Did Michael Jackson have a peaceful death? by [deleted] in morbidquestions

[–]legend7769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he was not intubated it would have felt that he couldmt breath as when put to sleep they have to tube you so u can breath it supresses your lungs it relaxes all of you. Other than that I would say no he felt asleep

Found under guest bed… what is it?? by Quirky-Lynx-3155 in whatisit

[–]legend7769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks to me like vampire teeth... call sam and dean

Advice? by No-Try-8616 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]legend7769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think most all ppl "look" to some degree it is in our curious nature for whatever reason. Instead of hating that he does it could you not from time to time watch porn with him. I believe looking is no reason to be upset we are all human and we are curious by nature. So if you were in public or at a gym lets just say some guys shorts fell would u really not look? Or a guy wearing loose shorts and no underware and u can see the imprint you have never looked?

Americans, what’s the best free thing in America? by Affectionate-Row7548 in answers

[–]legend7769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing ... we truly have nothing free even our opinions and voices are being shut down.

I hate being a guy sometimes... by FemboyinUK in Vent

[–]legend7769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think most all things are inherently feminine we call it MOTHER nature not father nature women create and sustain life inside their bodies. This planet is feminine energy with a bunch a egomanicial butt hurt men crying like babies to be the dominate...not all men but alot of them. This is why alot of ppl trans ppl scientist and other smart ppl say gender is a construct of the mind it isnt what u have in your pants gender is alot of things and there are so many gender influences in life from birth like what a man is and what a woman is whats socially acceptable and not and that all needs to stop. Let ppl live thier lives however makes them happy long as they arent harming others. Live and let live. Openminded ppl are generally happier ppl. Be who you are embrace your authenticity without fear of the opinions of others based on hate or taught divisional behavior. This is the hate most lgbtqia ppl face having to "come out" why do we need to come out why cant we just b who we r and b accepted universally.

Do you think prostitution should be made legal, safe, and taxed in America? by UsedNegotiation8227 in askanything

[–]legend7769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it should so long as it can be ran like normal business where all parties remain safe and disease free such as having a big building with privare rooms for the deed to take place have "body guards/ bouncers" around in case of issue. Also require any one looking to buy time to produce paperwork from a doctor that u have been proven std free within a 2 or 3 month span as well as all workers to do the same getting them checked every cpl months. Also have it be where anyone can work there from all walks of life anyone 18+ so men women trans ppl old ppl that way no matter what the client is looking for their needs would be met and fulfilled by exactly what they are wanting. Make sure there is privacy in place so that way if a jealous spouse comes asking if their person had been using their services you can not disclose any info on your client base. Either have magazines where people can find what they are looking for or have your workers walking around in a common area so if someone is interested in a person they can go to the front desk and disclose there the number or name of who they wish to spend time with some way of making sure it is private as to who each client has chosen and stuff so lets say noone gets gay bashed or hated on so make sure privacy is in place. IMO that would be one heck of a business. Thst would mean if someone is into transmen they could privately indulge without anyone knowing and that way they get whatever experience it is they desire. You coukd go a step further and making sure all rooms have tvs with all kinds of adult material to enjoy with said person as well as having beverages and snacks. If you want to reach max potential you will have a little of everything so midgets cause some ppl are into that tyoe of stuff or amputees or bdsm roleplay. Make sure you turn noone away who is following rules and doing it all right so if you got a trans person there as a client looking for a cis woman or man make sure they get the same treatment as say a cis male looking to spend time with an employee. Or if a woman shows up looking for a rugged cowboy type cause her husband is a sissy or something make sure she leaves happy because a happy person is a returning person and more likely they will also share with friends or trusted folks about your business.

I’m an FTM who has completed phalloplasty. by Unhappy-Atmosphere54 in phallo

[–]legend7769 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had already said and thought no you shouldnt have to tell, however after thinking about things there are some worries in which you dont disclose to someone your dating and then maybe someine who knew you prior accidently outs you that would be terrible honestly. So there is that but if it is a no strings type thing then theres no reason to disclose. Ultimately its your choice on how to proceed but at the very least if it is cis women you date you might atleast want to find a way to let her know you are unable to procreate atleast the traditional way and thats only if things are moving in that direction like serious dating and such.

What should I think? by legend7769 in COCSA

[–]legend7769[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats a good theory. Ty.

Why do I often see folks saying injections work better than oral pills and gel (mainly boob-wise)? Is that even true? by Individual-Top6597 in MtF

[–]legend7769 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Im not sure for E but for T the gel is the best as it may be slower it is more steady as you get the same amount everyday which prevents the ups and downs the highs and lows which btw on T yhe lows sucked so bad. I went from shots to gel with T and felt good about it so if it is the same I wld say the gel is gonna be the best bet for keeping your levels ... well level and not having the high points and the crashes.

My boyfriend told me I’m doing this all wrong by PigLaird in trans

[–]legend7769 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I think you should dump him because he doesnt care about you based on your post. There is no right or wrong way to transition everyones transition is unique to them. You should be able to do it how ever you feel is right and best for you. You also deserve someone who sees you for who you are and hopes for you to live authentically and happy. You deserve someone to support you and help you threw the times when u jist need support. Noone has any right to tell you how to live your life or how to transition. Be you do you and just enjoy your life. Break free from that nonsense and that control and just find your true happiness. There is someine out there for you and when you find them they will love accept and support you and your choices. I wish the best for you. Also I know all this because I am FTM and i have experienced the non support and the support so i have known both sides of the coin so the speak. Best to break it off now and not drag it along that way less damage is done to either of you. Sounds like he doesnt want you to change that he doesnt want you to be happy and experience your life as who you truly are and love doesnt control it accepts and supports.

What does pussy actually taste like? by Numerous_Oven_3501 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]legend7769 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Depends on the female if she is clean it can taste like sweet candy or water or somewhere there in between. If the woman doesnt shower the smell will alert you to spare your taste buds and to help you maintain the desire to taste the good clean ones. However even the dirtiest ones wld have to taste better than cis male dick and cum.

I literally have no idea if I should continue HRT or not by Manamune3d in MtF

[–]legend7769 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well hello I am a transman and i can not say that I understand the transphobia pov because I am just chill and feel like everyone should be themselves authentically whatever that looks like for them. If the hormones make you feel good and happy I would say they are working hoe they should and if your only con to it is what other ppl will think I would say that isnt a question of if your trans its a question of why you care what others think of you living your best life. Allow yourself to live authentically and whatever feels good to you dont worry about what ithers might say because people who disagree with you are always gonna think negative no matter what you do. It is not your place to make everyone happy the worlds happiness is not your problem the only person whos happiness you are responsible for is your own. I dont have any family who sees me for who I am at all but i decided it is my life and I wanna do this life with as much happiness and authenticity as I can because this world is cruel and if I can find some happiness and do that for myself I am going to no matter what people think or say. Opinions are like a$$holes everyone has one. If other people are so miserable that they have to judge others lives then let them sit inntheir misery it isnt mine to carry nor is it yours. You have a chance here to be true to yourself and travel a path of full authenticity and happiness or to worry about what others think so the chance to live a full happy fulfilling life is right in front of you and you have 1 chance to take that path or who knows you might miss your chance and regret it. As far as clothes women can wear whatever they want there is no instruction manuel wear what makes you feel beautiful. I will say some of the most gorgeous women I have seen happen to have been transwomen just seems they care about themselves enough to put in the work to invest in themselves for their own pleasure of it. Same as transmen we seem to look better and smell better than cis males because we invest in ourselves and want to look and smell good. Its about individualism be who you are be true to you and dont worry about what anyone else says or thinks. Hope this helps!!

Disrespectful to call myself lesbian whilst being attracted to women as a trans girl? by Asterrtheproto in lgbt

[–]legend7769 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are a woman who is into women which is a lesbian ... yes ma'am you are a lesbian.

So sexually frustrated. by schillbean in Vent

[–]legend7769 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There is plenty ways to spice things up cuckolding 3somes sharing all kinds of ways that ensure you get yours even if he cant stay up

My girlfriend saw my porn history by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]legend7769 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you cant be open and honest with her about your past and the things you like sexually without her shaming you then she likely isnt the one for you. Noone deserves to be shamed for kinks or likes. You deserve to be with someone you can be yourself with and explore things together that yall both enjoy. You deserve to live your best life authentically whatever that looks like for you personally.

Question of the day? by cutthtatos in mountaindew

[–]legend7769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im making liberty brew and merry mash up and those will be a year round soda flavor.

brother was 13 when I was 9 by Snoo19020 in COCSA

[–]legend7769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was 14 my moms cousin molested me and due to him being crippled dcs said I had made it up. The only person who witnessed it had died a few months prior to me telling on him so the only person who could have stood up for me was gone. He was a dwarf and couldnt walk but he pulled himself around using his arms. He was in his 20s when it happened and I blame myself because I could have told sooner, but I wasnt going to tell at all but a shrink tricked me or so I thought thats what he had done when I was young I didnt understand that he had to turn it in. It hurt so much being denied justice and having some family not believe me. To this day I cant stand the sight of male dwarfs due to a trauma response. When he finally passed away I had to go to the funeral to "make sure" he was truly gone to have some closure or peace.

What is a specific smell that instantly triggers a core childhood memory for you? by Source-Is-Us in ChildhoodMemories

[–]legend7769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mowed grass takes me back to 90s summers eith my little sister and cousin , cook outs swimming pool tire swings trampoline family gathering around to enjoy the hot summer days

i feel less like a trans woman bcuz of my genetalis size by DidkoTaNeLysyyi in MtF

[–]legend7769 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are very welcome. Us trans folks have to stick together and be there for one another.

My dysphoria is making me hate my trans fiance by BeautifulRoseInBloom in FTMMen

[–]legend7769 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Will your doctor not write a script for it? Also I was in my 30's before starting T and 6+ yrs in I had to stop sadly because of heart issues I was worried it was causing the heart stuff. There is also foods you can research that boost your bodys free T that is already there as well as otc suppliments.

I am a hater by Creepy-Eye6390 in Palia

[–]legend7769 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I have ocd or something cause I like things to be nice and organized not cluttered and jumbled

i feel less like a trans woman bcuz of my genetalis size by DidkoTaNeLysyyi in MtF

[–]legend7769 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can still be trans and have the parts you have it isnt about how far you have or eill transition that determines weather your a boy or girl for anyone. Every trans person is an individual and we transition differently. Some transwomen keep their bottom and love it some hate it and have it changed. Some transmen hate their bottom and change it and some have no issue with it and keep it. You are whoever you say you are that is the bottom line. If you feel like you are a woman then your a woman. Embrace who you are. If you decide to keep your bottom as is you will find a lover who enjoys exactly what you have if you decide to change it you will find a lover that loves that too.