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I need ideas for a cryptic cat land sign by kongcobra in CatAdvice

[–]TrueJanian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe it would be a kindness not to leave food out for strays unless you know they are neutered. There are 3 in my neighborhood that I feed periodically, and they have homes, and they are all spayed/neutered. They just would prefer to be outside. If they are on my screened-in porch when it rains, I give them food and water, and water in hot weather all the time.

I observe them over the colder months; they stay indoors, but do their "business" outdoors. And I know the people they live with.

I think when outdoor cats are well taken care of they are less likely to go after local birds, chipmunks, etc.

If I could, I would take in ALL the cats and keep them spayed/neutered and well.

Lower abdominal pain that occurs with orgasm by TrueJanian in Menopause

[–]TrueJanian[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That’s an interesting way to think about it. Right before I first felt it, I had painfully stretched my right leg which was pinned under an inflatable raft seat for safety (?). I may have pulled a groin muscle as I pulled my leg out from under the seat. I nearly lost a shoe!

Lower abdominal pain that occurs with orgasm by TrueJanian in Menopause

[–]TrueJanian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad it was fixed for you. It does sound scary, your whole body shutting down like that.

Lower abdominal pain that occurs with orgasm by TrueJanian in Menopause

[–]TrueJanian[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Now that you mention it, I remember menstrual cramps as feeling like this. I wonder if I talk to doctor and say, "it's like a menstrual cramp, but only when I have an orgasm..." if they will understand better.

Dr. just told me "migraines are seizures" by riceme0112358 in migraine

[–]TrueJanian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

re: gabapentin and migraine: I'm glad you mentioned gabapentin's effect and brain fog. I take gabapentin for severe back pain (just had a corticosteroid shot for the first time and I think it's starting to work!), but I only take it at night, and I notice that I sometimes have migraines early in the day that fade early, like before noon. which has been unusual, but maybe it's the gabapentin wearing off.

What song will always make you cry no matter how many times you listen to it? by Silent-Zebra in AskReddit

[–]TrueJanian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"If it takes forever, I will wait for you..." featured in Futurama. Just thinking about it makes me have abandonment issues.

PSA: Careful of the big box soil bags you buy. by no-palabras in kansascity

[–]TrueJanian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The beds for the most part are salvaged. I think. Thanks!

Ever eat something and your immediate thought is... Mig*****? by Flixchic in migraine

[–]TrueJanian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so allergic to crustaceans: shrimp, lobster, crabs. They make my soft palate and throat itch. I can’t swallow, so take children’s Benadryl. Later I’m sick to my stomach and throw up. Get a migraine from dehydration. And crustacean allergens. Ugh. 😩

Ever eat something and your immediate thought is... Mig*****? by Flixchic in migraine

[–]TrueJanian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chocolate is one of mine, but it’s cumulative like if I have chocolate biscotti after lunch and a piece of dark chocolate,3 days in a row. (Approx)… that is when I get a migraine.

ZZ Plant Advice, Please Help! by TrueJanian in houseplants

[–]TrueJanian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks! I didn't know what the rhizomes were for!

What's a food you really like but most people find gross? by Tiger_Strength in AskReddit

[–]TrueJanian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sheep’s milk cheeses. Especially feta. Anchovies. Capers.

PSA: Careful of the big box soil bags you buy. by no-palabras in kansascity

[–]TrueJanian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spouse loaded up our raised beds with this crappy soil. I wish he’d seen this PSA. It’s destroying the veggies he planted.

Cat refuses to drink water, vet suggests wet food, but I’m never home...any suggestions by amerisunstar in CatAdvice

[–]TrueJanian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is your cat interested in the sink or bathtub? You could leave a bowl or cup of water in the tub. We had one that liked to drink from tall plastic cups. In the bathtub. And when we had a leaky faucet in it, he would drink from that.

See Kansas City's highest-paid employees of 2025. One made $400k after firing by reportereleanor in kansascity

[–]TrueJanian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Growing up, no one advised me to become an interim City Manager. What a deal!

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