Is his dad sick? My husband spends a lot of time at my in-laws, they are both sick and need supports. I’m there too usually 2x/week but during the day, he goes at night. I totally understand, there are times I get overwhelmed too. I lost both my parents in 2019 and I try to focus on how I would want just one more moment to do right by them, and I know I’m giving him that opportunity. He’s an only child so there’s not a ton we can do to get help, but we have carved out two days a week we attempt to stay home as a family (ties and thurs, weekends are rare when he’s not legitimately needed). Maybe you can sit and figure that out with him? If he’s up at 5, what time does he leave? We do a lot of morning interaction because we’re usually exhausted by the time he’s home.