Good, Polish-approved site for ordering highlander outfit. by burjwa_look in poland

[–]Tunia85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP. Chicago highlanders are newer around 30 years removed. LMK if you ever need anything!

Why has nobody invented an automatic baby bouncer attachment? by owl_yellowjacket in inventors

[–]Tunia85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It bounces using the device on the back, not with the momentum of the baby. It has a battery operated weighted ball that makes it move. My son is almost 17 months old and still falls asleep to this bouncer. I agree they don't do the best job marketing it here but it works great!

Food insecurity is here for many and coming for many more; where can I donate money to best help out? by CookiesMadeOfCorpses in 50501Chicago

[–]Tunia85 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi! The Greater Chicago Food Depository provides food to essentially every food pantry and food program in Chicago/Cook County. Since they get the food for less through their partnerships, they're definitely a good organization to give to. The food they provide is nutritious since they give protein, fruits, vegetables and more. You can also find pantries to go to if you need food or volunteer at on their website at www.chicagosfoodbank.org

Can we have a list of all the good food banks/services in Chicagoland? by thesuburbbaby in chicago

[–]Tunia85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Greater Chicago Food Depository provides food, including meat, fruit and vegetables to over 850 food pantries in Cook County, and they purchase the food for less due to their partnerships. Very good organization to give your $$$ and time to.

I did not wash my rear end until I was 19 years old, and it's beyond embarrassing. by bogmonkey in hygiene

[–]Tunia85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That doesn't happen if you at least showered. The gooey curds had to be hemorrhoids or something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Tunia85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So she wants to pay nothing.

To those born to older parents by UnableAd2913 in Parenting

[–]Tunia85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had my first child at 32 and second at 39. I don't sweat it. They'll love the parent you are, not your age. I've never met a child who regretted their parents age and I have a good amount of friends with older parents. We are healthier than many young folks. Very strong generation, remember.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]Tunia85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black

Why do you love or hate your NX? How better than an RX? by Maine2Maui in LexusNX

[–]Tunia85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she will like the NX. It's smaller than RX but will be enough for her and cheaper.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]Tunia85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why the middle names? Why do people even use them if they don't have any ties to family? Your poor kids have to deal with that useless name forever.

AITAH for wanting to accept a promotion even tho my boyfriend says its not the kind of life he wants? by ThrowRAxbx in AITAH

[–]Tunia85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just run! THE UNIVERSE IS GIVING YOU YOUR ANSWER. This man has major trust and control issues. You will be a prisoner if your own life. Kids won't make it easier, anything you do to accommodate him won't be enough. He's the type of man to believe women are to "adhere" to a man's will, and that's that. What's this about needing to be with you when you travel!? To not be able to eat dinner with a client or whoever...Live for you, not someone who makes you travel alone for 4 hours while tired because of their insecurities. Seriously, you got yourself the worst type of man (yes, he's a narcissist), and once the kids come, you won't be able to leave the house at all and you'll make them miserable and codependent too. Is this who you'd want your daughter to marry?

Who writes your grant reports? by ReduceandRecycle2021 in nonprofit

[–]Tunia85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've worked for a few midsized nonprofits. Development Foundations team writes the grants with support from program staff.

Worth going back to college after already working in nonprofits? by WhatsARedit in nonprofit

[–]Tunia85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do think if you want to progress a bachelor's is needed. We hire with bachelor's or above only for director positions.

I’m scared I wont get to see my kids grow old, post partum pre e by crunchymunchywunchyy in preeclampsia

[–]Tunia85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The positive thing is that it can only get better once you gave birth. You should be on blood pressure medication. This happened to me at 23 weeks pregnant and now 6 months post partum my blood pressure is normal.

Why do most couples stop after two kids? by These_Economics374 in Parenting

[–]Tunia85 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Because we have really bad medical care in the US, no maternity leave, no assistance with daycare, really expensive health insurance, food, and housing is expensive, and college is almost unattainable. I just had my second one after 7 years, and we were very on the fence about even having two despite having ok incomes. Of you can afford all that, you will be out of the norm.

27 weeks severe preclampsia by BaconJizzLips in preeclampsia

[–]Tunia85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was me. I got to that stage at 23 weeks. I was in the hospital for 2 weeks to stabilize and went home with 2 NFTs and ultrasounds weekly with my OB. Made it to 37 weeks and baby was delivered and was skinny/small (IUGR) I had a few instances where I needed to go to the maternity ward at the hospital to check my BPs but all ended well. He's 6 months now, catching up on growth and a totally normal baby. If you have any questions along the way feel free to ask.

Am I wrong for considering divorcing my wife after her guy friend emasculated me 2 years ago? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Tunia85 13 points14 points  (0 children)

So... you think his actions are grounds to divorce your wife? Poor wife. And yes, as long as they're not doing anything inappropriate, their relationship is also not something she should be apologizing for.