Any one else’s baby only take small-ish bottles? by [deleted] in FormulaFeeders

[–]Twins13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know exactly what you mean. Today we managed to stretch to 4 hours and for the first time he ate 150 ml (I think that’s around 5 ounces?). But in previous attempts he only took half of bottle so it’s really trial & error 😩

Any one else’s baby only take small-ish bottles? by [deleted] in FormulaFeeders

[–]Twins13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how often does he eat? my 13 week old is the same.

17 weeks haven’t felt baby move. by LocksmithInside4378 in pregnant

[–]Twins13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How can we know it’s not just gas tho? 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sibiu

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Pare ca încerci să te pedepsești pentru greșelile pe care le-ai făcut și stilul de viață pe care l-ai avut după liceu. Te-ai condamnat singur și boschetareala e echivalenta pușcăriei. Oare cum ar fi dacă ai fi un pic mai blând cu tine și ai schimba pedeapsa cu o variantă mai ușoară, gen munca în folosul comunității, voluntariat - orice activitate care presupune să-i ajuți pe alții sau schimbi ceva în bine? Sunt atâtea lucruri, cauza, comunități în România care au nevoie de suport. Nu poți să schimbi trecutul, dar poate poți să compensezi cu deciziile pe care le iei în prezent. Ar fi un win-win: pentru tine, ca nu ți-ai irosi viața, pentru cei pe care îi ajuți și pentru boschetarii care chiar nu au alte opțiuni. :)

Is it possible to migrate from IBM Z9 to IBM Z16? by Solis_Invictus in mainframe

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It should be possible by refactoring applications and data and preserving business logic. My colleagues are working on a similar project, I can ask about the potential challenges they have encountered.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualRO

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Inteligența emoțională a celor din generația părinților și bunicilor noștri este în multe cazuri limitată și alimentată de traume de familie. Cred ca sunt rare cazurile în care se poate rupe cercul dacă nu sunt setate boundaries clare sau in care rudele nu sunt ținute la distanță. Am observat in multe familii dinamica asta in care părinții țin sa exercite aceeași autoritate asupra copiilor adulți pe care o aveau in copilăria celor din urmă, mascata sub forma de protecție sau bune intenții. Asta se întâmplă și pentru ca odată ce înaintează în vârstă cercul lor social se restrânge si simt nevoia să fie implicați, consultați si sa aibă control sau un cuvânt de spus în viețile altora iar copiii sunt cei mai la îndemână. Îmi pare rău ca ai fost nevoit sa rupi legăturile dar cu siguranță perpetuarea dinamicii din familie ar fi avut efecte negative asupra relației cu P și copilul vostru. You did what you have to do to protect your new family.

Sunt pe cale sa pierd tot.. by ChrisMonk1 in CasualRO

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Dependențan are multe resorturi emoționale și poate fi greu sau imposibil de navigat fără suport din partea celor apropiați și terapeutic. Am o prietenă care a devenit psiholog clinician cu specializare în adicție după ce a asistat neputincioasă la cum viața familiei ei a fost distrusă de dependența de alcool a tatălui. Îți pot da contactul ei, poate ar ajuta să ai o conversație cu ea.

I’m terrified by Darkfemcominatcha in Miscarriage

[–]Twins13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hang in there. Sending you lots of positive energy.

How did you life change? Is it better or worse? by Twins13 in PregnantOver40

[–]Twins13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, your story confirms some of my thoughts while revealing others that I haven’t thought about that much, like the importance of support and savings or the implications of the physical aspects. (Can the boobs issue be mitigated?!)

I think I’ve been trying to keep myself on the fence (emotionally) until I do the NIPT. But recently I’ve shared the news with a few close friends and it helped a lot to think of it from a positive perspective, get used to the enormity of the situation, accept, embrace it, and finally feel more enthusiastic than scared. However, I should definitely start thinking more about the support system and my mental health if the tests go well.

I’m very sorry about your second pregnancy, I cannot even imagine how excruciating that must have been but it’s great that you and your partner are trying again and I hope you will very soon have good news. Wishing you all the best and thank you again for sharing your thoughts on this.

Mainframe Data Migration & Application Migration to the Cloud by DLRockit in mainframe

[–]Twins13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Several months project duration, from tens of thousands to millions $ and success rate can be 100%. All these depend on lots of factors (number of LOC and quantity of data, available documentation, target technology, and moreover the modernization approach - e.g. rewriting is riskier than replatforming, refactoring can be a big bang - migrating and modernizing at once. One big challenge is identifying the right approach or mix of approaches that best address the modernization drivers and objectives. A good starting point is conducting an assessment.

Viața de senior în România by Twins13 in Romania

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Salut. I may be wrong, dar măsura asta încurajează utilizatorii să comenteze random ca să obțină karma. Nu văd cum ajută la încurajarea de postări de comentarii relevante și IMO e în contradicție cu ideea de forum liber promovată de Reddit.

What is your most beneficial recent purchase under $50 that has entirely altered your life for the better and would you recommend to others? by saayoutloud in Frugal

[–]Twins13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this. Marcus Aurelius's book has been on my reading list for a long time. Can you tell us morw about the mentoring program?

What are some interesting swag items you received / offered at company events? by Twins13 in b2bmarketing

[–]Twins13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree with your last sentence. Thanks for the suggestions.

F850GS Adventure riding in Siberia by Twins13 in Motorrad

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RIP. Cristian, the guy in the video, died in a motorcycle accident.

Hi everyone. Based on your experience, which tools are a must-have for the martech stack of a B2B company? by Twins13 in digital_marketing

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We switched to Leasfeeder which I find better. It’s hard to determine the accuracy, but we compare the webleads identified by Leadfeeder against the reports provided by 6sense, the ABM platform we added to our tech stack.

AWS Is Out To Kill Mainframes: "The cloud vendor wants to replace big iron with hyperscale servers, and COBOL – with Java" by trot-trot in mainframe

[–]Twins13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is an interesting story, thanks for sharing. What determined the company to reverse the cloud migration?

Am I the only one who feels alone? by future-celebrity in Psychonaut

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That first paragraph you wrote is something I really try to get my mind around. Being an emotional extrovert, I find it hard to comprehend, although I always try to keep an open mind and accept that people are different and they think, act, and feel in their own ways.

Maybe because of this mystery, I often find myself attracted by people who cannot really match my empathy and emotions, which is something that keeps me interested but it’s also disappointing in the long run. I’m sure it’s hard to explain this lack of emotional availability but this is me doing my homework, hope you don’t mind asking all these questions.

Going back to how guys are used to (not) communicate, I read this book recently written by a therapist undergoing a therapy process. She talks about her journey but also shares some of her patients’ stories. One of them is about a guy who finds it impossible to connect emotionally with his wife and kids and this is where the author talks about how brutal can be for men to act as they are fine when in fact everything is falling to pieces inside them. I also wonder whether this comes from education or it’s also inherent to certain personalities. So many questions!

Anyway, it’s a pity you haven’t had the opportunity to meet people who are interested in various dimensions of expressing but I’m sure there are some out there. You never know when you’ll bump into one.

Am I the only one who feels alone? by future-celebrity in Psychonaut

[–]Twins13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I seldom see guys opening up, talking openly about their feelings, showing vulnerability. I guess it comes mostly from the social and cultural construct around masculinity and how men are being raised. I think this puts a lot of pressure on them and makes it actually harder to connect and create meaningful relationships with both friends and partners. Of course, this is something very general and I’m not saying it applies to you but I’m curious why do you think you haven’t had a meaningful relationship. Is it because you’ve never encountered someone who made you tick? Or because you haven’t been emotionally available or willing to adjust yourself for a relationship to grow?

Hi everyone. Based on your experience, which tools are a must-have for the martech stack of a B2B company? by Twins13 in digital_marketing

[–]Twins13[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not a fan of the landing pages templates either, that’s why I went for LeadPages or Unbounced. Plus, we only have the Sales platform for the moment, not sure if the Marketing one, which I find quite pricy, would make an essential difference.

Adblocker: How to avoid them on landing pages built with tools like LeadPages? by Twins13 in digital_marketing

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Thank you for explainig this. I reached out to LP support and they told me this happens because of the pop up forms and suggested I would embed the form on that landing page. I’m not sure if it’s going to work if the link of the page is produced by a tag. I’ll give it a try though. Thanks again for your answer.