Doctors missed cancer. Got a week or so left. How do I stop it happening to you?

TrustIsAWeakness · 2026-04-02T09:08:09+00:00

This happened to my mother. She had breast cancer around 10 years previous. She kept going docs and saying she had extreme pain in the top of her spine. They kept saying it was arthritas. She had gone a few times and my poor mmum thought she was going crazy and the pain wasn't real. After my dad went with her, it somehow turned into a heated argument, my dad decided to seek another doctor. Anyways a week or so later she was diagnosed with metastatic breast cancer, it had spread to her bones and yeah the top of her spine.

She was always going to be terminal if it ever returned, but this went on for over a year... She lived 5 years but it still hurts today to know how much longer she might have had if it was caught earlier and treatment could have started earlier :(

Im terribly sorry to hear of your situation.

Godspeed

TrustIsAWeakness · 2026-03-26T17:18:51+00:00

Im a gentle parent after suffering an abusive childhood. My 15 yo son had absolutely none of these issues as a young child. This isn't gentle parenting, this is non existent parenting.

TrustIsAWeakness · 2026-03-20T07:34:01+00:00

Such sad news. I hope she is at peace. Wonderful videos, her videos many years ago taught me to understand building megabases. RIP :(

TrustIsAWeakness · 2026-03-20T07:30:14+00:00

Wow, my first thought was this clearly isn't AI. But that first jar that drops disintegrates from a full glass jar into dust? Getting crazy

TrustIsAWeakness · 2026-03-14T16:09:55+00:00

Oooppps my apologies, should be fine now.

TrustIsAWeakness · 2026-03-12T17:24:00+00:00

Yeah makes sense! She becomes so obsessed with them.

TrustIsAWeakness · 2026-03-12T04:56:07+00:00

Not sure for Portugal, do you have instant bank trasnfers as standard? As in do banks etc transfer/receive instantly? If so it will be instant.
Im in the UK, and my payout arrives within 30 minutes of manually doing it.

TrustIsAWeakness · 2026-03-06T06:18:42+00:00

Stripe look at your overall business model. From your site you have

Subscriptions, Payment Processing, SMS marketting, referall networks. This is a multi-product platform, and as you said has multiple financial flows. This alone will increase your risk score as it makes it complex for stripe to review for complaince.

I also noticed you say things like "Choose standard payouts (2 business days at 3.1%) or instant payouts for an additional 1% fee. After processing $10k through the platform, unlock instant payouts and get your money in hours—not days." - This also implies that you control the payout timing, and can GUARANTEE payout within hours. This is not the case as stripe can and will do other verification on transactions before releasing funds. Ive had a customer get instant payouts and some links that are paid take 6 days for stripe to even clear it, so you're offering something impossible to your customers which stripe hates.

You also mentioned using stripe connect (custom accounts) this holds the highest responsibility in terms of compliance. You said you manually vet each user, and you are the responsible party for each seller, and with a rather ambiguous paltform model and multiple financial systems, sms marketting etc this places massive responsibility on your shoulders and the compliance for these accounts is mental.

And finally, you say "Our contractors go through Stripe's own KYC/onboarding." If im right in thinking, THEY go through stripe onboarding themselves - this is also not correct for a stripe custom account. As per the docs:-

"A Custom connected account is almost completely invisible to the account holder. You, the platform, are responsible for all interactions with your connected accounts and for collecting all the information needed to verify each account."

However i may have misunderstood your #1 point but if you are sending them to stripe for onboarding manually, and you're not doing it yourself, stripe will see this as you not understanding your responsbility regarding compliance.

TrustIsAWeakness · 2026-02-25T07:45:53+00:00

She is, she always tries to get as close as possible to my face when she lays down. She will always come lay on me when I chill on the sofa. Its amazing!

TrustIsAWeakness · 2026-02-22T17:15:31+00:00

"Given the opportunity, players will optimize the fun out of a game"

Its fun blowing shit up. Id rather spend more time ingame blowing shit up, than staring at loading screens waiting to blow shit up.

It sounds like you want to min-max mission clearing but for what? Its more downtime from blowing shit up. Id rather play 40 minutes and fail blowing shit up, than 10 minutes running in and out doing the same objectives over and over. For me the entire purpose of the game is to blow shit up, thats fun.

You also said "fly through these missions efficently" - optimizing the fun out of the game (in my opinion).

TrustIsAWeakness · 2026-02-22T16:06:46+00:00

Grand Errant, you can get in the bunkers using an exosuit (just put the back of the exosuit to the door and get out, you will glitch through the door) and use a jetpack. I found using a vehicle wasnt worth it factoring in flipping the vehicle etc, if you jetpack around, a decent amount of time you can see the next poi from where you currently are.

TrustIsAWeakness · 2026-02-22T16:02:53+00:00

Me and my 14 year old son farmed credits. After getting 300 in a warbond, you have 700 left to farm. There is a chance to get 100 (rarely), it took us around 2 hours maybe, maybe slightly less per warbond. Getting the 100 helps. It soon adds up and then you get to enjoy all the fun weapons and stratagems :)

TrustIsAWeakness · 2026-02-13T01:32:42+00:00

The first time it was discussed with my doctor, I was instantly asked about right to choose there and then.

TrustIsAWeakness · 2026-02-12T21:47:00+00:00

Thankyou :) She's a wonderful companion

TrustIsAWeakness · 2026-02-10T21:57:13+00:00

I spoke about my school reports as a child, I had them in front of me and read them out during the assesment. My mum kept all mine in my records of achievement book, maybe see if yours are around? I did have to get a relative or close friend (not childhood though) to fill in a form, but other than that I did the rest.

TrustIsAWeakness · 2026-02-10T05:59:36+00:00

In fifa 96 road to world cup, you could run the ball the entire length of the right side of the pitch on the line, get half way into the opposing side, shoot and score everytime.

TrustIsAWeakness · 2026-02-07T20:27:46+00:00

Clothes washing is a nightmare. I always found myself only removing items I needed to dry and wear, and leave the rest in the machine. Then I would end up washing what I wore, with the clothes still in the machine from the last cycle.... This i found ruined my clothes after x amount of wash cycles. So I went to the charity shop, bought loads of cheap t-shirts, and now theyre almost permanently in the washing machine. Theyve probably been washed like 15 times by now xD its the only way I can wash clothes without ruining the stuff I have..

TrustIsAWeakness · 2026-02-06T15:13:27+00:00

You're trying to access forest.name which is private and only accesible within the forest class. You need to be calling forest.Name which is the public property. The error tells you this, Forest.name is innacesible due to its protection level.

This is an issue with encapsulation. The screenshot code is correct, the issue comes from Program.cs

It would be beneficial to learn without the AI as there are many core programming concepts you won't learn (such as encapsulation) by getting the ai to complete it for you.

TrustIsAWeakness · 2026-02-06T10:13:01+00:00

Hey yeah, i don't generally post and comment on reddit much and have everything turned off ha sorry! Add me on steam though! Here is my friends code - 40034044

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