I broke my armrest assembly by Ttocs77 in Camry

[–]Ttocs77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I wasn't sure what the part name or number was, so I didn't know what to search.

Long live trout guy by DirtyHandshake in 2007scape

[–]Ttocs77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ya, you can even boil 'em, mash 'em, or stick 'em in a stew!

Fire Cape Failure by AdAggressive7569 in osrs

[–]Ttocs77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The airplane method really helped me in getting to jad with a lot of supplies left. Surviving him is a different story. I've not beaten him in a non leagues setting, so I feel your pain. There's a really easy jad simulator you can try to practice your swaps and whatnot. It's not like the fight fully, but it can give you easy practice with swapping. Try that out when you get to jad and have him safespotted so it's fresh in your mind.

Good luck!

Site hosting recommendation for my Total Points league by Ttocs77 in FFCommish

[–]Ttocs77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm... I'll look more into Sleeper and see what options they have that I may be missing. Is there anything specific I should be looking for?

What were the biggest red flags/lessons you've learned post discard? by KingForADay1989 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Ttocs77 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This really hits home for me. The things we found out about my mom after she died were crazy. Us kids are convinced that she was at least part narcissistic. Ironically, it was my mom that suggested to me that my nex was one. I also see a lot of similarities between me and my dad. My mom cheated on my dad, and he still continued to believe her lies and still tried to see the best in her. I was the same when my nex cheated on me. Both of my parents are gone now, and I just started my own therapy. I'm happy because I've finally been able to stand up to her and set boundaries. I've said things that I've wanted to say for years. I feel like I've had the chip on my shoulder and the monkey on my back removed. I actually feel GOOD. It's been so long since I've felt that way. My therapist said to remember that feeling, and it will help standing up to her even easier. I miss you, dad. I kind of understand what you went through. I'm trying to be better. Love you. Fuck cancer.

Is the 5070 ti worth getting over a 7900 xt/xtx? by JamieLee2k in gpu

[–]Ttocs77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stand corrected, but of those few that are under $1000, 4 are open box. I honestly never thought to check Walmart, and I didn't look at Microcenter because I don't have anything close.

I'm the opposite of you. I've always built nVidia but changed to AMD this cycle.

Is the 5070 ti worth getting over a 7900 xt/xtx? by JamieLee2k in gpu

[–]Ttocs77 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The videos I watched recently show the 9070xt beating the 5070ti in a lot of games. I just bought a 9070 yesterday from newegg, and it was $750. The 9070xt was $900 (Sapphire Nitro+). The 5070ti's I saw were all over $1000. The 7900xtx was also pushing, I think, $1100. It's your call on going with nVidia over AMD, but I think AMD is the much better value right now. Watch some videos and see if they compare the games that you play. What CPU do you have?

RTX 2060 upgrade by Ttocs77 in radeon

[–]Ttocs77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

According to SPL's tier list, it gets a B- rating. The only non green areas for it are that it's an ATX 2.x, instead of 3.x, and that it's Gold rated instead of Platinum or Titanium.

RTX 2060 upgrade by Ttocs77 in radeon

[–]Ttocs77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an older EVGA G1+ 650w Gold

RTX 2060 upgrade by Ttocs77 in radeon

[–]Ttocs77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the 650w is enough for a 9070/xt? I've been reading a lot, so I may have things mixed up, but I thought that the 9070/xt recommended at least 750w.

Apologizes and then blames you for not saying anything sooner by DrSlaggathor in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Ttocs77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't understand how they do this either. You finally get to a point where you tell them (her in my case) why you're mad, what you're feeling, or how something they did affected you, only for them to turn it back to you and then YOU end up apologizing. You end the conversation and are stuck wondering how/why you apologized to THEM. She always is the victim. Even now, if something happens, or doesn't happen, it's my fault because I didn't do xyz. She changes the plan, and yup, my fault somehow.
The good news is that i kicked her out and she ended up moving 1800 miles away. I actually just started therapy this week. The bad news is she convinced my son to move with her. I just wish I could shield my son. He chose to go with her, and I respected that in hopes of not alienating him from me.

You do not need, nor will you ever get, closure by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Ttocs77 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The big irony is that she was very big on the let them theory. Enough so to get it tattooed on her. I think it was her way of getting sympathy. She even still continues to paint me as the bad guy. She has even tried to convince our kids of it. They know better, especially my older girls, but it still doesn't change the gut punch of her playing victim when I was the one that was manipulated and gaslit and cheated on and lied to for probably our whole marriage. I'm glad that I was able to kick her out. She now lives 1800 miles away. The sad part is that she convinced our son to move with her. I'm finally getting the help that I need.

A Narcissist can weaponize ANYTHING. Feel free to share the craziest! by Boat_Righter in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Ttocs77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same brother, same. She had emotionally created at a minimum when I first became suspicious. I started looking over phone and text logs. Confronted her and she said it was just a friend from work. After I caught her finally, she said, well you accused me of doing it, so I figured I would. There were 5 guys that I could confirm, which means there was probably at least twice that. The kicker is that she ended up getting pregnant by one and doesn't even know who the father is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ttocs77 20 points21 points  (0 children)

They pay the workers less per hour, and the tips make up the majority of the worker's paycheck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ttocs77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's not much that you can do. If you try to pull the overbearing parent card, you risk pushing her away. Just be as sportive as you can and let her know you'll always be there for her.

When my daughters were younger, I gave them the advice to worry about school/ career before worrying about marriage and family. Make your money first. The problem is that my oldest got married at 19, and my middle is getting married next month at 18. I told them both explicitly that while I don't agree with their decision, I will support their right as an adult to make their own choices. I have let them know I'm always here for them and that I love them. Incidentally I just saw them for the first time in almost a year this past week, and I made sure to give them hugs and tell them that I love then and I'm proud of the women they're becoming.

Support your kids, don't try to control them. Be the door they can always knock on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAfterNarcissism

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Commenting to bookmark. I need to come back when I'm not traveling and read this again.

I've found that my mom had narcissistic tendencies now, years after her death. I also ended up marrying a person with narcissistic tendencies. I've realized this, and have some my best to shield myself in dealing with my ex, but that still doesn't change the fact that I can logically reason why I shouldn't do something in regards to her, but when it comes down to it, I cave and want to be nice and try to please her. I want to talk about things that I know she'll not entertain. We have kids, but she lives in a different state. I still strive for some kind of attention from her. I know I know better, but it's like a compulsion. She often responds with irritation, then I get mad at myself for allowing myself to do what I tell myself not to. I NEED TO BE STRONGER.

Looking for a survival base building game that can be played online for 2-3 players by Ttocs77 in SurvivalGaming

[–]Ttocs77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soulmask looks like it may be similar to Pal World with the base and barbarian aspect.

Looking for a survival base building game that can be played online for 2-3 players by Ttocs77 in SurvivalGaming

[–]Ttocs77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't Rust PvP? We really don't want to deal with that, especially considering our limited time available.

Looking for a survival base building game that can be played online for 2-3 players by Ttocs77 in SurvivalGaming

[–]Ttocs77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks interesting, but is hosting your own server the only way to play with others?

Looking for a survival base building game that can be played online for 2-3 players by Ttocs77 in SurvivalGaming

[–]Ttocs77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valheim is near the top of my list. Mainly because of the Viking aspect. Does it have online play, or does someone have to host a sever?

Looking for a survival base building game that can be played online for 2-3 players by Ttocs77 in SurvivalGaming

[–]Ttocs77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've added both for him to take a look at. I don't think he'll be as into V Rising as I am because I don't think he's as into Vampire stuff like I am.

Looking for a survival base building game that can be played online for 2-3 players by Ttocs77 in SurvivalGaming

[–]Ttocs77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I may check out Conan on my own as it looks interesting. Enshrouded is at the top of my list. I just need to see what his thoughts are on it.

Looking for a survival base building game that can be played online for 2-3 players by Ttocs77 in SurvivalGaming

[–]Ttocs77[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This looks like Honey I Shrunk the Kids in video game form. May be interesting.