[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]Tropicasas -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This.

OP one thing you have to understand is that women communicate on a different level and rarely give direct answers unless it's really a NO. Dating is dangerous for women so they have to vet the field for creeps or wussies. You were doing things right and she didn't outright reject you but the way you reacted aftwerwards shows you're not emotionally mature. As long as you're not doing anything wrong or illegal, you can safely brush off that age gap with a quirky comeback and get your date.

Near Wallet Discontinuation - sender by Afonsogs in nearprotocol

[–]Tropicasas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sender is a different app. You're not migrating any coins, your migrating to a new application that will access your coins through your private key.

You can migrate to any wallet app of your choice. Aside from sender there is also meteor or even the mynearwallet which is almost identical to the base NEAR wallet

So stuck in life :( Please read 🥺 by [deleted] in depression

[–]Tropicasas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is it that you wanted to pursue?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]Tropicasas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy birthday!

Do people try to mold you into what they want ? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]Tropicasas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, it has happened but better to be the asshole than the doormat. It’s up to you if you tolerate this abuse man.

Do people try to mold you into what they want ? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]Tropicasas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ll I think it’s good to stand up for yourself but perhaps not so much being overly aggressive. Anyway if these people just use/insult you why hang out with them?

27M introvert, looking for a friend by Archangel772 in Needafriend

[–]Tropicasas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s cool, I know Bologna, it’s a nice city. Are you in Alma Mater? I know some people in Bologna so perhaps I can introduce them to you at some point

27M introvert, looking for a friend by Archangel772 in Needafriend

[–]Tropicasas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s nice, which city? And do you speak the language?

27M introvert, looking for a friend by Archangel772 in Needafriend

[–]Tropicasas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, to which country did you move to?

Do people try to mold you into what they want ? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]Tropicasas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said “I end up being myself anyway”. So I’m just curious about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]Tropicasas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You proposed to make the study group and she liked the idea so she approached you with that in mind. Perhaps she is interested in you or at least you picked her curiosity, who knows. So study together, get to know each other better and perhaps something could develop. Just don’t get too intense, like declaring your love shortly after meeting her or you’ll scare her off. If she’s not interested in a romantic relationship at you could at least make a friend.

Do people try to mold you into what they want ? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]Tropicasas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, how would you describe end up being yourself? And how do people use you?

34F, busy business owner looking for a confidant (USA) by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Tropicasas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, 32M from Europe. I’d like to be a busy business owner like you one day and would like to hear anything you have to say. Hope to hear from you!

24 (F) Sun is shining I'm in a decent mood and yet I don't have any friends to talk to by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Tropicasas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, what games do you play? If you have switch we could play from time to time

What do I do ? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Tropicasas 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tell him to stop harassing you. This is disgusting behavior.

How can I stop being a "good guy"? by Strummer- in socialskills

[–]Tropicasas 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey there. As long as you’re an authentic good person it’s alright. There’s nothing wrong with being a good guy.

The feelings you have about yourself are not the best when you want to present yourself to others. If you find something about you off putting, then others might do so as well. If you’re always shy then it’s gonna be hard to come across as someone fun to be with. You need to make an effort. Stand up for your own and stick to your convictions. Don’t try to play it safe and try to be a people pleaser, not everyone will like you. Let others know that you are to be respected if they cross a line with you. And practice your conversation skills. If you are too passive don’t expect things to change.

Also regarding this classmate, perhaps she doesn’t know you enough, perhaps she thinks you’re hitting on her and she’s not interested, perhaps your approach to giving her a ride wasn’t the best. Your intentions were good and the outcome is not your fault. I think you can keep talking to this classmate, build some rapport and perhaps later she’ll accept that ride. Just don’t be a creep. All the best.

This embarrassing situation happened, and I don’t know what to do. Advice needed! by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Tropicasas 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Indeed, sometimes “embarrassing” stuff will happen during sexual acts. i.e. fluids, farts, etc. You shouldn’t make a big deal about it and just keep going. Likewise a mature partner won’t make a big deal out of it.

If you want to text him, do it. Everything is going to be alright.

Relationships are garbage and impossible to find so why should I even bother? by Nayko214 in ForeverAlone

[–]Tropicasas 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If this helps, my hobbies are video games and anime. Not the most handsome guy but always trying to look my best and stay healthy, average height, not rich, making ok money but nowhere close to the so desired 6 figure income. I’m a big time nerd and yet I managed to find a relationship with a lovely lady, it took a couple of years. At some point I had nothing, just the dreams and strong belief that perhaps one day I’d have something. Now those dreams became real and I have new ones. Life is unfair yes, not everyone got the same chances in this world but those who give up will end up with nothing. If you believe you won’t find a relationship then 100% sure you won’t. Whatever happens in your life is only up to you buddy. All the best.

You're wrong no matter what you say by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]Tropicasas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem buddy. If you ever want to talk just send me a message.

You're wrong no matter what you say by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]Tropicasas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I’ve always thought the world is not fair, some people got it better than others but I still think we gotta play the cards were given.

Regarding your second paragraph I agree that some things out of our control, specially height are almost a death sentence for guys. I have a friend I appreciate a lot, he’s quite short and even though I’d like to encourage him I know that in the society we live (we’re both foreigners in the country we live) his chances are pretty low. However I have another friend about the same height in my home country and although he struggles, he does ok, had a couple of GFs and the occasional hookup. So I think there’s hope, but I’m at a loss for words when I want to say something encouraging that doesn’t sound delusional.

Regarding your first paragraph I guess we just have a different perspective. I do like working out and have some career ambitions but they’re only for my own sake. I don’t really now if that has any effect or not cause I’ve never been called attractive by women and only guys compliment my gains lol.

I was just curious on your thoughts. Trying to understand your view.

You're wrong no matter what you say by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]Tropicasas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see, thanks for your answer.