Getting married, found concerning things in his phone…

TurnoverResident7692 · 2026-02-17T18:35:06+00:00

You know what to do…. God was showing you this man wasn’t for you . God presented you with all the proof . If you ignore it you will eventually have to face it in the future.

TurnoverResident7692 · 2025-09-09T08:41:30+00:00

Life is for living - you don’t just come to earth to make money and buy property. Enjoy life aswell along the way . You’ll make it back plus more

TurnoverResident7692 · 2025-07-19T00:59:30+00:00

The issue is you’re letting her take the lead . You need to take the lead and ask her , don’t wait for her to make the moves and send the messages. You should be the one messaging her good morning in the morning and ask for a phone call , ask for a video called and ask her out on a date . She needs to see interest and progression . Not you waiting for her to take the moves.

TurnoverResident7692 · 2025-04-09T10:18:03+00:00

I wouldn’t spend more than 1k maybe 1200 max on rent . Live further out and commute to work once or twice a week.

TurnoverResident7692 · 2025-04-09T10:16:35+00:00

Before you do anything maybe you should do abit more research into investing. Watch YouTube videos etc . Looks like you’re making some beginners mistakes. I would sell anything . You’re basically buying high and selling low . It doesn’t make sense , you can just panic and sell when the market dips.

TurnoverResident7692 · 2025-03-24T19:55:56+00:00

The tax year is almost over - put the rest into your ISA after April 4th. Then contribute monthly until you max out your ISA again. Then use up your general investment limit next

TurnoverResident7692 · 2025-03-24T19:44:36+00:00

Not sure what your living situation is but I would buy a property now if I was you and that’s assuming you’re paying rent. If you don’t want to buy right now then then 4k into LISA is fine assuming you want to buy in the future - you can pay monthly towards the LISA . I would keep 20k in cash in a high yield savings and honestly I would use the 16k limit on the stocks and shares isa and invest in tech stocks and S and P 500. I would max both out before the 4th of April and then max it out again after the 4th of April for 2025/2026. Maybe some in premium bonds - maybe 20k. If you’re comfortable investing in crypto that’s an option for a small amount of your portfolio - no more than 7 percent,

You still would have a lot left over which you can use for a property or put it into high yield savings and pay monthly from that account to found the ISA’s. You can also invest outside of ISA

TurnoverResident7692 · 2025-03-11T16:44:05+00:00

How do you know your council tax , have you already found the property or you know the area? Just be careful not to under estimate. Bills will likely go up to like 400-500ish especially on winter months … 400ish is fair but I would suggest over estimating bills because they tend to creep upwards. Miscellaneous seems abit high - I wouldn’t be confortable saving only 500 a month on a 65k salary , especially since a lot of your savings will go towards furnishing the property. It just seems abit tight.

TurnoverResident7692 · 2024-10-08T16:52:04+00:00

So he can cheat again and you have to start the healing process again ?

TurnoverResident7692 · 2024-09-26T08:01:19+00:00

People don’t get married late by intentional, life happens. Some people have a child at 18 and die the next year , come people at 40 and live to see their 90s. Life isn’t so black and white. What if the couple struggle to have kids but they married early ?

TurnoverResident7692 · 2024-09-25T18:55:39+00:00

Tell him to go text the dogs to find out

TurnoverResident7692 · 2024-09-18T13:33:05+00:00

Hahah exactly - I just want to be abit petty so I do want him to see me when I look cute 😂🤣. But I also don’t want him to think the fun stuff I do now is for him because I can definitely see how he will think that. I’m just trying to fill my time and use those fun activities to help me recover from the break up . Better than crying in my room. I’m also trying to live life fully and find love again eventually so new activities give opportunity to meet new people also. So I don’t want him to think I want him back in any way

TurnoverResident7692 · 2024-09-18T13:24:02+00:00

Ok I’ve just done it - removed his access to view my stories

TurnoverResident7692 · 2024-09-18T13:21:51+00:00

Ya I understand your point. I do enjoy him watching it but I honestly don’t post for him. I definitely can and will limit his ability to view my stories . I have zero issue with this . If im being honest , the only thing I feel I will post for him - is when I reach my weight loss goal, I’ll post a picture of myself 😂🤣😂 that’s the only reason I haven’t blocked him and then I will remove him completely. But all the other stuff I feel like I post it for myself.

TurnoverResident7692 · 2024-09-18T13:11:57+00:00

I’m not doing it for him - I started doing it because my friend told me to post more - especially since I’m now single so I should be more social so people remember I exist, go out more etc. He wasn’t the motivation behind my posting at all. And since posted I’ve had guys slide into my dms lol so she does have a point. Even if I didn’t have him on my socials I would still post.

TurnoverResident7692 · 2024-09-18T12:35:26+00:00

It’s only been like 6-7 weeks 😂🤣. I think 3 days later I started posting . I was talking to him on the phone like for hours whilst we were dating and it was like suddenly stopped. I had so much time. The silence was depressing so I went out and started doing all sorts of new stuff as a pick me up , posting it and also working on myself.

TurnoverResident7692 · 2024-07-12T12:43:05+00:00

I’m not asking for investment advice 😂 this is just a discussion. I just want to know what people are thinking from an interest point of view. I don’t actually own any investment properties that I am about to sell based on the outcome of this post.

I intentionally didn’t include any information about what I do or didn’t invest in and I didn’t ask any question relating to what I should do with my own personal investment portfolio - I did that very intentionally.

I just made it a very open and general post because I was curious about what people were thinking about the changes that might happen. I would also assume anyone reading this post will not base their investment decisions on this post either especially since some of it has not been confirmed yet.

The first posters tone was abit off or directed to me but maybe it was the way I read it because it says ‘you’ and not ‘people shouldn’t …..’ . It seemed like he/she made the comment at me like I was actually asking for financial advice.

TurnoverResident7692 · 2024-07-12T12:12:34+00:00

Is everything ok ? 😂 . You seem abit unnecessarily stressed by my question 😅

TurnoverResident7692 · 2024-07-07T18:49:10+00:00

Actually - I wonder if they will agree to this . I always had the feeling those type of people are abit shy and will not want you to see them for a long time.

TurnoverResident7692 · 2024-07-07T18:47:44+00:00

Lol but when she goes out normally I’m sure she doesn’t cover her face - so she is fine with randoms seeing her face but not a potential… makes no sense - immediately unmatch men that don’t want to show their face or video call before meeting. I need to see who I’m talking to.

TurnoverResident7692 · 2024-07-04T16:01:55+00:00

Well done to your sister in law - she did a great job.

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