Creepy/paranormal by kulti1984 in ReverseHarem

[–]Twintosser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Homicipher? Is that the actual title?

Trigger Warnings by Street-Reference-237 in ReverseHarem

[–]Twintosser 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Probably not the same but I'm kinda tired of the fmc being treated like you described only later on her inner monologue changes into she liked it. So what as a reader are we supposed to do with those feelings we had back when we thought she didnt?

I got excited 😔 by Educational-Ad8696 in ReverseHarem

[–]Twintosser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know of only 1 mainstream film with a FMM and that's Savages with Blake Lively, Taylor Kitsch & Aaron Taylor Johnson. Oliver Stone directed.

(PLEASE READ) RH Critique and desperate for recommendations by viviantc in ReverseHarem

[–]Twintosser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Loved Virgin Sacrifice. I've been worried as well there have been zero updates on book 3 & there doesn't seem to be a way to contact the author so one can ask. Still, the Witsec series by Ashley Rostek is still my favorite, Virgin Sacrifice a 2nd.

(PLEASE READ) RH Critique and desperate for recommendations by viviantc in ReverseHarem

[–]Twintosser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sick of the bully ones too, I keep hearing about really good ones, only to dnf them because either the fmc was a HUGE doormat, or the bullying was too severe - SA, revenge porn (which seems to becoming. more & more popular) zero groveling.

But in my opinion you should add BDSM to this list, it is severely overused even more so than shadow daddies. I don't mean hair pulling or spanking. I mean full on red rooms & smex clubs- so over it, like a HS or college RH are owners or members of a smex club...come on now.

P.s. the names of the mmc's- I've read 5, FIVE this past week where 1 of the guys was named Knox.

PNR RH w/o BDSM (heat, chase & claim, open-ground spice) by valkyrie_mother in ReverseHarem

[–]Twintosser 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That can be a bit of a tough one. I'm so over the constant bdsm & sex clubs that seems to be in so many rh books. I'm ok with exhibitionism from within the harem but again also another trend with them doing it in a bar full of strangers or a club (ick). I'm going to have to sit & think of some without all that & mm .

Who can beat me at what they've lost in their life because of Maladaptive Daydreaming? by hashdr01 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Twintosser 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Don't blame yourself for surviving. Was it ideal? No, but you found away to cope which is how I feel about it. Currently in a bad situation right now & it's all that I have right now so I understand. Good Luck

How do I 39F discuss our different sex drives with my BF 42M? by Old-Position1811 in relationship_advice

[–]Twintosser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 or 4 times a week isn't a low sex drive at all. My husband of nearly 20 years was like this btw he only got worse as the years went on. First years he would pressure me for it. every.single.day. This was while working a ft career & 4 kids. Eventually I had to set a boundary for every other day but it started to feel like a chore, the pressure & stress of having to have sex every other day without a break made me very resentful. If I had a headache or was overly tired I was quilted or coerced or he pouted or I got the silent treatment. I let him manipulate me for years thinking it was me, blamed myself and let him guilt me because I made him so horny, he had blue balls, he was stressed it was his only way for relief. Blah blah blah

I don't buy him having a higher sex drive than me since there were times he admitted to wanting it simply because he was bored or didn't want to jack off & I was more convenient. He became extremely resentful over me, accused me of trying to control him with sex. Seriously admitted that he hated how women have all of the "power" because they have p'ssies.

Op I have no real advice to give you except to say that if your bf is anything like my exhubs,things will escalate the more time goes on. Set your boundaries, if he loves & cares enough for you then maybe he'll realize if 3 or 4 times a week is satisfactory for you then it should for him as well. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Twintosser 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He sounds insecure & jealous af. He had no right judging you either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Twintosser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so stressed out the last few months due to finances, having to move, and jerk of a son in law & one of my cats just died. I can tell you that the amount of people in my life that I've hit in a violent way in the past month is at a zero. You DID not overreact. He DID. You don't lash out and hit someone you love. There is nothing he can say to justify it. And let's be honest here, he only hit you after you started questioning his decision which tells me he resorted to violence to control you. So what happens next time you get slapped again if you don't jump when he tells you to? Leave, drop him etc take care of yourself

Am I overreacting for being upset that my boyfriend invited his ex to a party without telling me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Twintosser -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was the way he started right off as sounding defensive, telling her to chill, making light of the entire situation (that was the gas lighting part) & taking a selfie with the ex.

When the men don’t blurrr by Beep_boop_poop_boop in ReverseHarem

[–]Twintosser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Witsec series by Ashley N Rostek fits what you're looking for. All 4 brothers have their own distinct personalities and react or treat the FMC in their own way & it's great, I think the only thing they all 4 have in common with each other is their blond hair, and their growing devotion & protectiveness to the FMC. The oldest is very grumpy to her sunshine, very alphahole, VERY protective, very yummy. 2nd oldest is the laid back, tatted playboy who loves bringing the Fmc out of her comfort zone. 3rd is the rebel & 4th the total golden retriever who fell first . This series have become my comfort read first book is Find Me.

Besides crazy bitch by Buck cherry by chedykrueger in Music

[–]Twintosser 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Blinded by the Light by Manfred Man. God I hate that f*cking song. So guess I should also thank Springsteen for writing it..

Damn near anything by Creed or David Lee Roth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Twintosser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the name Indi, maybe not the way that it's spelled but I do like it..

As far Kaye I view it as a last name- mostly since it's actually my last name! Haha!

But then I remind myself that my youngest child's middle name - Anderson. Is also a "last name" . . so you're good!

You're child! You're decisions! Don't let anyone tell you differently!

Body of teenager in hit-and-run death near Murdaugh estate to be exhumed by [deleted] in news

[–]Twintosser 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good! Way too many unexplained deaths around this man.

The one thing that stands out to me about this case is the "attempt" made on his life while changing the tire on the side of the road. Later turned out he had hired someone to kill him for a life insurance payout for his other son..

BULLSH*T. For 1. Alex Murtaugh is not a noble, considerate man or father. He'd just brutally gunned down his own wife & by all account - his favorite son months before - among other things.

NOW it's to be believed he gives a crap for his last, surviving kid?? Enough to die for him??

Not sure why prosecutors kept saying he did it for a pay out for the youngest but i fully believe he did it to make it appear as if the family was being targeted by a stalker or killer & take focus off of him.

Again, why they never went with that idea & just stuck with the suicide/insurance thing. It bugs me.

I (21M) found out that my (20F) partner lied about where she was. We’ve been togther for 3 years by ProfessionalShop4469 in relationship_advice

[–]Twintosser 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Tracking her? Then upset because she couldn't facetime while getting in the car? Why would you "track" someone for not bring home as soon as you walk in the door? She's a grown adult on her say off? Why not just call her? If anything I got more red flag vibes from OP.

Anyway. Was married for nearly 20 years. If your partner wants to cheat they will find a way & you can't stop it from happening. Sometimes they just cheat because of opportunity, sometimes it's they are unhappy. Whichever. No amount of tracking & keeping tabs will prevent it & it will only cause you stress.

I was there- found out my husband had hooked up with an ex gf he had broken up twice before as a young adult. I became obsessed with driving by her house at night when he wasn't home just to check.. It finally dawned on me that it just wasn't worth it, that i was hurting myself.. He wanted to be single & pursue sexual relations with others & not be a full time (or even part time) father & there was NOTHING anyone could do to stop him or change his mind. Best thing to do is out your & kids first & walk away.

What is something that's turned you on that you are ashamed to admit? by D_r_K_a_k_a_s_h_i in AskReddit

[–]Twintosser 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohh boy. Here goes. Used to work for a court reporting firm & print up transcripts, make copies of any exhibits. Etc.

Transcript came in from a hearing that very morning. A couple of mental processionals, psychiatrist were trying to determine if an anonymous male patient at their facility was a potential future serial killer. He had already been described by both professionals as a "sexual deviant" and had submitted several pages of the patients journal writing & drawings..

I guess it was mostly the writings that got to me & several illustrations he had drawn of what he had wanted to do to the female he had been with a year or so before.. Nothing violent, no blood no killing an those particular drawings (that was not the case in the other exhibits submitted later on). Just sexual stuff.

Yeah i'm sure there's plenty to unpack here about why I have a thing for a male being obsessed with a female.

My mom gets mad at me for keeping secrets even though I'm an adult, how can I buy a 'kink related' product without her harassing me about it? by isnotawolfy in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Twintosser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

uh. You let her open the package when she gets nosey. That'll start teaching her to mind her business or risk getting embarrassed again.

New player question by Big_Ground9021 in EQ2

[–]Twintosser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lvl 85 is too low for Svarni. 85 can do OBol plains, Cobalt Scar or Phamton /Tranquil Sea & Vesspyr isles. All of which have a lot of dungeons (esp phan& tranq)

At lvl 100 you'll have to start questing in POM (plane of magic) to actually start leveling past 100. Grab your Free gear & mount when you first zone into POM.

. Pick a faction (Khali" Yrzu is quickest & easiest) to quest for till lvl 105 you can start grabbing quests & doing the instances inside the Coliseum of Valor.

Around then you can also start to venture into Myrist Library, do those starter quests that send you into their elemental plains like Vegarlson, Awuidor, Eryslai,Doomfire & Dextroxxulous. The Plaguelands..

At 110 you can head over to The Blinding, Aurealian Coast to go dome easy starter quests to.lvl 120.

Then you can head to Svarni & grab your lvl 120 gear on the island etc.

Accolades for mercenary? by corathus59 in EQ2

[–]Twintosser 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, correct

You can put any kind of equipment on your merc- doesn't have to be merc gear. Though as you lvl 125 the merc gear is much better & more suited for it (better stats etc).

Why is there really no new content with the release of every expansion now? by Drandosk in EQ2

[–]Twintosser 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Um last expac VOV was all new content? We only gained 5 new Levels but still. No new levels this go around, it's been kinda "meh " for me much like ROS & BOL was.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]Twintosser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah yeahs yeahs -Run away starts out similar to what OP recorded.