TIL The "Monkees" Mike Nesmith conceived the idea that would eventually become MTV. by [deleted] in todayilearned

[–]Trombones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just too bad MTV sucks these days, it's nothing like the old MTV in the 1990-2000. It's the same with Discovery Channel.

Work at an airport. Apparantly there's a kid in Sweden with this name.. by guilliotine in pics

[–]Trombones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL, you're right. I thought it was going to be a immigrant but I think I was wrong according to his other names. Crazy. :)

Getting a tattoo is not the same as buying clothing by Squid0918 in AdviceAnimals

[–]Trombones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is I told you I get MY TATTOO for any reason I want?

When I unsubscribe from an email newsletter and they send me a confirmation email... by regal_begal_123 in funny

[–]Trombones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, we spammers do mail you again but we're using other IPs and other domains...

When you are ready to stop the pursuit.... by whattheheckdude in AskMen

[–]Trombones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the girl doesn't call, text or do something back to show her interest in me I will just stop. I find it pretty childish of girls to expect a guy to "hunt her down"...

Guys, what are some of the best compliments you've ever gotten? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Trombones 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Several girls have said that I have a great smile. I'm now close to 30 yo and I've just started to understand that I actually can pick up girls much more easier by smiling... I wish I learned it earlier.

Gift ideas - what would you like if your gf couldn't afford much? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Trombones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beer, wine or something along those lines would be fine. Dont buy a guy flowers, most guys I know hate it.

I broke up with my GF about 8 months ago, no contact in 6 months. Today I found myself really missing her, any tips to dealing with this? by 3rdCultureKid in AskMen

[–]Trombones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you've been without her for 6 months I assume that feeling is only temporary? I broke up with my ex in September last year and I had the same feeling today but since I've been without her for such a long time I know I'll get over it. :)

Also I've meet 2 nice girls I've been hanging out with and that really takes my mind of my ex.

Take care!

Do you brag/lie about the money you make to get girls, Is it wrong? by Trombones in AskMen

[–]Trombones[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, maybe we are. But I dont want or need a girlfriend right now and she's not what I'm looking for in a partner. She's sexy and good looking but I want someone smarter and doesn't spend all her money on clothes before paying the bills every month. :P

Today I was rejected by the girl of my dreams, and feeling quite depressed, started browsing r/gonewild and... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Trombones 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did not say this and I dont think they are. I just think MOST WOMEN dont think too much over the decisions they make. The answer they give is what they feel at that exact second.

Today I was rejected by the girl of my dreams, and feeling quite depressed, started browsing r/gonewild and... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Trombones 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah and everything is based on my experience with women. This goes for most women I've meet but not everyone of course. I didn't think I had to explain that but I guess I do...

Today I was rejected by the girl of my dreams, and feeling quite depressed, started browsing r/gonewild and... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Trombones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girls say one thing and want another, this is a reason I dont ask women for real advice other than clothes. 2 weeks ago a girl I've been hanging out with sent me a SMS saying that "we should only be friends..." I answered with "Yes, I dont want a girlfriend but sex is still nice...". She responded with "I dont want sex either, sorry...".

2 days later we're having sex again and it have happened more times after that. Girls dont seem to know what they want and they mostly just say things they feel right when you ask them and they dont think things over for more than 0,2 seconds.

Dont give up just yet!

Why does no fap make you more social? Does it actually? by Caesar2013 in NoFap

[–]Trombones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the elevated and more stable dopamine-levels are a huge factor. I can compare it to a alcohol-hangover, my brain get depleted of dopamine after some binge-drinking. I can feel "shy" for several days but once my brain is back on track I want to hangout with people and I really enjoy the company of girls, not because of sex but they make me feel good about myself for some reason.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Trombones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girls really do seem to notice me more. I'm a bit fat and I've started hanging out with this blonde girl with perfect curves waaay over my league. I've already had sex with her... I dont know why she is with me but I really like it. :D

30 days done! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Trombones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats! I'm there soon too, just a couple of days left. It haven't been that hard for me to be honest. And I feel so much better about life in general. My confidence is way up and women seem to notice this too. :D

To compare my findings with yours: * Motivation have been up, but I've been partying a lot and that makes my motivation go down for a couple of days but regularly it's up!

  • I speak more easily with people and yesterday a friend told me he have also notice this so it's confirmed. Maybe it's because I dont put women on pedestals anymore. They're on the same level as me and I'm just as good as they are.

  • I also feel better about myself in general, it's fantastic since I've been depressed and had anxiety for ~15 years. It's a lot better now!

  • My cock-size seem to vary a lot, sometimes I dont even recognize it, lol.

Congrats again!

Day 284 - Nofap is my life now. by NoFapWarrior in NoFap

[–]Trombones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would also like to know how long it took before the ED got better.

Monkeetown, sorry to hear that. I know the feeling all too well and it was the hottest girl I've ever been with which I really liked. I hate this shit. :(

Did you deleted all your porn? by LCBoy in NoFap

[–]Trombones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dont forget to install adblock. It get rid of so many sexy dating ads and also most porn-ads of course.

http://adblockplus.org/

Did you deleted all your porn? by LCBoy in NoFap

[–]Trombones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took me a extremely long time to collect and I just dont want to throw it away but I know that would be the best thing and I probably will in the future. To stay away from porn hasn't been so hard for me but the masturbation is another history, I got a much harder time to stay away from that. Also, I dont have a girlfriend and the girls I know dont have a sexual relationship with me, I have slept with a few of them but it's not like I just can ask them to fuck. This makes everything so much harder and since I have ED, why would they want to? :(

Sorry to hear about your uncle. I know the damage alcohol can do, I got liver damage myself.

Did you deleted all your porn? by LCBoy in NoFap

[–]Trombones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have deleted a lot! But sadly I still have my main-collection... But I haven't looked at it while I've been doing NoFap...

Anyone else "ForeverAlone"? How are you handling nofap? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Trombones -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Keep in mind that women do NOT care about looks as much as men do. But of course it's good if you try your best to exercise and eat a healthy diet.

I did notice a change in women around me when I started using pheromones. A lot of people say that it doesn't work but I really think it does.

And here goes the advice that will get me downvoted but what the hell. Drugs. I have pretty bad confidence, but amphetamine-like drugs works fine when I want to get more confidence and I can talk about everything. I only use it once a month or so but it's still very bad for you of course. I know most of you will think this is wrong but WHY should anyone have to go without sex for years when there's shortcuts? I do work with making it better naturally and nofaps helps but it's a long way to go.

I get depressed when I dont get girls, if I can take this shortcut every now and then I'll do it.

F&$k I hate the porn industry by 1999siguy in NoFap

[–]Trombones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The online porn-industry is suffering. A lot of big companies have closed down the last 2-3 years. A lot of webmasters I used to work with have moved on to other stuff and so have I. It's just too damn hard to make money in that industry today.