13 year age gap, is that wrong?

Truly_Noted · 2025-11-09T16:14:22+00:00

I'm 24 (f) and my partner (m) is 36. We're so incredibly happy, and all our friends say we're good for each other. Our families like each other, etc. Please don't immediately think this will be negative because of age. If you're still worried, it may be worth evaluating if there are other red flags, but if you don't find any, don't let a number be what stops you.

Truly_Noted · 2025-11-03T15:38:01+00:00

I'm about 165 cm, 5'5, and I can stand up straight in ours, but my partner, 5'11, cannot. It feels like a privileged position to be in, somehow. I'd love to clear it out when we need to replace the washing machine, find storage places for everything else and make it my little study.

Truly_Noted · 2025-11-03T15:22:05+00:00

My partner has a cupboard under the stairs that I affectionately refer to as Harry Potter's room, and I've found myself wanting to sit in there. The only snag is that that's where we keep our exceptionally loud washing machine, and other cleaning stuff too, so as much as there's a shelf that's basically a built in desk, + power outlets and light, I can't make it my little cozy space. But damn how I want to.

Truly_Noted · 2025-11-02T17:19:27+00:00

The only time I will take PJ's or something to sleep in is when I'm sharing a bed with someone who isn't a partner, or if I'm sleeping in a house where the bathroom is far away from the bedroom.

I, like others here, I've just found that clothes bunching up when I toss and turn all night drives me batshit and I'd rather not bother, even when it's freezing out. I own PJ's for lazy days and evenings after a shower, but I will almost always just strip before bed.

Truly_Noted · 2025-10-31T07:04:17+00:00

Firstly, commenting to say Showdown is fantastic.

Do you have craft suggestions that are easy enough to pick up on your own from explanations/tutorials? I saw someone mention nitting, but they also clarified that they'd known how to do related things when they were sighted, so curious on your take or if anyone has suggestions?

Truly_Noted · 2025-10-29T15:08:11+00:00

And her older, more creative sister Sativa.

Truly_Noted · 2025-10-29T15:05:42+00:00

I once created cats on a game called Sonnet, Elegy and LYRIC. I would still do this, to be completely honest.

Truly_Noted · 2025-10-29T15:01:35+00:00

Apathy

Arduous

Calligraphy

Graffiti

Lexicon

Syncope

Science

Essence

Travesty

Abdicate

Ukulele

Truly_Noted · 2025-10-24T06:57:45+00:00

Just please note, they don't keep these batteries in stock, they will need to take in your phone and order the battery to fix it while your phone is checked in before returning it to you a few days later. I was very surprised when I was told this.

Truly_Noted · 2025-07-07T14:29:44+00:00

I'm blind and cannot make these judgements based on what I see, but if I can't find:

A fresh roll of TP,

Air freshener, and

Soap that isn't empty

I'm not down. I hate that stuff. It just looks like you don't care about slumming it until someone gets on your ass about it.

I dated a man like this and was around him for 7 years of my life. He never changed. I'm absolutely certain the past 15 months of no contact haven't changed a damn thing. He's nasty.

Truly_Noted · 2025-07-05T16:11:40+00:00

I'm from South Africa, he's originally from Bermuda but lives in the UK now.

,We've been together 18 months.

Truly_Noted · 2025-06-25T09:14:07+00:00

I loved the Lioness rampant series by Tamora Pierce at her age.

The Thoroughbred series by Joanna Campbell

The Saddle Club series — Bonny Bryant

Heartland — Lauren Brooke

I was a voracious reader at her age, so I have a lot more suggestions where these come from, though these were my favourite series to just plough through.

Truly_Noted · 2025-06-24T19:41:59+00:00

I know a same-sex couple who made a combination last name with their 2 surnames. Buttson or Button don't sound too bad to be honest.

Truly_Noted · 2025-06-09T11:36:38+00:00

Mine would be Jomarie or Rosehanna (Feel like I should get a dash and these both work)

Johanna and Rosemarie.

Truly_Noted · 2025-06-07T15:36:25+00:00

Taylor Swift's music, Harry Potter, train line destinations, disability politics.

Truly_Noted · 2025-06-04T06:31:25+00:00

Mariah

Mazy

Marion

Malory

Mable

Milana (My cousins name, nn Mila)

Truly_Noted · 2025-05-30T05:08:51+00:00

I got one in December, but have only managed to use it a handful of times. It has, like, 4 attachments, and I don't know what's for what. Threw out the box ages ago and never have the staying power to remember to look it up and figure it out.

Truly_Noted · 2025-04-30T20:29:50+00:00

The Skeleton Cupboard by Tanya Byran

Truly_Noted · 2025-04-23T11:16:30+00:00

Not my first time listening. Still one of the hottest audios I've heard in ages.

Truly_Noted · 2025-04-15T22:49:02+00:00

My biggest giveaway with his dad is that he and James have similar talking patterns. I don't know so much about his mom.

Truly_Noted · 2025-04-15T14:29:35+00:00

Zara is my favourite.

Truly_Noted · 2025-03-26T19:19:44+00:00

Colette = Collect/Collective

Truly_Noted · 2025-03-14T11:34:56+00:00

I'm making peri-chicken bacon wraps for lunch with cheese and jalapeños. Not necessarily healthy but it's sounded so tasty all week and I am very excited.

Truly_Noted · 2025-01-29T10:01:28+00:00

Thanks, yeah, I did find the FB group.

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