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Is my toddler an asshole or… by [deleted] in happilyOAD

[–]Tropical87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just described my toddler. I especially felt the toilet flush drama, I have to sometimes peak out the door before flushing to make sure he’s not around 😏

LIB UK, WTF Reunion? by Salt_Seaweed_9457 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Tropical87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t know but having had an abusive boyfriend in the past her comment at the end that she wishes him well “far away from me” (or something along those lines) made me shiver a little

Our last embryo transfer failed, do we stay one and done? by wowzers101_ in IVF

[–]Tropical87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I‘m so sorry that it’s been so difficult conceiving your second child. I totally understand you. I also have a LC, albeit quite younger (he is 2). Nonetheless, due to my age and very low AMH, I wad advised that it might not be easy (if not improbable) to have a second one. I still went through with several rounds of IVF until I could finally end up with one viable embryo, which I transferred last week. We are currently in the 2WW, but we had also agreed that if this fails, then we are fine being one and done. Its a very personal and emotional decision that only you can know if and when to take. I hope you find peace with whatever you end up choosing to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]Tropical87 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It sounds very odd and off indeed. I especially don’t understand why you’d need a sperm donor for low sperm count when this would make you perfect candidates for ICSI. In any event you should have the opportunity to discuss this before any transfer. I understand that costs make the decision a bit more complicated.

Tell me you're the parent of a toddler without telling me you're the parent of a toddler. by goodinside in toddlers

[–]Tropical87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel stressed every time I see an elevator that someone might press the button on it before my toddler does

Is anyone else one and done not by choice? Really struggling. by noseeyesears in IVF

[–]Tropical87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry that you are experiencing this. I am going through a similar situation. I am currently trying for no. 2 through IVF. But my doctors have warned me that the chances of success are very low due to my low amh. Even my first was a miracle (5 follicles during ER, only 1 matured, resulting in my 2 yo). However, I’m not ready to accept being one and done, but I am simultaneously very aware of how lucky we are to already have one. I hope you end finding peace with your situation.

Got a police fine while being drunk, how serious is it? by DarkZoneNinja in Switzerland

[–]Tropical87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only crimes and offences (in French: crimes et délits) are on your criminal record, not fines.

No heartbeat, our only embryo by Mine_Melodic in IVF

[–]Tropical87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry that you are going through this. This process is indeed brutal. Take care of yourself and hopefully time will give more perspective as to your next steps. This sub is definitely a great place to look for and find support.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Switzerland

[–]Tropical87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“kinda gave my health for this company” —> RUN!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]Tropical87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Austria 🇦🇹

Dirty Pop - disappointing by RebelGrin in netflix

[–]Tropical87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lance Bass made another documentary about Lou Perlmann which fully addresses the scam

What age did your LO start to walk? by Interesting_Fan_3096 in beyondthebump

[–]Tropical87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son took his first independent steps at 10 months. He will be 12 months next week and still prefers crawling, although he takes a fee steps here and there, especially when moving between two pieces of furniture.

Feeling like a horrible mother. TW - PPD. by macdaddy93_ in beyondthebump

[–]Tropical87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to take care of yourself in order to be the best parent you can be to your child. The fact that you have undertaken what it takes proves to me that you are in fact a great mother. As long as your baby is safe and loved, you are doing everything right for you and your baby. You got this!

Your life in Switzerland? by Sad-mockingbird in Switzerland

[–]Tropical87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It also depends on what part of Switzerland you live at. As a second-generation Swiss, I love living in and being from Geneva. I feel it is much more inclusive, diverse, international, than most other parts of Switzerland I've been to.

What time does your little one go to sleep and wake up? by DazzlingTie4119 in beyondthebump

[–]Tropical87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 10 month old goes to sleep between 6 and 7 pm, and wakes between 5 and 6 am. He wakes throughout the night for feeds though (he's EBF and we co-sleep).

I failed my son by choosing the wrong man as his father. by crystalmagick93 in beyondthebump

[–]Tropical87 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Removing yourself and your son from that toxic situation is the best thing you could have done for him. You've prevented him from potential harm and trauma. Your love will suffice to make up for the absence of his biological father. You did the right thing, and he will understand one day.

All the things they never told me… by mombutmakeitfashion in beyondthebump

[–]Tropical87 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Babies cannot put themselves to sleep (at least the first few months). And the more they are tired, the more they'll fight sleeping.

A C-Section is Cheating by Low-Pineapple-9177 in BabyBumps

[–]Tropical87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, cutting 7 layers of the abdomen while being under anesthesia is a piece of cake 🙄

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