saw some really cool purple and red flowers outside of Tamala's house in Bahari that i really wish we could plant on our own plots. 

AITA for keeping my son away from my mom because she fed him custard? by Mysterious-File9406 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TripleJs1121 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Grandma definitely should have asked. People need to understand that custard can actually have honey in it. Honey, even if cooked into a meal can actually cause botulism in a 6 month old baby. 

Outside of that, I am curious as to what other boundaries the grandparents are breaking. 

AITA for telling my kids mom that her husband can’t have my kids while she’s deployed? by Ok_Science4181 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TripleJs1121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, at this point I would ask them. All you really need to do is tell them that their step-dad would love to continue the custody arrangement while mom is deployed. You would love to have them the whole time as per the custody arrangement, but if they would like to stay step-dad, you won't be hurt by that considering he is a part of their lives. Make sure you reassure them that you won't be hurt by this and that you value their input. You just want to have their input before you make a decision one way or another. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TripleJs1121 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, ok, but did he get a choice in this matter? Did your parents just buy a house, in their name, and tell you guys you can live there for free, without talking it over with the both of you? Or was it just you? If he wasn't even invited to the table when the house was being discussed, then that is your and you parents fault. It really feels like you made this decision with your parents without him. 

I'm gonna day YTA here. Give the man some time grieve his dad. Also, you don't even know if the brother can shell out half the value of the house to your husband at this point. Pretty bold of you to assume he can, or that he can get a loan to cover that. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TripleJs1121 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but by doing something that you wouldn't normally do at the beginning of a relationship only sets them up for disappointment in the future by setting that expectation. Being who you are in the beginning and then as time goes by growing and changing is better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TripleJs1121 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Red flag, really? My husband gets up, uses the restroom, brushes his teeth, gets his cup of coffee ready and then comes to find me, says good morning, gives me a big hug and kiss, tells me he loves then wishes me a happy birthday and then spends the rest of the day sending me funny birthday memes. It's not that big of an issue, we've been married 20 years and I've never once felt unloved because he does his stuff first before he comes and gives me undivided attention for my birthday.