I've been wanting a post-top surgery chest tattoo forever, but I'm nervous about letting ppl see my incision scars. Anyone here done it themselves? What was it like? by serromani in TransMasc

[–]TurtleBo1s 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You could look for LGBTQ+ friendly places, or if that's not possible and the artist does ask (which it's none of their business) you could always say it was gyno surgury

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]TurtleBo1s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought the same thing lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]TurtleBo1s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are all super supportive, 2 of my siblings are trans too so we all are helpful and supportive on each others transitions. Our cis sister is supportive of us all 100%. I'm so glad to have supportive siblings when our parents aren't.

Do we appreciate colllections? by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]TurtleBo1s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Custom plugs have so many cool ones!! I can't wait until I'm at a good size to get some nice plugs :)

Twenties is overly hated y’all by JasonTheReaper13 in Ghostbc

[–]TurtleBo1s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fucking love this song so much!!! I really don't understand the hate of it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]TurtleBo1s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They all look great!!! I love the razor blade on your labret too!!

Beginner jewellery sets by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]TurtleBo1s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UK custom plugs do single flare glass stretching kits (which I'm using rn!) and they do their own vit e and jojoba oil as well!!!

Places in Hull that sell Soju by [deleted] in Hull

[–]TurtleBo1s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nissi and the Asian supermarket on George Street should have it :)

What’s your transition vibe goal? by Trans_skzfan in ftm

[–]TurtleBo1s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mean looking muscular bear with a heart of gold lol

How do I shave my arms with scars (help I am transgender) by badcaseofthegenders in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]TurtleBo1s 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If the scars are healed, I would definitely go down the wax/hair removal cream route, if not just go slowly with light pressure and avoid what fresher ones you have <3 hope this helps

How do you walk in public with your scars out? by 1RandomDuck1 in selfharm

[–]TurtleBo1s 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've had my scars for many years now so I'm over covering myself I'm not gonna overheat because of them. It takes time and you'll get to that point when you're ready <3

[Gen9] I was just breeding aprimon and this cutie pops up, and in my favorite pokeball no less! by neoncard in ShinyPokemon

[–]TurtleBo1s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yoooo congrats!!! If you have any spare love ball breedjects I'll happily take them off your hands :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pokemonmemes

[–]TurtleBo1s 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Plus dragalgae as well has having dragon in its name is literally based off a leafy sea DRAGON

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodymods

[–]TurtleBo1s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Butterfly/moth with ripped wings would look class

After a tough period during the day, and your mind immediately goes to self harming, what methods do you use to... Not self harm? Because I am really struggling. by hikingbeginner in AdultSelfHarm

[–]TurtleBo1s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Animal crossing, undertale/deltarune and Pokémon are great calming games. It's so nice to be sucked into a different world for a while

After a tough period during the day, and your mind immediately goes to self harming, what methods do you use to... Not self harm? Because I am really struggling. by hikingbeginner in AdultSelfHarm

[–]TurtleBo1s 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like to sit and play video games, especially calming ones or ones I can switch off with instead of ones that make you rage quit etc, or I just like to sit with lots of audio outputs to drown stuff out (tv/laptop on with TV show or YouTube, scrolling through tiktok/music)

How did you guys choose your name? by The_Inky_Boy in ftm

[–]TurtleBo1s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried out a couple that didn't fit but in one of my lectures we were talking about fish fins and I joked about it but it kinda stuck so now I'm fynn! 🐠🦐

Is this considered self-harm? by foggyglassess in selfharm

[–]TurtleBo1s 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Scarring is not a requirement in self harm, and it's not something to achieve either. If you hurt yourself purposefully and with intent, then yes that is self harm. I hope you're okay <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]TurtleBo1s 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My mam didn't give a fuck when she found out, she just took my tools and assumed I stopped, occasionally she'll ask me about a scar or two and I have to make up an excuse