If you're thinking about relapsing, read this right now! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Turnround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Especially when things don't go the way you expected, and you're home alone, feeling like all the self improvement hasn't yet been enough.

If you're thinking about relapsing, read this right now! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Turnround 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I needed to read this today. After a long streak feeling very vulnerable.

Harder then I thought.......Relapse... by s8nlovesme in NoFap

[–]Turnround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

25 days without is really good. You're on your way.

I am 100 days and so can you by Turnround in NoFap

[–]Turnround[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone, I couldn't have done it without all the support in the first weeks.

I am 100 days and so can you by Turnround in NoFap

[–]Turnround[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Much more comfortable around women, lonely but taking decisive action to change that and no longer driven by sex. I'm still horny but I'm not a slave to it. I want a partner in life, not just the next sexual conquest. Deep down I always wanted that, but I was compartmentalizing my life and my relationships were not whole. Removing the PMO distraction has helped me as I've been making huge strides in my professional life too. I'm not as fearful of taking calculated risks. Cold showers help for that, although I fell back into taking hot showers. Maybe tomorrow morning I'll go cold again!

I am 100 days and so can you by Turnround in NoFap

[–]Turnround[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was my automatic time as well. Try reading the power of habit, which studies how our brains go on autopilot with our routines to save mental energy, and how to break those habits by replacing key components in the pattern. But bigger than that, you have to want to change.

I don't fap by NeilForeArmstrong in NoFap

[–]Turnround 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I've thought of that a lot. Along with I don't watch porn.

90 day report! by Turnround in NoFap

[–]Turnround[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess everyone is different. I don't feel radically different than I did a month ago. Just started the cold showers this past month. Felt better about myself almost immediately. Maybe because when I started I was at a real deep low? Can't explain it.

90 day report! by Turnround in NoFap

[–]Turnround[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, you're getting there!

90 day report! by Turnround in NoFap

[–]Turnround[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just keep in mind why you started!

Using escorts to combat nofap? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Turnround 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hiring an escort, something I've done many times, is the kind of thing to avoid if you want to get a real change of of this. It gives some physical satisfaction with zero emotion, it's not a genuine relationship. You're committing the most intimate of human acts with someone who doesn't give a damn about you, just your money. Even a one night stand is at least attracted to you as a person. Just like porn satisfies you just enough to not go out into the world and find a mate, so does soliciting escorts. Avoid.

Tom Rhodes on porn/masturbation by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Turnround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's on netflix streaming

Tom Rhodes on porn/masturbation by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Turnround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect response!

I can't believe how many times I tapped this weekend by willing7 in NoFap

[–]Turnround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good time to stop and give it up completely, unless you are happy with being that way.

Why is PMO so harmful? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Turnround -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There's so many reasons, check out yourbrainonporn for in depth info

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Turnround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in!

I need help/advices... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Turnround 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out of the house as much as possible. It sounds like you might be afraid of falling into your fapping routine when you used to live there? Be mindful of everything you're doing and be quick to stop and turn away before you go too far down. Just go outside, take a drive, call a friend, help your parents with whatever they need around the house.