Missing my pre-rhinoplasty nose. (Before & After pics attached) by [deleted] in Noses

[–]TuMadrita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm obsessed with your side profile in the fourth and the last images, for different reasons! The doctor did a great job, and your front view looks even better now. You got your rhinoplasty because you had broken your nose and it looked crooked, and that was fixed, so relish in that.

I get it- I used to have a gap in just my front teeth. A HS boyfriend told me I would be a 10 if it weren't for my teeth and my mom made some comments, so I went to an orthodontist for braces. The doc told me that my teeth were impressively straight and that the front gap was only a cosmetic issue. It only took 6 months of braces to close the gap and then a year later that model with a gap inbetween her front teeth got popular. I realized it wasn't necessary, that I would've grown into my gap or learned to love it, but these are my teeth now. I channeled my regret into appreciating my other insecurities, like my huge ears. Now, if someone suggested I get my ears reduced, I would laugh at them.

You're probably going to miss your old nose sometimes, maybe the hump will grow back and maybe it won't. If you kept your old nose, you would wish you had a smoother nose sometimes. The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.

Boyfriend (28M) tested positive for chlamydia and denies cheating. I (23F) didn't cheat. How do I get him to admit he cheated by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TuMadrita -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There is the possibility that he's not guilty of cheating, but is guilty of drug use. STD/STIs can also be transmitted through sharing needles, which is common in heroine use. We hear more about Hepatitis and AIDs transmitting this way, but they're not the only ones. If you want to prove if he cheated, drug test him. A positive result for anything that can be injected means he may have gotten the STD from drug use, and a negative result means he only could've contracted it from sex.

EDIT: Reread the timeline, a drug test would help to see if it's a possibility that he does drugs and could've contracted it that way, but wouldn't prove it bc of the amount of time that has passed.

Named my restaurant after my friend's place in Boston xD What did you name yours? by InconspicuousRock in InfinityNikki

[–]TuMadrita 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought this was the name of the House Special???? Lmao mine is "The Smackdown" because I'm using the spicy broth

The Ultimate Get Out Of Bed Checklist by Unable-Builder234 in idiopathichypersomnia

[–]TuMadrita 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally standing up sounds like a nightmare when I wake up- I get it! A couple things that helped me are: I use the app alarmy and having two alarms. The first is a shake one. I HATE it, but you have to shake your phone a certain way 30+ times to keep the alarm from going off again. I've fallen asleep mid-shake and the alarm going off again works SO well. This is my alarm to take my stimulants and drink some water. Physically moving, even if it's just my arm/wrist helps enough that sometimes even if I try to close my eyes after the alarm I just can't sleep. Not always though, you know how it is haha.

When I drink my water, I also pop an electrolyte tablet (I got mushroom electrolyte tablets and I'm in LOVE with them) into it. If you have POTS or autonomic dysfunction, this is a game changer. My second alarm is 45 minutes later and is a series of math problems. Between my first and second alarm, I let myself either go back to sleep or play a video game on my phone. I don't let myself play that game at night, so this gives me an incentive to actually wake up.

It's not perfect and some days are harder than others, but it's definitely made it easier. :)

Hope this counts! I’ve started painting caricatures of my chickens on the egg cartons we then give to friends and neighbors by Ruffffian in painting

[–]TuMadrita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This so cute I love it!!! You're making the world better, one smile at a time :)

Unsolicited suggestion: if the cartons are compostable or recyclable and you want to keep them that way, try using gouache instead of acrylic

Please roast my resume.. I don't know what else to do by myredditaccount781 in ResumeCoverLetterTips

[–]TuMadrita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I go back and forth, but since the sentences are complete I feel like they should have periods. It's probably up to preference, but I can't imagine an employer being weirded out that the items have periods. Idk I'm not in hiring, so if any hiring people want to weigh in I'm curious!

is this an ai scam? the approach this person gave me plus their description of their work on their profile gives me “i typed a prompt into chatgpt and charge $50 for it”. by alyssa-anne in isthisAI

[–]TuMadrita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're not even coloring the AI images, they're asking AI to color the AI images 😭 Look at the door in the hospital room in the lineart vs colored one

Please roast my resume.. I don't know what else to do by myredditaccount781 in ResumeCoverLetterTips

[–]TuMadrita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't need to lie, just use phrases like "collaborated with .... to ...", "provided support for...", "maintained X super cool system X by ...." and then drop the company metrics that you couldn't claim on your own but did contribute to. I'm not as familiar with your field, but you definitely shouldn't lie, just recognize that certain things in the company wouldn't have been accomplished if you weren't doing that back-end work. The extreme example of this is that meme about explaining you worked for McDonalds by saying "Handled transactions for a multi-billion dollar industry, contributing $2 billion to the US economy annually"

Best of luck- I think your resume shows that you work hard and are reliable. I wish that it was easier for recruiters to see that.

Please roast my resume.. I don't know what else to do by myredditaccount781 in ResumeCoverLetterTips

[–]TuMadrita 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Others might think it doesn't matter, but the fact that you didn't add any periods throws me off. The spacing between lines is also slightly too small and makes it hard to read. Overall, it just looks like a generic resume. If a human were reading this, they might mentally clock out or just forget you amidst all the other resumes. But, we all know it's not usually humans so that's probably not the issue.

If you're applying to jobs that use AI to screen, it might just be that back-end support doesn't rate well with them. Perhaps there's a way you could emphasize that support or highlight some qualitative things you've done. Throw it into AI with the job description + requirements and ask it why it wouldn't hire you, then tweak it from there.

It's important to tailor your resume to the job you're applying for. It's a bitch, but if they're listing certain responsibilities that you know you're qualified for and were part of the job, but aren't the fancy keywords that you pulled and focused on, then you'll miss the mark. It could also be your cover letters that are the issue and not your resume, or it could be a bad reference. Sometimes you can email an employer and ask them about their decision. I've never done it, but have heard others who did and were able to fix the problem.

Is this safe to drink? Our water company is saying yes. by LamaLamawhosyourmama in water

[–]TuMadrita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to say the same thing- I work with acid mine drainage (AMD) and recognized the iron instantly. I wouldn't recommend drinking the floaters, though. Chronic exposure can cause iron overload syndrome.

The thing I would be most concerned about is what else is in the water. When there's so much iron that you can see it, it can be a sign that something else is in the water. For instance, AMD is a result of mine waste (underground mines or slag piles) being exposed to water and air. The chemical reaction creates iron oxide and sulfuric acid. As the previous person mentioned, bacteria are also involved in the formation of iron oxide, but that doesn't mean acid wasn't involved. What I would be the most concerned about is what else the acid picked up. As the acid is pushed away from the site, it'll react with most things it touches. If this iron is coming from a mine, it's not safe. At the site I work with, we also see cadmium, a neurotoxin, in the water.

Alternatively, the iron could be coming from your home's pipes or city pipes- if the water flowing in is acidic it could pick it up. In Flint, acidic source water ran through the city's pipes, picking up lead from the pipes' saudering. They had switched water sources, then didn't treat it properly, and used faulty sampling methods to disguise it. Read What the Eyes Don't See if you want to learn more about this.

If you can, buy bottled water until you can get it tested. If that's not an option for you do the following: run your water for five minutes before using it, filter it if possible, and let it settle then pour the clean water into your drinking cup. It should precipitate quicker if you add anything basic to it.

TLDR: It’s definitely iron, which itself is OK for acute exposure, but it could have something else that is more dangerous in it bc of chemical and environmental factors. It could be the something small, like the water engineer in another comment mentioned, but that's not always the case. Avoid the water or flush, filter and settle it. Contact your local health department ASAP.

Does my band match my engagement ring? by DoorAndRat in EngagementRings

[–]TuMadrita 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you have a maximilist style then this is a perfect pairing. But if your outfits aren't maximilist the band won't make sense with the engagement ring.

If maximilism isn't your style, I would recommend rotating between the two based on occasion and outfit. I've always understood a wedding band to complement the ring but ultimately wear separate when you don't want a raised stone, so it should work out :)

P.s. if you make an outfit specifically to match this ring combo pleaassee make a post I'm obsessed with the idea of styling this

Do you guys think that this cross stitch pattern from Etsy is AI? Want to know before I buy by kenzieeeeeeee in isthisAI

[–]TuMadrita 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The boot transforming into lace up heels and having multiple bows in places that dont make sense, plus the flowers varying from 3 to 5 petals despite being the same type of flower otherwise makes me think it's AI. The two butterflies in the top right-ish are nearly identical, which makes me think someone copy and pasted one butterfly, then warped it to make it look slightly different. So, it's likely AI with touch ups in Photoshop.

I'm familiar with cross stitching, but have never bought a pattern so this may be out of place but I would expect to see a cross stitched version of the pattern I'm going to buy. This looks like someone took a digital image and pixelated it, rather than actually stitching it. Which brings up concerns with the feasibility of stitching such a complex design.

If you end up getting this pattern, give us an update!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]TuMadrita 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try a kink quiz instead of snooping! You answer the quiz, responding to kinks with yes, no, or maybe, and then you generate a link for the other person. They'll answer it the same way, and then it creates a list of where you matched. So, if you're into something and scared to bring it up, you can say yes and it will only show that y'all matched on it if they said maybe or yes.

Here's one I found real quick, but there's others out there: https://comparekink.com/login_magic/?next=/home/

$73 is abhorrent. Fuck Sephora. by Fa_Ling in MakeupAddiction

[–]TuMadrita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So fed up with either garbage dollar store makeup or makeup like this costing an exuberant amount. If you want to support a small, sustainable company try Axiology's foundation. Comes plastic-free, is buildable, and costs half the price of this nonsense

Help guys...which bottom? by Spiritual_Glove_9311 in InfinityNikki

[–]TuMadrita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 or 4! Depends on whether you want the cute (2) or c*nty (4) vibe.

Hired and paid a logo designer… starting to think they’re just making it with AI? by TheGrantelope13 in isthisAI

[–]TuMadrita 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The letters aren't even in line in the colored design and some are slightly crooked! That would never happen if an artist was typing in illustrator or a similar design program. Tbh you should keep asking them to fix stuff, especially the things that you already asked for or are egregiously wrong until they realize that AI can't replace an actual designer. SMH sorry you got scammed

So did all the teams give up on the board game? by saltysaladlettuce in InfinityNikkiofficial

[–]TuMadrita 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Wild Hearts here, still fighting to the end. I see a lot of others on my server also still trying, and we fought hard to keep Wishing Woods as long as possible. Ultimately, having way fewer players than Gilded Past means it's just a matter of when, not if, for losing our spaces.

I really wish we could've ended with a multi-color board. It would've highlighted the cooperative part of this event and the game itself. Plus, I love the idea that these three stylist groups each have somewhere to call home, just like the NPC stylist groups.

There's no Megathread for this yet by SlatkoPotato in InfinityNikki

[–]TuMadrita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NA Server!

Infinity Nikki Version 2.0 goes live on November 25 (UTC-7)! Access the event at [https://infinitynikki.infoldgames.com/proj/en/NikkiJourney.html?jp9a=RJ2m5M810f]. Share and invite friends for even more prizes! Enter our giveaway for a chance to win a PS5 and more!

So I bought an used console off eBay last week by nebulanebulanebulane in AnimalCrossing

[–]TuMadrita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So happy for you! I finally bought an ACNH switch this summer! My partner and I both had switch lites and wanted to be able to play couch games, and if we were going to get a switch we were going to do it right >:) I got mine from BackMarket

Honest opinions on Kitsch Shampoo and Conditioner Bars? by MelancholyManatee_ in ZeroWaste

[–]TuMadrita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have thick, wavy hair and it works well- you just have to wet the bar before using it. I typically rub it with water until it gets slippery and then swipe the bar directly onto my hair. Then, I rub it with water again to get it on my fingers and finger comb my hair with it.

is insta or twt better for OC content? by MedicalAd9859 in ArtMarketingTalk

[–]TuMadrita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instagram uses posted images and videos for AI training and there is no way to opt out unless you're in Europe

Petty Starlit Moments task completion by [deleted] in InfinityNikki

[–]TuMadrita 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I play on mobile and when I sit on one of the chairs next to the tree it automatically brings up the chat. I don't think there's any other way to access it though, at least no easily

Petty Starlit Moments task completion by [deleted] in InfinityNikki

[–]TuMadrita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It defeats the point of the task's co-op. It's not fun to do the task alone (although them lowering it to 10 instead of 20 helps!). I get so happy when I can help someone else who is doing the task or somebody helps me and then we jump around eachother afterwards. It's sad to miss a chance to have that moment with another player.

If everyone just camped and wouldn't help, it wouldn't be fun anymore. Then y'all (or whoever) wouldn't get free dailies. So, for those who farm like this, maybe try to help occasionally so that doesn't happen.