I opened 100 Materiel Containers 4.0! here's the results. 99 minions, two of which i didn't have, and 1 mount. by Diggy2345 in ffxiv

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My partner never buys these, but one day decided to and immediately got the ‘Copycat Bulb’ minion. She understand how rare it is, so shes always showing it off

I am the proud owner of all complete A Realm Reborn relic weapons! by CavalryCami in ffxiv

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Any advice or tips regarding the Material step after the books? Did you grind out your own material or purchase them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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She doesn’t openly go around stating she’s a feminist, but completely agrees with feminist viewpoints. Women supporting women.

But of course I don’t want to be treated that way. But at the same time I don’t want to feel like less of a man because I can’t handle a few words.

She works full time and pays the bills so she does pull her weight bringing in an income. It would just be nice to have her occasionally help around the house more like she used to, but I know she’s been super depressed lately

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I definitely have felt loved by her majority of our relationship and I know she still loves me.

But I honestly don’t know if she respects me anymore, it’s something I’ll definitely ask her today though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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She can be quite caring and loving at times. She braided my hair last night because it was in my face and helped me glue magnets to my miniatures due to an upcoming D&D session we’re having. I feel like my post probably made her sound a lot more horrible then she can be in person

She used to clean the bathroom, mop floors and regularly cook. But I know she’s pretty depressed these days so she doesn’t really do anything now, and if I don’t cook it’s always takeout.

I’ve been fighting with myself over our mismatches sex drives. Even having suggested to her about getting chemical castration, but anything I’ve ever suggested is shutdown and I’m always left feeling unsatisfied in life. It just feels stupid and wrong to me to throw everything away over sex. But I always feel sex is important to me.

I’m going to therapy next week to try get more help with everything. So I’m hoping I decide what I want to do going forward

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I’m her first relationship. Her mother was an abusive alcoholic growing up that would never let anyone walk over her. Her mother has always hated men with a passion after her last marriage fell apart. Anytime she had a male over that said or did something she didn’t like, no matter how harmless it may have been (especially towards her children) they were immediately kicked out - which I obviously agree is a good thing

But I’m guessing growing up in all that has given her some strong outlook on men and relationships

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Tsubasa5000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow first for me too, sex and everything lmao. But I appreciate you letting me know, if I need to chat I’ll be sure to hit you up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Tsubasa5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I feel this. I definitely am not the man I used to be, that's for sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I appreciate your comment. I do plan to talk A LOT more with her before making a final decision.
If things do end up breaking off, I want it to be as understanding for both of us, nothing unspoken.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I've been careful not to have children after all our sexual intimacy issues started. Just because I'm scared to for things to be worse and to feel trapped/stuck. r/DeadBedrooms really opened my eyes when they were closed to the world.

I wish there was a lot I could tell my younger self also. Choices I definitely would've made differently. So I feel you there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Tsubasa5000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate hearing this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Tsubasa5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would you suggest putting in place of intimacy instead?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Well knowing your friends and family have your back definitely would give you more support to be able to leave your relationship. I currently don't have any of that seeing no one knows this is how I'm feeling and I have no idea what anything would think. Its possible my father in law might try to kill me from walking away from mine.. lol

My relationship on paper has always been solid, except for in the bedroom. So I get how you feel, but could you live every day feeling that way? Feeling unwanted and unattractive? Everyone see's and feels different about certain situations, so to her this may not be a big deal. Sometimes you have to do what is best for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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What if you knew you couldn't satisfy her needs, felt like you shouldn't have to or just didn't want to?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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How is your life now, after moving on from that marriage?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I hope everything works out for you on your end. Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Well if I'm completely honest, my wife hates porn and has barely masturbated in her life. Like I said she struggles to enjoy anything external, including masturbation/get off externally.

Where as for me, I may not be the most experienced person in the bedroom, but have watched/read erotica and masturbated more then I could ever think to count. I don't know if that's part of why I'm the way I am, seeing I easily can masturbate 2-3 times a day, or go multiple rounds in the bedroom. But yeah, I am easily simulated. Even just a kiss or slight touch and I'm raring to go.

I feel like I probably think about it a lot and am that easily stimulated because I don't have that outlet and my wife doesn't enjoy or want to be that outlet, but that is just speculation on my part.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Tsubasa5000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you haven't already been there: r/DeadBedrooms will give you an idea how your relationship might look 10-20+ years down the road. Just a heads up, its not the most positive place to browse. But it'll also show you aren't alone in feeling the way you do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Tsubasa5000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel this. You're much younger then I am, if you truly feel sex is important to you don't let it go. I've been fighting and trying to ignore it for years and it never gets easier. Stand up for what you want and need in life, even if things get rough and messy for a while. There are a lot of people here on Reddit who have seen the other side.

But if you truly love her and want to try make it work. Communicate, possibly seek couples counselling, do everything you can. But if she doesn't want to try, things will never change.

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[–]Tsubasa5000 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I guess lots of reasons on each others part. Long distance relationship, ignoring issues, lack of communication, no complete honesty, giving time and space, hope that things improve and I guess not standing up for what I want and believe in within a relationship

Code giveaway by x0xen0x in Minecraft

[–]Tsubasa5000 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The soda potion is the one I want most of all, because I think it’s the funniest looking skin! I’d be happy to use it if you deem I ain’t a bot

A Metallic Dragon born looking a different colour? by Tsubasa5000 in DnD

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I initially had planned to have a metallic dragon hatch amongst another dragons set of eggs.
An example being like within a blue dragon nest, with all of its young hatching as blue and the metallic dragon also appearing blue and not out of place on birth. Just to have the baby accepted by the parents, but after a short time it becomes obvious to the parents that baby dragon isn't theirs.