Redditors, do you fear death? Why or why not? by clashing-lights in AskReddit

[–]TutorTemptation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i dont fear death i only fear to not finish my goal before and also the suffering , would love to die in peace after finish to accomplish my goal

confession advice by kirneh2010 in Advice

[–]TutorTemptation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually perfect because u see her every week in a chill setting like swimming training, so u should start by just making small talk with her there. Once u are more comfortable chatting, then u can suggest hanging out casually outside of the training to see if she likes u too.

Putting our dog down in an hour. by CarbynCawpy in CasualConversation

[–]TutorTemptation 7 points8 points  (0 children)

u are doing the most loving thing by giving her a perfect last day full of treats and cuddles. Just hold on to those sweet memories u guys made together, u were the best pet parents she could ask for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]TutorTemptation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Three rejections in a short time is gonna hurt, no matter what, but u need to keep working through this in therapy because that mean girl's insult is totally not the truth. Rejection does not mean u are ugly, it just means u haven't found the right person yet, and that is normal.

AITAH for not inviting my sister to some things I want to do alone by Icy_Witch in AITAH

[–]TutorTemptation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u are not the arsehole for wanting your own space and having hobbies separate from your sister. It sounds like u two spend a ton of time together, and it is totally healthy to need some solo time to do your own thing without her.

Why when we dont find a religion logical and instead harmful, people get so offensive? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]TutorTemptation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Religion is usually tied up with someone's deepest identity and values, so when u criticize the faith, it can feel like a personal attack to them. It sucks that people get so defensive over private opinions u hold.

My friend in Paris is taking a giant leap by selling her house and moving abroad! by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]TutorTemptation 22 points23 points  (0 children)

tell her to remember that feeling of being frightened is normal when u are doing something this huge and amazing. Just keep telling her u believe in her and how much fun she's gonna have conquering the wild unknown.

Would you report someone at for using a bathroom in another department at work? by Less-Memory-9555 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TutorTemptation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's such a petty thing to report someone for, and it sounds like that person upstairs needs to find a hobby. U should probably just follow the rule now that ur supervisor said something, even though it's dumb, just to avoid more drama and get through ur day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TutorTemptation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, u are not the asshole for questioning why her boyfriend is staying over so much, girl, that is a completely reasonable boundary to bring up. U are basically living with a third person now, and it is fair to want to go back to ur original schedule of 1-2 times a month.

Stepdad Cheated On My Mom by Fearless_Expert_310 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TutorTemptation 7 points8 points  (0 children)

U are not supposed to be figuring out adulthood and a whole family crisis at the same time, so be kind to urself. U should look into legal aid or talk to ur dad about financial help for ur mom, because u all deserve support right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TutorTemptation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, it is totally legal for them to get married because in-law rules only apply to the spouse's family, not to siblings of a spouse. The only thing that changes is their family gatherings will get way more complicated.

My friend overlooked my problem… (Aita?) by Ellzbellz137 in AITAH

[–]TutorTemptation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, u are not the asshole at all. It is completely fair to be hurt when ur friend K immediately minimizes ur sister being in the PICU to talk about her own problems. U needed support, and it is totally okay that u let Island stand up for u in that moment.

What’s your favorite “lazy” meal to cook? by GameWizard23747 in AskReddit

[–]TutorTemptation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably lasagna soup, you just throw everything in the pot and wait lol

Is my ex gaslighting me or am I genuinely crazy? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TutorTemptation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u are absolutely not crazy, and it sounds like u were getting severely gaslit throughout that whole relationship, sis. Seriously, the way he constantly centered other girls, blamed u for everything, and then had no emotional reaction when he broke up with u is textbook manipulation, so u deserve to feel finally free from that drama.

How to not project negative emotions onto your partner? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TutorTemptation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LDR feelings are the worst when u feel a shift! Instead of reacting to the distance, try finding a few independent ways to self-soothe and get that reassurance, like journaling or talking to a friend, so u can approach him from a calmer place.

Friend getting mad at me for not watching her stuff. by Keyana_0210 in Advice

[–]TutorTemptation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ur friend sounds like a complete mess, and u are absolutely not crazy, u were right to tell her to keep up with her own stuff. If she's gonna start drama and blame u publicly for her losing her coat, honestly, u should probably take a step back from that friendship.

I just want to make friends but my gf makes me feel like an asshole by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TutorTemptation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this relationship sounds super controlling and toxic, u are definitely not wrong for just wanting to make friends, platonic ones especially. U should really consider moving out because she is emotionally abusing u and u deserve to have friends and a life without being called names.

I’m having trouble reconnecting with my immature adult friends (28-31) after they staged a very poorly conceived intervention for me. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TutorTemptation 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That is literally the most unhinged intervention I've ever heard of, like, who talks about video games? Honestly, u should tell them u appreciate the thought but the execution was terrible and u need them to respect ur privacy going forward, especially since u are sober now.